Topic: kick her in the face?
southern_bee's photo
Fri 06/04/10 09:27 PM

its hard to loan out money to family and never get it back ..but never loan money to friends ..sorry flowerforyou


i usually dont and i wont ever again..

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Fri 06/04/10 09:28 PM
:thumbsup: good for you i had to learn the hard way toflowerforyou

southern_bee's photo
Fri 06/04/10 09:30 PM

:thumbsup: good for you i had to learn the hard way toflowerforyou


and my mother wonder why i dont like/trust very many people lol..well at least i learned

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Fri 06/04/10 10:18 PM
Too bad you learnt the hard way.Never lend money to friends! Ihat is what banks are forlaugh

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 06/04/10 10:44 PM
Well if you won't use my milk chicken bomb idea...kick her in the face.smokin

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Fri 06/04/10 10:50 PM
laugh

fifijones's photo
Fri 06/04/10 10:57 PM
If you lend money,never expect it back. Expect it to be a donation, not a loan.

scorpio34's photo
Fri 06/04/10 11:08 PM
Just tell her you need it now. Do not tiptoe around the issue cause then you will never get it back. If you make a case of urgency out of it, then she should respond like her life depended on it...

imsingle951's photo
Fri 06/04/10 11:31 PM
Count the money as a loss, and the friendship also

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Fri 06/04/10 11:43 PM
Seriously kick her ***!

Headroller's photo
Fri 06/04/10 11:46 PM

Small claims court!

I second this, you can kick her face after!

lulu24's photo
Fri 06/04/10 11:50 PM
any time you loan money, in your mind...consider it a gift. she may be in a worse financial spot than you really know.

in the long run, $142 isn't enough to lose a friend over.

if not getting paid back bothers you, don't loan money. it's worth letting the money go just to get rid of the negative feeling.

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Sat 06/05/10 12:10 AM
Cost you $142.00's to find out she was never your friend

freeonthree's photo
Sat 06/05/10 12:30 AM
Go to her, sit her down, and explain to her that when she needed the money, you came thru for her, and if she doesn't make an attempt to pay you back, you'll take her to small claims court, and write her off.

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Sat 06/05/10 12:32 AM
Lol! free that does not work anymore

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Sat 06/05/10 12:36 AM
Tell you the truth that has never worked.She has lost her money.And will never get back.Worst thing she did was loan money.Never loan money to friend or family. Only strangers.winking

southern_bee's photo
Sat 06/05/10 05:48 PM

Tell you the truth that has never worked.She has lost her money.And will never get back.Worst thing she did was loan money.Never loan money to friend or family. Only strangers.winking



i think ill take the other option dont loan money to anybody lesson learned!flowerforyou

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Sat 06/05/10 07:58 PM
:thumbsup: Good for you southern.

southern_bee's photo
Sat 06/05/10 08:13 PM

:thumbsup: Good for you southern.


thanks hun!

at least i can lay my head down at night not feeling bad and knowing i tried to work with her!flowerforyou

AndyBgood's photo
Sat 06/05/10 08:37 PM
Where is the Godfather when you need him???