I have to agree with you on this one!!!

I agree also.

'Real' romance = Mogen David 20/20 and jelly glasses; 'Fake' romance = André Cold Duck & faux crystal

To be 'romantic' = 'Do what I say and nobody gets hurt ...'

'Drama' and 'in love' = unreality ... it's kinda like 'water' and 'oil' ...

This is not always desirable and it can sometimes be an ego thing on the part of the man. Since a man holds "having an orgasm" very high on his list of things he likes, he assumes that a woman wants that all the time too. Sometimes a woman is too tired and just wants it to be quick and over. But if a man's ego suffers if she does not reach climax and he insists (fiddling around) until she does, this can get to be very draining. Why do you think women fake orgasms? They do it because they know about the man's ego and they want him to feel good about himself, and they don't want to spend the whole night trying to get excited.

My advice to men is to get educated on what really turns a woman on and how to bring her to climax so she doesn't have to fake it for the sake of your ego or for the sake of getting it over with so she can get back to cooking and cleaning and getting wood for the fire and picking up your underwear, and changing the kid's diapers.

It's all about findin' that 'Gee ... !' spot, ain't it ... ?

If you have to ask.... then you need to know more.

http://www.love-pot.com/products.html

Or read some of David Deangelo's stuff, Double your Dating, and get some more field experience.

Do 'love-pot' sell 'lube' ... ? Just axin' ... Oh - that other comment wasn't really a question ...

They just want your money on those sites..... If you are confident with your sexuality and know how to express it, then you should be able to tell your partner exactly what to do to get you off. I don't need any manual!!

Y'know, it has always puzzled me that people who are naked together (and who are as vulnerable as they're ever gonna be to each other) can't tell their partner what makes 'em feel good. It's not complex - it can be just 'HEY! Let's remember THAT spot!' ... but they don't TALK ... that's where the 'romance' part falls to pieces ...

I have no problem in that department, I am very open about what i want when it comes to sex and i'm not afraid to express it.....but you can't base a whole relationship on it.

Really? I thought it was every one was on their own on that one.

For me, real romance is when the chick holds the door open for me. Sends me flowers and negligee' at work and sops up the puddle of drool from when I am sleeping really hard.

But those chicks are rare indeed.

I think romance is anything done, looking through
the eyes of love. Holding hands in a movie theater
for a couple hours, then having to run home to get
it on. Of this, the hand holding is the romantic part.

Like LadyLid said, someone listening to you, same thing.
The listening, not the answering, is the romantic part.
Maybe it is when you recognize..intent.
Like cleaning up someone's drool.
Unspoken..but obvious.

Probably it has a store. I don't know what all it sells.

You may not, but a lot of men do. Women are not under as much pressure as men to perform.

romance is .....someone who always remembers they love you, someone who does little thoughtful things for you(just because), someone that realizes that touch is a powerful thing and exercises it often, someone that always considers your feelings before acting impulsively, someone who communicates on an honest caring level and never leaves you to guess what wrong, and someone that is there to comfort you through good or bad because they connect with you on an emotional level

Romance is insanity.
Real romance is loving the insanity.

Like driving to the beach when you know there's not enough gas in the car to make it back.

Or going spray painting together.

Old-timey stuff like that.

Being romantic to me means being in tune with your heart, and honouring where it directs you; exploring it; and being authentic with what it feels.

It means the little things that are done for another purely out of wanting to give.

It means being able to receive because your SO feels complete when he gives as well.

Romantic- can it be defined as being dramatic and in love at the same time? Sure for some- for the ones who tend to be dramatic.
It means different things for different people.

You know that is a good question, like who defines this stuff any way. Like why I can not wear white after labor day.

yo dude you are to real