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Edited by
bedlum1
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im not promoting anything...i do give everyone a chance.....you are missing the point.....duh.......
i said judge them on current actions not their past ones....listen....... and your case in point is flawed.....attempts to make someone feel better being confused with me passing judgement and never giving the person that cheated on her a fair chance is very presumptuous on your part........... like i said...i never said i didnt judge...i said i dont judge peoples pasts ,,,specialy when i wasnt in it..... so try again.. 
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im not promoting anything...i do give everyone a chance.....you are missing the point.....duh....... i said judge them on current actions not their past one....listen you're right...his current actions have landed him in prison for armed robbery and attempted murder. when he is finished serving his time and can prove himself worth of joining the human race again then he may have a second chance. |
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here let me quote my OWN words for you
so pesonsaly i dont judge someone by their past record i judge them on the amount of respect they show and on their current actions...if they are acting a fool it shows they dont want to change and dont care...then i write them off |
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....... like i said before i give EVERYONE a chance, and i pay attention to peoples behavior, if they are Any of these---->(negative, spitefull, lying, greedy,selfish,angry, unthoughtful,manipulating etc etc) then i make my judgment...not of them but for myself/sanity...i write them off and move on.. |
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Edited by
bedlum1
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Thu 05/13/10 10:41 PM
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there are both types out there...those who change and those who pretend.. noone said throw caution to the wind... i personaly wont go around distrusting someone because of their record... when i say act a fool i mean they did their time... but they are lying here and there displaying questionable behavior...etc etc....that tells me they are full of it....so until i catch them in say "a little white lie" or they act selfish and dont try to lend a friendly hand or any other red flag material, i will treat them like i do anyone else... i think these pretty much say that i do judge....but on a current behavior basis....like i've been saying not on their past....thats all...(takes a bow) 
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hey, you are allowed to change your post once i have answered it...
spinning it will not help your cause! |
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and where do you find this guy in question, at the moment?
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hey, you are allowed to change your post once i have answered it... spinning it will not help your cause! 
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Edited by
kc0003
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Thu 05/13/10 10:50 PM
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i think these pretty much say that i do judge....but on a current behavior basis....like i've been saying not on their past....thats all...(takes a bow) and where do you find this guy in question, at the moment? |
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Edited by
kc0003
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Thu 05/13/10 10:51 PM
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hey, you are allowed to change your post once i have answered it... spinning it will not help your cause! i'm talking about you first post to mine tonight...i answered you and then your went and changed it...it was a JOKE! |
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Edited by
kc0003
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Thu 05/13/10 11:02 PM
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so everyone of the people i listed before gets a second chance from you? honestly?
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and where do you find this guy in question, at the moment? |
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hey, you are allowed to change your post once i have answered it... spinning it will not help your cause! i'm talking about you first post to mine tonight...i answered you and then your went and changed it...it was a JOKE! 
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he coulda told her he was upset and sorry for the shooting and his intent wasnt to shoot just to show it...does that make it better?....no.......but that would show that his intent was just to rob ,not kill someone to Methinks, someone watches Hollywood movies too much When you threaten with guns, someone gets hurt. You never get out of a knife fight without cutting cut yourself. Really now. The minute he pulled the gun out, he ran the risk of shooting someone. That was the intent. THAT'S what it wrong with society today, and why kids are "accidentally" blowing each others brains out, because they are playing with the gun and not taking it seriously. A gun is not a toy or an idle threat. |
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and where do you find this guy in question, at the moment? ok i'll give you that, (though i do not believe it) but do you really feel like this is the best type of situation for her to pursue? |
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im not promoting anything...i do give everyone a chance.....you are missing the point.....duh....... i said judge them on current actions not their past ones....listen....... and your case in point is flawed.....attempts to make someone feel better being confused with me passing judgement and never giving the person that cheated on her a fair chance is very presumptuous on your part........... like i said...i never said i didnt judge...i said i dont judge peoples pasts ,,,specialy when i wasnt in it..... so try again.. presumptuous? nothing you posted afterward or in the days to follow suggest you were trying to "make her feel better" you were hitting on her. can you not be honest about that? |
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Ok I'll try again....
People can and do turn their lives around, this has not been disputed by anyone here. That said, don’t you think the world has enough evil in it without having to search for it? When we invite trouble, trouble usually shows up. When we make poor decisions poor results tend to follow. Wouldn’t you rather see this girl pursue a more functional, healthy relationship? Do you remember her first post on this? She said she would NOT go visit him or send him anything other than letters. In the month since, she has changed her status from being single to “involved” she has gone to see him and plans on doing it again. She is developing an emotional attachment to him and now all bets are off. He is in control. I truly hope this doesn’t turn out bad, I do, but I can’t believe anyone would condone and encourage a child of a person not too far removed from high school to engage in this sort of behavior. |
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This is the only thing he has ever done. They throw the book at him..he got 22 years!! He robbed a store at gun point an the gun went off, he didn't mean for it to go off. The female was shot but did not get hurt bad. She is still alive. I just don't understand why he got so much time, that's crazy! I did all of my research on him an there is nothing else in his past. He has been locked up for 11 years in November. An he is going to try to file to get out in 2 years. 22 years is a little much for first time offense. I know a lot about him, his past an his plans for when he gets out. Ah.....no he took a gun into a high risk situation of his own creation and did not take the welfare of the poor person who was only trying to get through their work day without some sorry SOB sticking a gun in their face or I don"t know........SHOOTING them!!!!!! Feel sorry for some working slob who takes care of his family on three minimum wage jobs and goes without so his kids might have more. DO NOT feel sorry for this hazard to society that laid every brick in the road that got him where he is. |
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The main thing her is we support Red in what ever she wants to do cause she is a VERY precious lady on here and we will be her for her no matter what!!
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this thread is still going? awsome!! lol
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