DATING TIPS, 10 SECRETS WOMEN WANT MEN TO KNOW!


There are many things that women wish that guys knew, but will never
tell them. The problem is that if the girl has to tell the guy, it will
ruin the relationship. For guys, this seems like an impossible position
? ?she knows what she wants, but won?t tell me.? Here are the top ten
things that women wish guys knew.

1. Lead ? Women won?t tell men that they want them to lead, because just
having to say it means that the guy does not lead. A leader does not
need permission; they take the risk and just do it.

2. Ask her advice ? This may seem contradictory to number 1, but it is
not. Women want men to lead, but they want to be part of their lives and
they want to be respected. The best way that to accomplish both of these
is for the guy to decide what they want to do, tell her, then ask for
her opinion.

3. Women choose guys on how they make them feel. Any guy who can make a
girl feel appreciated, protected and cherished is on his way to winning
her heart.

4. Make her laugh! Don?t take life too seriously. It can be tough being
a woman. There are many roles to play ? daughter, sister, wife and many
goals to meet - good-looking, thin, coordinated clothing, etc. Give her
a break! If a guy can show her that she does not have to be perfect to
be accepted, he will be an unusual guy and she will love him for it.

5. Hold the door ? Its something that women?s upbringing may tell them
is not needed ? after all she is independent, but women will usually
like it anyway. Guys do not have to knock her down to get to the door
first every time, but getting in the habit of opening doors when he can
is a good thing.

6. Never start a conversation with an apology ? ?Excuse me??, ?Sorry to
bother you??. She may think the guy is polite, but he is violating rule
number 1.

7. If a guy is in a loving relationship, hold hands! It shows that he
cares for her and that he is not afraid of showing it in front of
others. She will never tell him, but if he does it, he will have a
happier life.

8. Call Her!! After every date, call her within a few days. Email,
voice mail and text messaging do not count. Calling her as soon as he
gets back to the apartment may be too soon, but any time later will be
OK.

9. Even if she asks for the absolute truth, be careful about criticizing
her appearance. If a guy builds a fence around the back yard and asks a
woman, ?What do you think?? he does not want her to check the plumb on
every post and let him know how he might improve his fence building! He
wants her to say that it looks good! Same with her appearance. Guys, be
very careful of how you answer!

10. Be passionate about something ? in addition to her. This goes back
to leadership. Men should have a sense of what they want to accomplish
and how they are going to do it. Share your dreams and plans with her.
This is one area where it is OK for guys to talk about something at some
length. Even if she does not share his dream, she will respect him for
having one.

It is one of the problems in dating, that there are things that most
women want and expect in a man that not all men understand. The rules of
dating and behavior are being constantly rewritten and can seem
confusing. The rules above have withstood the test of time and are as
valid today as they were 200 years ago.


FEEL FREE TO JUMP IN WITH MORE SUGGESTIONS OR YOUR THOUGHTS IF YOU THINK
THESE ARE WRONG!!

HAPPY READING !!

Great post Kristi...fair amount of truth in all of them. I figure that if a man can get fairly good at these things or even a sincere effort, then number three would be attained..

". Women choose guys on how they make them feel. Any guy who can make a
girl feel appreciated, protected and cherished is on his way to winning
her heart."

Then I am gonna be:

don't tell our secrets Kristi that's the only edge I have on men

But but.........if we don't tell them how will they ever know???

Do I have to teach you everything???

They are supposed to read our minds....duh

Ahhhh Sorry it took me so long to add to this thread. I was reading minds all day.

Duhhhhhhhhhhh and how will that happen when they only have one thing on their mind?.............

hmmmm good point Kristi. Ok but do we have to give out ALL of our secrets? Doesn't this go against the woman's handbook or something? Can't they take your woman's badge for this?

quick....what are we thinking?

Naw the guys have to read it first and now really how many do you think will take the time too read it all ???????........Sooooooooo I think I'm safe keeping the badge

RULE #11: Go down on your chick! That is all!!!!

I forgot...men don't follow directions

Ohhhhhhhh hell brownie points for Goof

Seeeeeeeeee sooooooooo I'm safe keeping my badge hehehe

rule #11....don't give kudos to goof. It expands his head and he can't get out the door

You didn't complain last night Kim.

big mouth Besides....you wouldn't even let me scream for help

I`m so "well trained" I even put the toilet seat back down. Just for her.

Don`t shoot me, I`m just telling the truth and messing with ya.

only if it's done efficiently....

Funny the toilet seat issue is not a big thing with me. If I see it up I go in and put it down. I always keep a light on in the bathroom so never a problem of falling in in the dark. Best thing is always look before you sit if not then it's your own fault you fall in....