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Topic: What would you think???
thewaterbearer's photo
Sat 05/01/10 08:08 PM
If you were going out with someone and they would not invite you over to there place and they say it is because the place is a mess and and they don't make a move to even ask you out even for a cup of coffee but yet they expect you to do things with them at least 3 times a week outside of there home, but you have invited them over and they ignore the thought that you invited them over, I don't understand this I would seriously think this person was hiding something any thoughts

papersmile's photo
Sat 05/01/10 08:12 PM
does he only call you, receive calls, at specific times?

have you met any of his friends/family/coworkers?

i think i'd ask to meet for lunch, and show up at his work to take him out. if he refused, i'd either think he was involved with someone or embarassed of me. both situations would be deal breakers.

thewaterbearer's photo
Sat 05/01/10 08:15 PM

does he only call you, receive calls, at specific times?

have you met any of his friends/family/coworkers?

i think i'd ask to meet for lunch, and show up at his work to take him out. if he refused, i'd either think he was involved with someone or embarassed of me. both situations would be deal breakers.

I haven't met his family I notice the phone calls are really short and he just got his internet cutoff we were talking alot through email

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 05/01/10 08:16 PM
Red flags..be cautious

BL4766's photo
Sat 05/01/10 08:17 PM
personally.........id walk away..........flowerforyou

things are alil "fishy"......and it SOUNDS like he may
be hiding ALOT of things!

no photo
Sat 05/01/10 08:20 PM
Well, did you ever think that he may be part of a CIA covert operation with the "Food Stamp Office", because there have been some stamp books that have been missing ever since Obama took office?

And that if you found out too much info about it, he'd have to kill you...which he don't want to do...cause he really, really cares about you and your safety!

I mean, just saying! drinks what drinks

Gotfu's photo
Sat 05/01/10 08:20 PM
Homeboy has a wife, open your eyes.

thewaterbearer's photo
Sat 05/01/10 08:20 PM
Yes the red flags I think I will walk awayohwell

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 05/01/10 08:24 PM

Yes the red flags I think I will walk awayohwell


You deserve better, walk away with your head held high flowerforyou

thewaterbearer's photo
Sat 05/01/10 08:26 PM


Yes the red flags I think I will walk awayohwell


You deserve better, walk away with your head held high flowerforyou

Thank you Ladylidflowerforyou

Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 05/01/10 08:29 PM



Yes the red flags I think I will walk awayohwell


You deserve better, walk away with your head held high flowerforyou

Thank you Ladylidflowerforyou


:heart: flowers

Derekkye's photo
Sat 05/01/10 08:46 PM
or you could mention to him what you wrote here - in defense of this guy my place is a mess, and I'd only invite a woman over if I knew she would clean it...noway :tongue:

no photo
Sat 05/01/10 08:56 PM
I had a guy do that to me years ago. Only gave me his office number, said he worked a lot so he was there all the time. Sounded fishy, so I tracked down his home phone...and had a nice chat with...




his wife. bigsmile

thewaterbearer's photo
Sat 05/01/10 08:58 PM

I had a guy do that to me years ago. Only gave me his office number, said he worked a lot so he was there all the time. Sounded fishy, so I tracked down his home phone...and had a nice chat with...




his wife. bigsmile

Oopsies he got bustedlaugh flowerforyou

nikita5's photo
Sat 05/01/10 09:01 PM
Always follow ur instincts- if u feel at all that someone is hiding something they almost always are.Walking away is the best option.flowerforyou

thewaterbearer's photo
Sat 05/01/10 09:04 PM

Always follow ur instincts- if u feel at all that someone is hiding something they almost always are.Walking away is the best option.flowerforyou


Thank youflowerforyou

no photo
Sat 05/01/10 09:07 PM
I hope he's just being flaky, but if not, you're better off knowing
now. Being played and getting betrayed really sucks. flowerforyou

misstina2's photo
Sat 05/01/10 09:29 PM

thewaterbearer's photo
Sat 05/01/10 09:34 PM




Thank you those are wise wordsflowerforyou That is awesome

Goofball73's photo
Sat 05/01/10 09:39 PM
I think you should marry him.tongue2 :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

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