So, I have dated a lot of guys, and they always are extremely different in more ways than one. They always seem to say they want one thing and then contradict themselves. So my question is, in all honesty, what is a guy looking for? And I dont mean a girl as a hook up, but a genuine human being that could turn something new into a relationship. Tell me guys, what do you really want?

I cant speak for all men... But Im very partial to women that aren't full of themselves. There are more words in the English language than me, i. Also women have that same " this is what i want. .Than you break your back giving it to them. Then it changes to somthing different. anyway. A cool chick who is flexible in all situations , doesn't nag nor complain too much and takes care of herself is a keeper in my book. And of course there has to be a mutual understanding about the sexual side...... So 50%+ 50%= 100%

Interesting and I partially agree? A mutual understanding is often difficult, but I suppose it is achievable eventually. I myself believe that if I want someone who is going to take care of themselves then I need to take care of myself. But in my defensive I am not a "typical" girl.

HHHmmmmm....

I just want a lady that won't get sI-Iitfaced and fall down the stairs...

Or keep everything shes mad about inside until she loses her mind...

Id rather her keep that siht inside so o do lose my mind listening to it....

Or has boyfriends all over town...

I went on a date a couple of weeks ago, and as we were sitting in her driveway, her boyfriend punched my passenger window and pulled her outta the car...

And there ain't no such aminal as a "typical girl".....

Damnn homeboy woulda caught one for busting my window.... Can keep the skank. But Damnn sorry bro. ....Damnn snakes

down to earth, honest, simple, and willing to put out. that should just about cover it. but every man is gonna add something to this list of basics. my addition would be faithfulness and understanding.

Personally, I want a woman that doesnt cheat. Thats it.

Ive found that guys dont always like honesty. I am disgustingly and often blunt when it comes to being honest. I dont take any crap and if people dont like me then they dont. And it is wrong to date more then one person at a time. And "putting out" seriously? How do guys feel about abstinece?

I want to have a family of my own some day. I would like to find a woman that shares many of the same core moral values as me, one I can walk through life with, sharing the good times, bad times, and everything in between, creating a life together full of love, and happiness. I guess you could say I'm looking for my soulmate... weel, someone I could make my soulmate... I guess.