Topic: I have'nt had any luck
Hawkwind8's photo
Fri 04/09/10 02:26 PM
Is my profile OK. Any suggestions would be appreciated. Thank you.

Chris

Etrain's photo
Fri 04/09/10 02:47 PM
:banana: :banana: :banana: Change your settings to "Intimate encounter" and score tonight:banana: :banana: :banana:

bedlum1's photo
Fri 04/09/10 02:49 PM
Edited by bedlum1 on Fri 04/09/10 02:51 PM

Is my profile OK. Any suggestions would be appreciated. Thank you.

Chris
its all good just join in the sillieness and let your humor show...welome aboard brodrinker

no photo
Fri 04/09/10 03:15 PM
As a gal looking at your profile, I have to say....

If I were still looking, I'd want more photos, for one thing.

And, I see your age. Are you just looking for a date or are you wanting a relationship? When I see a 41 y/o man looking to "date", my mind says you just want someone to hang with, no future. We all "date". You have to in order to find a relationship. But for me, in my 40's, I tired of "dating", (and have actually hopefully truly found my sweet baboo now!) Now, if you are REALLY only looking for a breezy date or two or three, sure, leave it as is. But if you are hoping to find that long term someone, change your deal to "looking for a relationship". It's just that more often than not, women my age seem to be looking for a relationship, a keeper, a future. Not all, but pretty much my experience in knowing other nice ladies in my age group. Got lots of guys around for dates, though.

Again, just my input......... Best wishes to you!

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 04/09/10 03:41 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Fri 04/09/10 03:48 PM
HI and welcome waving

Your profile is rather blasé. You don’t really provide enough information to inspire conversation or for a member to jump at emailing you.

For lack of better phraseology, you seem like a couch potato or a character from “Dude, where’s my car?”. Wait! Before you get upset with my honesty hear me out. Some guys try TOO hard to be casual about dating.

You seem so casual because you use terms like “hang out” and “chill” which makes you seem directionless. If that is the vibe you truly wish to represent then by all means don’t change a thing; however, for a girl that is looking for more than a hang-out buddy or for someone who seeks a romantic, active man that also wants a grown-up relationship, you probably do not appeal to that audience. If you aren't that guy - and you want a girl exactly like you - then I suppose your profile is right on target.

I would eliminate the message about head-games. I've found that most people who mention drama are drawn to drama. If you use common sense then you won't need to send a foreboding message. Besides, most of the 19 year old use that line. laugh

You may want to add more about what you actually do; travel, career, education; goals. Also provide a little insight to the type of girl that you are interested in meeting.

JOIN THE FORUMS! Being proactive in the discussions will assist you in forging new friendships. :banana:

Teditis's photo
Fri 04/09/10 03:45 PM
Hi and Welcome. waving

sounds like you're already some good advice... so, stick with the forums checkout some other profiles and get some ideas that work for you... and hang in there.
GL