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what if i dont want to make all the decisions in the relationship? what
if i want a job and he doesnt want me to get one? what if he gets jealous too easily? what if he goes to prison? my life is complicated and there are way too many what if's... how do u get them to go away? |
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by making a decision on the what ares
and not worrying about the what ifs |
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you cant make them go away you need to fin away of dealing with them
wanting them to away is ignoring them and that doesnt help b/c then you in denial. |
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You don't, you work around them through whatever ever you gotta do to
carry on..... |
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find a different relationship
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or simply ask....
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hmmmm...either deal with all of them or say...sorry, this ain't gonna
work.I't's life, kiddo! |
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Well said Dr. Phil. Now can I have some of those magic mushrooms?
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I have some especially for you, darlin'....CHOCOLATE
DIPPED!!!!!....yummmmmmm yummmmmmmm! |
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you think about what you really have to deal with and what you are just
putting into your head to freak yourself out. and if you really honestly have consernes about the relationship your in there is no problem in slowing down and asking for directions (in other words really talking to him about it) he may tell you things that will make you think why did you ever even consider thinking that. and he might need some reassurance as well. good luck |
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Not making a decision is a decison in itself....
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