Topic: what if....
faithful69's photo
Fri 06/15/07 07:58 PM
what if i dont want to make all the decisions in the relationship? what
if i want a job and he doesnt want me to get one? what if he gets
jealous too easily? what if he goes to prison? my life is complicated
and there are way too many what if's... how do u get them to go away?

adj4u's photo
Fri 06/15/07 08:00 PM
by making a decision on the what ares

and not worrying about the what ifs

Sportychic's photo
Fri 06/15/07 08:00 PM
you cant make them go away you need to fin away of dealing with them
wanting them to away is ignoring them and that doesnt help b/c then you
in denial.

HangedMan's photo
Fri 06/15/07 08:03 PM
You don't, you work around them through whatever ever you gotta do to
carry on.....

nurjoyce's photo
Fri 06/15/07 08:04 PM
find a different relationship

s1owhand's photo
Fri 06/15/07 08:05 PM
or simply ask....

thedoctor's photo
Fri 06/15/07 08:16 PM
hmmmm...either deal with all of them or say...sorry, this ain't gonna
work.I't's life, kiddo!

SheNerd's photo
Fri 06/15/07 08:17 PM
Well said Dr. Phil. Now can I have some of those magic mushrooms?

thedoctor's photo
Fri 06/15/07 08:19 PM
I have some especially for you, darlin'....CHOCOLATE
DIPPED!!!!!....yummmmmmm yummmmmmmm!

morethanjust_janedoe's photo
Fri 06/15/07 08:30 PM
you think about what you really have to deal with and what you are just
putting into your head to freak yourself out. and if you really honestly
have consernes about the relationship your in there is no problem in
slowing down and asking for directions (in other words really talking to
him about it) he may tell you things that will make you think why did
you ever even consider thinking that. and he might need some reassurance
as well. good luck

no photo
Fri 06/15/07 08:45 PM
Not making a decision is a decison in itself....