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Doesn't it bother you to have someone to call friend when they really don't act like a friend? And I'm talking about people you see either everyday or from time to time.
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Edited by
jlove43
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Thu 04/01/10 10:42 PM
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Yes, it's annoying. I just ignore and reject the people that aren't my REAL friends or real people. I am a great judge of character. Was right on the money with a few just recently. You are the company you keep, and I am blessed with wonderful REAL friends on here and in real life. I surround myself with positive, kind people. And for that, I am thankful and blessed.
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Yeah, it does. I had three "friends" like that. I stopped speaking to them, to me a friend is more than just a word.
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That's why although I have many that I call friends, I know
without a doubt the few that I can call true friends, and if I have someone in the latter category, the feeling is mutual, and we both know that it is unconditional. 
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So true. I try to be friends with just about everybody. I cherish friendship. Unfortunately, I had to say good-bye to a so-called friend. A guy friend too.
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That's why although I have many that I call friends, I know without a doubt the few that I can call true friends, and if I have someone in the latter category, the feeling is mutual, and we both know that it is unconditional. |
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I'm not one to be F'd over & then expected to forgive easily. A real friend doesn't brush you off at the drop of a hat or ignore you like I have had some to do. They'll be there with you when you need them the most!! Had a RL friend go out of his way tonight to help me out with something & I know I can count on him when I need a true friend!!
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I'm not one to be F'd over & then expected to forgive easily. A real friend doesn't brush you off at the drop of a hat or ignore you like I have had some to do. They'll be there with you when you need them the most!! Had a RL friend go out of his way tonight to help me out with something & I know I can count on him when I need a true friend!! That's cool. 
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Lots of people who say they are my " friend ".
Only one or two that actually know much of anything about me. Usually, I am only their friend when they need to vent or something. |
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I'm not one to be F'd over & then expected to forgive easily. A real friend doesn't brush you off at the drop of a hat or ignore you like I have had some to do. They'll be there with you when you need them the most!! Had a RL friend go out of his way tonight to help me out with something & I know I can count on him when I need a true friend!! And that's what the person did to me. Brush me off every time. I'm glad you had a real friend go out of his way to help you. The best to have around...and to count on. |
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So true. I try to be friends with just about everybody. I cherish friendship. Unfortunately, I had to say good-bye to a so-called friend. A guy friend too. It's hard to have to give up on someone. Even if you're doing it for the right reasons, it still hurts. I've had to cut a couple people in the last several years, with so much going on I didn't need extra, unnecessary drama and negativity in my life, so as much as I occasioanlly miss the person, I know my decision was for the better, and we still have the good memories.  Ok...some of that sounded better in my head, lol, but I hope my point was somewhat clear. I have a migraine again, and I should know better by now than to type with one.  I'm goin' to bed.
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So true. I try to be friends with just about everybody. I cherish friendship. Unfortunately, I had to say good-bye to a so-called friend. A guy friend too. It's hard to have to give up on someone. Even if you're doing it for the right reasons, it still hurts. I've had to cut a couple people in the last several years, with so much going on I didn't need extra, unnecessary drama and negativity in my life, so as much as I occasioanlly miss the person, I know my decision was for the better, and we still have the good memories. Ok...some of that sounded better in my head, lol, but I hope my point was somewhat clear. I have a migraine again, and I should know better by now than to type with one. I'm goin' to bed. That's precisely my point. I had to cut people out that create drama and bring pain and bad karma into my life. That's okay to do; why bring negativity into your life?
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Lots of people who say they are my " friend ". Only one or two that actually know much of anything about me. Usually, I am only their friend when they need to vent or something. Well, I really do need to vent & I could use a little exta cach if you got a few bucks to spare!!  Seriously I know what you mean. I'm one of those who puts myself in situations to be used by so-called friends & then when I get ticked at them I have to take a look back at myself & see what part I played in getting used. Usually somewhere I see that I have some part to blame in the situation too!!!
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Jlove, LeighAnna, Indigo, LittleIke, Tessa, and JustaGuy...thank you all for your thoughts and comments. If another member comments and I missed them, I apologize and will recognize you soon (if I don't disappear...it's sleepy time).
Indigo: I hope that migraine is gone by morning. I understood what you wrote too. 
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All I can say is that my cell phone bill is going to be high because I texted so many times to the same person. I just hope he doesn't try to contact me. He should know...I shouldn't have to explain. I just wish him the best in life.
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