Topic: Whats wrong with me?
cpl4life's photo
Wed 03/24/10 05:22 AM
I personally dont think I look too much different than any other guys my age, but yet I cant meet a good woman to save my own rear end. Is it my face, or is my profile just too dull, I have good qualities that I think good women would love in a guy. I'm loyal, I dont cheat, and am all about taking things slow. I've only had two semi serious relationships and one serious one in my life, and the serious one just ended a couple of months ago, after knowing her for five years. So I guess, maybe I just suck at trying to find a good woman, well will some descent women please give me some constructive criticism please? Thank you.

Etrain's photo
Wed 03/24/10 05:38 AM
scared scared scared Its your facescared scared scared

cpl4life's photo
Wed 03/24/10 05:41 AM
lol, thanks, at least I know now. sad

Etrain's photo
Wed 03/24/10 05:46 AM

lol, thanks, at least I know now. sad

drool But your profile is very erotic indeeddrool

Rabina's photo
Wed 03/24/10 06:27 AM
hi there,

whoever you are.relax.don't stress yourself to find someone now.nothing wrong with ur profile neither with ur face.just time din't came yet.sorry for the pain u need to go through after havin relationship with a women whom u spend yrs.just wanna say,take time and relax.
i went through same situation so i know how it is.your time is coming soon.don't give up.



kissesflowerforyou

FaithfulOne78's photo
Wed 03/24/10 06:30 AM
((Cpl)) hang in there sweetie you will find her in due time..good things come to those who wait and are patient enough. Your profile is good..and your not a bad lookin guy..you will find someone worthy of you in due time..just hang in there sweets.flowerforyou

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 03/24/10 06:55 AM
Hi!

Your spending to much time stressing!

Just go about your life..

When ya thrashing about looking for it ya just become crazy!

Sit back

Relax

have a beer

shell come strolln in.....:heart:



Tammy

metalwing's photo
Wed 03/24/10 07:10 AM
You just haven't learned the magic stick trick. Women love a man with a magic stick.

Go to a trick shop and get a magician's wand. When you see an interesting woman, go give her a little whack. You will then be guaranteed to have an interesting conversation and the opportunity to get to know her better. She will be impressed with your "take charge" attitude and thankful that you did not cause permanent damage.

FaithfulOne78's photo
Wed 03/24/10 07:19 AM

You just haven't learned the magic stick trick. Women love a man with a magic stick.

Go to a trick shop and get a magician's wand. When you see an interesting woman, go give her a little whack. You will then be guaranteed to have an interesting conversation and the opportunity to get to know her better. She will be impressed with your "take charge" attitude and thankful that you did not cause permanent damage.


laugh laugh omg!

May777's photo
Wed 03/24/10 08:43 AM

I personally dont think I look too much different than any other guys my age, but yet I cant meet a good woman to save my own rear end. Is it my face, or is my profile just too dull, I have good qualities that I think good women would love in a guy. I'm loyal, I dont cheat, and am all about taking things slow. I've only had two semi serious relationships and one serious one in my life, and the serious one just ended a couple of months ago, after knowing her for five years. So I guess, maybe I just suck at trying to find a good woman, well will some descent women please give me some constructive criticism please? Thank you.


you`re looking at it all the wrong way,..you need to lighten up on yourself,..

you say you suck at trying to find a good woman,..( yet you`ve found two already,..two more than I`ve had )

and it`s only been a couple months,..( since last one ) shows you were faithful anyways,.but it`s only been a couple months,..ask some what it`s like after a couple years,..then a couple more,..

I`d say you have a fairly decent track record,..you`ve just been attached,..

question ? why the hurry to find another,..maybe you can enjoy the single life for awhile,.spoil yourself for a change

my advice to you is,.cut yourself some slack and just enjoy yourself drinker by yourself and if she`s meant to come along,.you`ll meet her bigsmile


May777's photo
Wed 03/24/10 08:45 AM


I personally dont think I look too much different than any other guys my age, but yet I cant meet a good woman to save my own rear end. Is it my face, or is my profile just too dull, I have good qualities that I think good women would love in a guy. I'm loyal, I dont cheat, and am all about taking things slow. I've only had two semi serious relationships and one serious one in my life, and the serious one just ended a couple of months ago, after knowing her for five years. So I guess, maybe I just suck at trying to find a good woman, well will some descent women please give me some constructive criticism please? Thank you.


you`re looking at it all the wrong way,..you need to lighten up on yourself,..

you say you suck at trying to find a good woman,..( yet you`ve found two already,..two more than I`ve had )

and it`s only been a couple months,..( since last one ) shows you were faithful anyways,.but it`s only been a couple months,..ask some what it`s like after a couple years,..then a couple more,..

I`d say you have a fairly decent track record,..you`ve just been attached,..

question ? why the hurry to find another,..maybe you can enjoy the single life for awhile,.spoil yourself for a change

my advice to you is,.cut yourself some slack and just enjoy yourself drinker by yourself and if she`s meant to come along,.you`ll meet her bigsmile




ps " two more relationships than I`ve had,.not two more women,.. blushing "

no photo
Wed 03/24/10 09:08 AM

You just haven't learned the magic stick trick. Women love a man with a magic stick.

Go to a trick shop and get a magician's wand. When you see an interesting woman, go give her a little whack. You will then be guaranteed to have an interesting conversation and the opportunity to get to know her better. She will be impressed with your "take charge" attitude and thankful that you did not cause permanent damage.


Heh-heh-heh ... she'll also be a-thinkin' about that li'l 'whack' and whether or not it constitutes 'assault' ... these days, fun and that 'interesting conversation' comes with a price tag, y' know ... otherwise, a good tip - if you have 'independent counsel' ...

metalwing's photo
Wed 03/24/10 09:19 AM


You just haven't learned the magic stick trick. Women love a man with a magic stick.

Go to a trick shop and get a magician's wand. When you see an interesting woman, go give her a little whack. You will then be guaranteed to have an interesting conversation and the opportunity to get to know her better. She will be impressed with your "take charge" attitude and thankful that you did not cause permanent damage.


Heh-heh-heh ... she'll also be a-thinkin' about that li'l 'whack' and whether or not it constitutes 'assault' ... these days, fun and that 'interesting conversation' comes with a price tag, y' know ... otherwise, a good tip - if you have 'independent counsel' ...


Yes, this technique could have a statistical "downside". :wink:

However the actual point was to get a girl you need to be confident and a little aggressive (the amount varies with everyone).

You need to have a sense of humor.

You need to be original, entertaining, and inventive.

To keep the girl is a whole different problem but having a magic stick couldn't hurt.:wink:

AGoodGuy1026's photo
Wed 03/24/10 09:53 AM
you sound needy...

$.02 drinker

cpl4life's photo
Wed 03/24/10 09:58 AM
Well thanks for replying y'all, I guess I'll just take it easy and just chill out. Thanks alot for the constructive criticism and some encouragement too.

no photo
Wed 03/24/10 10:45 AM
If you're not having luck on here, it might be due to your screen name? I read it as "couple for life" meaning you're already involved with someone and maybe looking for a third person. Not sure how other people take it, but that's just what I got from it. So if I was looking for someone, I would pass on a screen name like that. JMO

cpl4life's photo
Wed 03/24/10 11:06 AM
I didnt think about that, thanks, I just assumed everyone knew cpl is just short for corporal, since thats what I was discharged as in the Marine Corps, I'll have to start explaining that more, lol. Now I feel kinda silly.

no photo
Wed 03/24/10 11:29 AM
Well, some people might read it as "corporal;" I'm not familiar with the military or their abbreviations, so that never occurred to me. It's just that I've seen many online profiles with "cpl" in the screen name and it's always a man and woman looking for a 3way. Hopefully, others will be more familiar with the military than I am, and they won't make that mistake.drinker

metalwing's photo
Wed 03/24/10 02:22 PM
Please don't take this as me being mean as that is not the intent but after reading your post and looking at your screen name I thought it stood for "Crippled for life". I thought you were feeling sorry for yourself. I was trying to add a little humor in my previous post to cheer you up.