lol...

I have to ask. I saw this lady at a resteraunt a couple weeks ago
having dinenr with er grandmother. no ring on, no indication of being
with someone. we talked a couple times in the buffet line but other
than that nothing. She happened to be sitting in the booth next to
mine.
When I left I wrote a note to her explaining I did not want to interrupt
her dinner with her mother (yes I know I said grandmother earlier lol),
but that I had liekd what I had seen and heard (while int he buffet
line), and gave her my number leaving it up to her to call me if
interested.

Was this a major feaux passe or did I handle it properly?

By the way I had it delivered by the waiter so I would not interrupt her
dinner.

That's a very James Bond way of handling it. Are you sure she saw you or
does she know it was you who sent the note?

In my opinion, that was about as good as it gets. Non-intrusive,
non-invasive, let her decide whether to call or not, courteously not
interrupting the dinner -- I don't see anything anyone could complain
about. Of course, I have a history of getting these things totally
wrong, but it sounds like a pretty classy move to me....

You done good, my man!!!!

i woulda been hella impressed u did good!

Sounds good to me. The hardest part is often the first move, just making
it...makes a big difference.

I thought so myself, but naturally no call back

lol but what abot hte women in here? Whats your opinion?

I honestly believed either she didn't know it was you, or wasn't
interested or was confused by the whole situation.

Regardless I think it was a classy way you did it.

Ive decided you have done wrong and that is my final answer!!!!

You did well. that's how I would have done it..

I wouldn't of called..
I would be too shy.

awwwwww gypsy...give it up for the guy!..

Wow, I'm suprised at the women's answers on this one.
I wouldn't have left the note because it seems cheesy.
I guess I'm wrong.
Nice move dude.

haha cheesy?

yeah, Wicked Cheesy. lol
Did I just date myself??

Johnny, I'm surprised by the responses also. I mean, more power to
Daniel, be yourself man and whatever works, works. But 'generally
speaking' I didn't think women saw receiving notes from strangers in
restaurants as 'classy', but I guess I'm wrong.

Nice on the move Daniel. Yeh, Johny, your dating yourself!

You know, I can see it now... the respectfully non-obtrusive route...

Fear of rejection and rejection itself is a very hard thin but you had
the courage to go for it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Goog job!

Dating yourself is OK. You never have to worry about diseases.