Topic: Deal Breakers....
msharmony's photo
Sat 03/20/10 12:04 AM
Edited by msharmony on Sat 03/20/10 12:06 AM
whiny/needy personality, poor hygiene, or no respect for God and family

oh also, not having kids,, ( i dont want to be an obstacle to anyone having their 'own' and I am NOT having anymore)

r0ck3tt3's photo
Sat 03/20/10 12:45 AM
A clingy fella. I mean i'm all for you showin' me some love 'n all... buuuut... there is a fine line between treating me well and creeping me out by being by my side 24/7. I'm a strong independent woman and sometimes I need my space. Literally, breathing room.

navygirl's photo
Sat 03/20/10 08:36 AM
A deal breaker is a single dad with kids under 18.

CatsLoveMe's photo
Sat 03/20/10 09:12 AM
stale wine or coffee and milk breath.sick

Etrain's photo
Sat 03/20/10 09:44 AM
ill Excessive nose hairill

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Sat 03/20/10 09:58 AM

We all have them. I'll start. I dated this guy a long time ago. Great dude. Cooked for me, we went fishing, camping, hiking. He would build me a fire inside or a bonfire outside and we could have fun doing nothing at all. Fantastic sex, too. (I always wanted to have a cigarette, and I don't even smoke!!) So, what was the problem you ask? I'll tell you.

HE DID NOT USE DEODORANT. surprised

So, what's YOUR deal breaker?
To be REAL with ya here,,IF I had met a lady who had this condition of (lack-of-care),,WE would of HAD TO OF TALKED,,after
our second time being all day with each other,,and IF she was UN-welling to compromise,,then WE would just be going different roads..

I feel that if one REALLY loves the other,,that SMALL THINGS can ALWAYS be a give and take,,but issues that really BOTHER the other one HAS TO BE ADDRESSED or that indifference GROWS and becomes unacceptable..

Thats why Talking is the BEST anyones can do and to have in ANY RELATIONSHIPS..

A DEAL breaker for me is any LIES, any Cheating, and any kind of forced opinions or demands,,,as I carry none of these.

Life is to short lived to have things that draw YOU AWAY from the excitement of learning each others hearts.

Just MY opinions here...flowerforyou :heart: :wink:


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Sat 03/20/10 11:12 AM
Edited by jlove43 on Sat 03/20/10 11:17 AM


We all have them. I'll start. I dated this guy a long time ago. Great dude. Cooked for me, we went fishing, camping, hiking. He would build me a fire inside or a bonfire outside and we could have fun doing nothing at all. Fantastic sex, too. (I always wanted to have a cigarette, and I don't even smoke!!) So, what was the problem you ask? I'll tell you.

HE DID NOT USE DEODORANT. surprised

So, what's YOUR deal breaker?
To be REAL with ya here,,IF I had met a lady who had this condition of (lack-of-care),,WE would of HAD TO OF TALKED,,after
our second time being all day with each other,,and IF she was UN-welling to compromise,,then WE would just be going different roads..

I feel that if one REALLY loves the other,,that SMALL THINGS can ALWAYS be a give and take,,but issues that really BOTHER the other one HAS TO BE ADDRESSED or that indifference GROWS and becomes unacceptable..

Thats why Talking is the BEST anyones can do and to have in ANY RELATIONSHIPS..

A DEAL breaker for me is any LIES, any Cheating, and any kind of forced opinions or demands,,,as I carry none of these.

Life is to short lived to have things that draw YOU AWAY from the excitement of learning each others hearts.

Just MY opinions here...flowerforyou :heart: :wink:



Really good point. I did have a discussion with him about it. On several occasions. There was more to our break up than just that. Let's just say I overlooked many little things; and big things. I was just having fun on here. But it was very uh, awkward shall we say..... flowerforyou

MeChrissy2's photo
Sat 03/20/10 03:14 PM
Selfishness, disrespect, controlling, abusive and not liking kids. Most everything else is negotiable.

Etrain's photo
Sat 03/20/10 03:22 PM
ill Hairy nipplesill

MeChrissy2's photo
Sat 03/20/10 03:23 PM

ill Hairy nipplesill


Damn, I'm out!

skydancingA's photo
Sat 03/20/10 03:32 PM


So, what's YOUR deal breaker?

where to start?
fat
missing/excessively crooked/stained teeth
heavy smoking
cheating
heavy drinking
drug use(even pot, it's a drug too)
chicks with d!cks
missing appendages
chicks who like to be choked
chicks who act like dudes
chicks looking for sugar daddies
chicks with enough kids to field a basketball team
i could go on and on and on..... . .

geebus, where do YOU hang out??

EquusDancer's photo
Sat 03/20/10 03:50 PM


We all have them. I'll start. I dated this guy a long time ago. Great dude. Cooked for me, we went fishing, camping, hiking. He would build me a fire inside or a bonfire outside and we could have fun doing nothing at all. Fantastic sex, too. (I always wanted to have a cigarette, and I don't even smoke!!) So, what was the problem you ask? I'll tell you.

HE DID NOT USE DEODORANT. surprised

So, what's YOUR deal breaker?

where to start?
fat
missing/excessively crooked/stained teeth
heavy smoking/dipping
cheating
heavy drinking
drug use(even pot, it's a drug too)
missing appendages
guys looking for sugar mamas
guys with enough kids to field a basketball team and under 18



I switched and subtracted a couple of yours Drew, as they were good ones.

Also adding the overly hairy bodies, and no job in.

~K

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Sat 03/20/10 06:10 PM
Lies
Cheating
Bad Hygiene
No drive
No goals
Mamma's boy
Drugs
Alcoholics
Committmentphobes
Insecurity
Arrogence
Overly hairy
Small dick (Let's be real, if it's 3 inches it ain't happening)
Whiners
Men who cry more than I do.
No sense of adventure
Slobs
No job

74Drew's photo
Sat 03/20/10 11:37 PM



So, what's YOUR deal breaker?

where to start?
fat
missing/excessively crooked/stained teeth
heavy smoking
cheating
heavy drinking
drug use(even pot, it's a drug too)
chicks with d!cks
missing appendages
chicks who like to be choked
chicks who act like dudes
chicks looking for sugar daddies
chicks with enough kids to field a basketball team
i could go on and on and on..... . .

geebus, where do YOU hang out??

it's central IL. we have just about everything undesirable that you can imagine.


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74Drew's photo
Sat 03/20/10 11:40 PM



We all have them. I'll start. I dated this guy a long time ago. Great dude. Cooked for me, we went fishing, camping, hiking. He would build me a fire inside or a bonfire outside and we could have fun doing nothing at all. Fantastic sex, too. (I always wanted to have a cigarette, and I don't even smoke!!) So, what was the problem you ask? I'll tell you.

HE DID NOT USE DEODORANT. surprised

So, what's YOUR deal breaker?

where to start?
fat
missing/excessively crooked/stained teeth
heavy smoking/dipping
cheating
heavy drinking
drug use(even pot, it's a drug too)
missing appendages
guys looking for sugar mamas
guys with enough kids to field a basketball team and under 18



I switched and subtracted a couple of yours Drew, as they were good ones.

Also adding the overly hairy bodies, and no job in.

~K

no problem, other people can have the same hang ups as me. it's all good.


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Sat 03/20/10 11:42 PM


ill Hairy nipplesill


Damn, I'm out!


Chrissy! Too funny! :banana: :banana: rofl rofl rofl

74Drew's photo
Sat 03/20/10 11:47 PM



ill Hairy nipplesill


Damn, I'm out!


Chrissy! Too funny! :banana: :banana: rofl rofl rofl


and wrong.


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Sat 03/20/10 11:49 PM



ill Hairy nipplesill


Damn, I'm out!


Chrissy! Too funny! :banana: :banana: rofl rofl rofl

And funny!!! :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

alternativa's photo
Sun 03/21/10 12:44 AM

A clingy fella. I mean i'm all for you showin' me some love 'n all... buuuut... there is a fine line between treating me well and creeping me out by being by my side 24/7. I'm a strong independent woman and sometimes I need my space. Literally, breathing room.


:thumbsup: agreed! :thumbsup:

EquusDancer's photo
Sun 03/21/10 09:50 AM


A clingy fella. I mean i'm all for you showin' me some love 'n all... buuuut... there is a fine line between treating me well and creeping me out by being by my side 24/7. I'm a strong independent woman and sometimes I need my space. Literally, breathing room.


:thumbsup: agreed! :thumbsup:



Shudders at a memory of the octopus guy! scared ill In all honesty, I think an octopus would have actually listened!