So lets say you meet someone on Mingle2 and you like them, they like you, you've chit-chatted back and forth several or a hundred times in e-mails and in phone conversations, and they agree to drive out to see you, or you drive out to see them, or fly. What do you anticipate the meeting to be like? "I would drive 1000 miles." Remember that song? So what would you do if you two met finally, physically and one of you came a long way to see you, or you them? What would you do? There is no right or wrong answer, just honestly, personally, if someone you met made a long pilgrimmage to see you, what would you do while they were in town seeing you?

If we talked for months and months and finally got to meet,
then the funky monkey wouldn't be out of the question if
we still hit it off after meeting

Get drunk and have hot monkey sex

It would all depend on whether or not the chemistry we thought we had was real or if we were better off friends.

In your case hot bunny sex

Aaannnd there it is... that's a rap, threads over.

Sorry, CatsLoveMe for the previous post... you're a great poster and I was just trying for some humor... no offense meant.
Truth is, I don't know... years ago I woulda' probably gone for the monkey thing... but now I'm making some seriously good friends. I'm happy with that to the extreme and not contemplating anything further.
Cheers.

So am I reading a consensus here, or do we still need to talk about it?

I had this happen back in 2006. Wouldn't do it again.

None taken, friend. You're a 48 male from South Carolina. A beautiful 42 year old Tennessee gal agrees to come see you and spend like 2 to 5 days with you in SC. She drove out to see you. What would you do? Be honest now. No judging here, I was just wondering if someone committed to going all that way to see you, would you let your guard down a little, and maybe give romance a chance?

Since I live an hour away from one of the great cities in the world, I'm sure we can think of a few things to do.... Sex would only happen if we were both feeling it especially since I only encourage FRIENDSHIP at a distance. The chances of me doing an LDR are pretty much non-existent.

I would take him to my mountains, go hiking, climbing, find some cool caves. Walk along the river holding hands, more conversation..look at each other. Also LOTS of cooking together, more conversation and looking at each other. Then maybe some hot monkey lovemaking if it feels right to both of us. More conversation...

I can't wait


Oops you said "him"

I'm not sure I'd take the chance. My grown children are here & not sure I'd relocate if I met someone & wouldn't expect them too either. So, don't think I'd go the distance to meet someone that is that far away. May cause me to miss out on a great relationship...I don't know.

Ah, hotdog, but your special someone is here with you now. Do you pass that opportunity by, or do you enjoy the moment and proceed with the moves?

I know it's hard to think about. But lets just say its a fantasy weekend and you get to spend 2 whole days whatever you want to do with the person you met on here? Would you pass it by, or would you live it to the fullest? It might be a relationship, it might not, but at least you tried, why not take a chance?