Thank you

talk about one bad apple well in his case a few bad apples spoiling the whole bunch

I think that would deserve a thread topic of it's own. Everyone could post what they love about the opposite gender. I think we'd all learn a great deal from it.

it's not hard to get along with most women Scoundrel, as you can to a point, but after observing most of your threads, as you are quite smart, and quite the ladies man, you have rules, and when they don't comply with your rules, you have issues. the younger girls like rules and smarts, and....they like bad-boys, and as you have SOME compassion, you put the brakes on at a certain point, and the younger ones don't see it while the older ones recognize that pattern. you play the game like a fine toothed comb, and all can learn some things in dating from you to keep things interesting, but the line is crossed on control issues with you sometimes where it just becomes.....a game.

also, there are younger and badder *****, that have learned these ropes, and they will give you competition.....and they mess up women real bad these days.

being one's best friend with no guidelines and rules set apon them might do you really well, and not anylizing so heavily will make you see more than you ever thought....and! nobody likes to be anylized or categorized when dating, as you are a worldly human being, and smart too, as well as some shiftiness and grey areas to say the least, but you are never too old to learn. think about what everyone is saying in this thread, and come up with your own conclusion, looking from outside in....if you can......i think you can.

i hope you find that happiness you seek man.

You are a genius.

(((Vincent))) I missed your call, sorry hon... I will call tomorrow....

I didn't say all women as in every woman. I said "all women talk about..." Meaning man bashing is a topic women often discuss.

I must call BS on this..Sorry

Gotcha another part of English... LOL.. But that isn't ALL they talk about.. I'm sure they talk about work, kids, makeup, new restaurants, the size or lack thereof men's penises.... There are loads of things to talk about that have nothing to do with guys being jerks...

You didn't answer the first part of my questions... I asked "How do you know what they're talking about? Do you ask? Get into the conversations? EVERY TIME??????"

Because I can hear them.

if you're referring to me? i thank you, but i'm faarr from that. just isolated, and observant.

and no worries Indy, as i've been quite neglectful and closed off for quite some time, as i owe all of you here an appology, my humble pardons..(bows sincerely)

We all need space and time. No need to apologize.

I see.. Well that's unfortunate that those women have nothing better to talk about... Or perhaps you catch them at that part of their conversations... I have never had a discussion with any of my girlfriends about how bad men are... We're all intelligent enough and self-aware enough to know that not all men are bad and that perhaps we're picking them that way and made our own misery if that's what we had...

I'm not one that nags and I'm not 20 yrs. old. I will complain if someone treats me badly though.

TS it's unfortunate that you've learned nothing from Mingle... there are so many people that have knowledge, experiences to learn from.. So many that aren't negative or gender bashers... You'd think you'd notice that and formulate your opinion about women based on multiple venues...

I know women on there from Texas and I've never ever seen them man bash.... Maybe you need to hang out in different places... Maybe "where" you go is the problem...

I've seen you say this a dozen times or so. But when you proclaim (via your thread title), you've obviously made the assumption that it is all. So fool yourself if you like, you're not fooling the rest of the people here.

Me too. My friends and I don't bash men when we talk. We have better things to talk about than that.

You have taken me out of context.

I do often speak in generalities. That is because what I am saying is generally true. Yes, there are exceptions. But, even a broken clock is right twice a day.

If I said men stand while peeing no one would disagree even though there are a few men that sit.

I agree with these:

Lex


Isaac_dede

Learn here? ROFL I've often tried to gain insights here, but it always fails. The vast majority of posters take things too personally to to be able to actually understand the heart of any questions I may ask. They'd rather tell me how screwed up I am than address my questions. Or they make some stupid joke about it.

It's like asking a believer if they really believe in the talking snake and the virgin birth. They know how foolish it sounds to say they believe it so asking about it is rude.