So many people today just are not HAPPY in LIFE? Why is it that people think that they need someone in their LIFE to find true HAPPINESS? Just be gratefull for what you have here and now! Tomorrow is NOT promised for any of us............ Just look outside, we have seasons, trees, rain, summer, spring, friends, animals. Why can't people concentrait more on improving themselves and learning who they are and NOT worry so much about someone else completing them or finding happiness in someone else! Today is here right now who knows what TOMORROW will bring!!!!!

You are sooooo right. It took me a long time to get into that frame of mind and way of thinking. But I'm much happier not relying on others for my happiness. So true!

SOMETIMES it does take being alone to realize you DON'T need anyone else for true HAPPINESS!!!!

I have never been with anyone for 21 years, and plan to die alone,why? cause ive never felt lonely and I am happy without anyone

Ummmm.... You are only 21. I guess it's great that you don't feel lonely and are happy alone-if that's your thing. But you are only 21. I would love to be 21 again!!!

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But to NEVER KNOW the feeling of desired, touched by anothers hand,,to just dream into someone else's eyes,,to just know that this person beside you,,,,would die for you....
THIS,,,,,needs at least ONCE a chance to know,,,,
ITS but one vast feeling that we were born to touch,,,if not
own?

aaaahhhh 21~~~again!!!

Amen sistah

So you raised yourself from babyhood? I didn't realize you were a sea turtle or something.

Exactly. That was what I was trying to say before, but apparently it wasn't well received. I would love to have all those years ahead of me!!!!

for most, tomorrow is not guaranteed, it is earned, and most are just just comming to that realization...and the ones that don't...won't make it

roko

i've come to the conclusion there isn't a suitable match for me on this planet. so, i too plan on continuing on my own. i do however feel lonely and alone. i just won't settle for less than what i want and therefore, my being alone is for the most part my choice.


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i won't settle. but it's hard to be happy when no one you're attracted to finds you suitable.


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Meh. Join the club, dude.

Chubby, bald and poor doesn't cut it for the VAST majority of women. lol

yeah, fat, poor, and living with a roommate at my age definitely sends them packing.


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Well..ya got me there. The only roommates I have are a dog and a cat. lol

i had to get a roommate when the economy dumped on me and i lost half of my income.
things are a bit better now, but not good enough yet.


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