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Topic: "Types" are overrated
r0ck3tt3's photo
Mon 03/15/10 09:32 AM
One thing that'll help people on the single road, is to realize that "types" are overrated. Yes, there is always going to be a certain physical or personality characteristic that you will be inevitably drawn to, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't give people without those characteristics a chance. Your heart is going to be drawn to whatever it feels the most connected to, and more often than not, you can't control that. What do you say, why not let your heart decide?

msharmony's photo
Mon 03/15/10 09:46 AM

One thing that'll help people on the single road, is to realize that "types" are overrated. Yes, there is always going to be a certain physical or personality characteristic that you will be inevitably drawn to, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't give people without those characteristics a chance. Your heart is going to be drawn to whatever it feels the most connected to, and more often than not, you can't control that. What do you say, why not let your heart decide?



When I was younger, I let my heart decide. Now that Im older, its a balance of my heart and the knowledge my experience has gained me about what does and doesnt work for me.

Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 03/15/10 09:51 AM
Sometimes it's my heart....

Sometimes it's my head....

Sometimes it's my loins....(can't help it):heart:

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Mon 03/15/10 09:59 AM

What do you say, why not let your heart decide?


Because my heart is a moron.


skydancingA's photo
Mon 03/15/10 10:12 AM
What do you say, why not let your heart decide?

Oh, it does.
Sometimes I have been lucky.
Sometimes not so much.

Lex is right.
Your heart doesn't have the brain power of your mind.
But love brings such joy.
I don't mind a little stupidity :-)

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 03/15/10 10:27 AM

What do you say, why not let your heart decide?



Your heart doesn't have the brain power of your mind.



Ahhh...my heart is just as, if not more powerful than my mind!

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Mon 03/15/10 10:27 AM

One thing that'll help people on the single road, is to realize that "types" are overrated. Yes, there is always going to be a certain physical or personality characteristic that you will be inevitably drawn to, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't give people without those characteristics a chance.

I agree with this part... smokin

Your heart is going to be drawn to whatever it feels the most connected to, and more often than not, you can't control that.
Not only can you control it, but you need to control it. You will get hurt if you don't. Certainly your heart will attract you toward certain people, but your past should guide you too. If you're young, you don't have this information, and that's when the hurting starts. Having said that, I agree completely in what you said before about not letting "types" be your bible. Some of the best relationships ever come from thinking outside of the box. It's a balancing act.... smokin

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Mon 03/15/10 10:33 AM

Sometimes it's my heart....

Sometimes it's my head....

Sometimes it's my loins....(can't help it):heart:
DITTO!! At least a good mix of these,,,lol

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 03/15/10 11:55 AM


What do you say, why not let your heart decide?


Because my heart is a moron.




This.

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Mon 03/15/10 11:57 AM


What do you say, why not let your heart decide?


Because my heart is a moron.




So is mine. It's done me wrong more than once. brokenheart

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Mon 03/15/10 12:06 PM
I like my type, it works for me.


FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 03/15/10 12:09 PM

I like my type, it works for me.




You didn't use your heart, did you? Those things are notorious for going bad and making people do the wrong thing...mine went out years ago, I'm assuming Lex has a bad model version.

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Mon 03/15/10 12:10 PM


I like my type, it works for me.




You didn't use your heart, did you? Those things are notorious for going bad and making people do the wrong thing...mine went out years ago, I'm assuming Lex has a bad model version.


Nah, I'm working from pure lust, I have better results that way....winking

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 03/15/10 12:13 PM



I like my type, it works for me.




You didn't use your heart, did you? Those things are notorious for going bad and making people do the wrong thing...mine went out years ago, I'm assuming Lex has a bad model version.


Nah, I'm working from pure lust, I have better results that way....winking


People just don't respect lust anymore.smitten smitten

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Mon 03/15/10 12:15 PM




I like my type, it works for me.




You didn't use your heart, did you? Those things are notorious for going bad and making people do the wrong thing...mine went out years ago, I'm assuming Lex has a bad model version.


Nah, I'm working from pure lust, I have better results that way....winking


People just don't respect lust anymore.smitten smitten


They should, it's practically the best thing there is...well, except for a really good stoop, but we're not supposed to talk about that in public....love love love

r0ck3tt3's photo
Mon 03/15/10 12:23 PM


What do you say, why not let your heart decide?



Your heart doesn't have the brain power of your mind.



Ahhh...my heart is just as, if not more powerful than my mind!


thats what i'd like to think. hence why I brought it up lol

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 03/15/10 12:31 PM
is a type not part of attraction??? You need to be attracted to a person for a relationship....otherwise it might as well be a friendship

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Mon 03/15/10 12:35 PM

is a type not part of attraction??? You need to be attracted to a person for a relationship....otherwise it might as well be a friendship


Noooooo.....we only date people because they're nice and have a big heart, we don't care if they have the face of a shovel and the body of a noodle or a wide-screen tv, it's what's on the inside that counts!!!!!

Dear god, I couldn't even type that with a straight face.....

laugh laugh laugh laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 03/15/10 12:37 PM


is a type not part of attraction??? You need to be attracted to a person for a relationship....otherwise it might as well be a friendship


Noooooo.....we only date people because they're nice and have a big heart, we don't care if they have the face of a shovel and the body of a noodle or a wide-screen tv, it's what's on the inside that counts!!!!!

Dear god, I couldn't even type that with a straight face.....

laugh laugh laugh laugh

slaphead I've been doing it wrong all this time???? I didn't get the memo. Where is my secretary??? someone is getting fired :laughing:

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Mon 03/15/10 12:38 PM
Don't feel bad, I just found out today. All this time I've only wanted guys who made me go squeeee, when I should have been going after the ones who made me go ewwwwwwwwwwww.frustrated

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