I don't think nothing is wrong with you :)

Nope don't worry about being too nice.
I'm nice and I find bad guys. Just takes time.

there you go :)

Why do you hate being single? Once you become comfortable with yourself and learn to love yourself and your own company, then you won't be in such a rush to find "the one" and that's probably when you will find her.

I love being by myself, I love my own company, I get a real kick out of me.

Do women like being single too?

I like being single, but I also like being not single : )

This is most people JMO

hun id rather not be... but its much better than settling! and a big waste of time too!ill take a yr over 6 yrs of wasted time! or even 3 yrs lol of being single to not ever settle again! event though i hate it just as u do!

Thank you, what makes you think that?

and thank you again

Totally true, buttons. I learned not to settle and to be more content being single a long time ago. I don't always like it, but it IS better than settling for sure!

Hey man,,DON'T take it personal,,,ITS NOT you its the ones looking,,the ones close enough to date that is the problem,,,NOW
THEY just don't find you attractive,interresting enough, not their type and SO-ON,,give YOU some more time to be seen by MANY,,and new ones come on everyday,,,SOON,,,one will SEE YOU and think YOUR PERFECT for them and then everything will be COOL!
TIMING and WHO'S looking and where their at,,HAS LOTS to do with YOU being someone they want to get to know better,wink,Good luck
and THIS will pass,,,,,,,,

What am I doing wrong in relationships? I think I am myself, I know what I want to achieve, but I'm always changing my ambitions

Cheers!

Why do most of your relationships end? That might be the key to getting and keeping a successful one, if you can figure out why they usually end. There's nothing wrong with changing your ambitions, I'm always changing mine, too, that's how we grow and become better people.

and normally the first to post 'i'm not like that!" are yhe most like that

doesnt mean u are doing a thing wrong! don't be negative and don't ponder!

Here's a thought.

The fact that you " hate " being single IS what's wrong with you.

Until you can learn to be comfortable by yourself, you'll continue to make bad choices as far as picking someone of the opposite sex.

You say that you want a relationship to last more than six months, which isn't a bad thing. What IS a bad thing is not being happy with who you are when you aren't in a relationship.

Once you can be comfortable being alone, THEN and only then, will you be able to clearly see the kind of person you want for a relationship.
When you get the clarity that comes from being alone for a while ( and the amount of time necessary is ephemeral at best ), that's when you'll find someone to be with long term.

You are not the only one who hates being single; not by a long shot. I do think you have the advantage of being young. When you are young you have a lot better hope of meeting someoneWho still wants to have a partner.

If you can be a desireable partner.

Getting off and staying off drugs, and alcohol, is a good start in being considered desireable. Probably be a lot more desireable when you have three or five years clean and sober. Six months is encourageing and I really hope you have turned the corner to making your life your own. When you make dumb decisions sometimes it takes a long time before people are going to think you are smart enough to make good choices.

Lot of things will make you desireable. You know what they are if you pay attention at all when women talk. You might not be all the things women want but if you make a real effort toward the basics ( clean and neat, a full time job, your own place, transportation, respectable manners, and a few fun social skills) and all the fluff won't be all that important.

I prefer being single. I can pretty much live my own life without being told what I should or shouldn't do. Yeah, sure I like the companionship of a guy & that's why I'm here. Someone I can spend time with, do fun things with & enjoy the day. Maybe spend the night together now & then. But, I don't need the responsibility of a lifelong commitment. Right now I just can't afford to get serious about someone. I need to be me!!

I enjoy being single .i dnt have to worry if am going to mess up or he gonna mess up .dont get me wrong its nice to had somebody to snuggle with and text you love messages ,but then again i had my heart broken twice , the pain of losing some one your inlove with is like a bad disease taking over your body .don't ever want to experience that again .being single is not so bad