Community > 30 and 40 somethings

Topic: Im sick of finding the wrong ones
RowBaby Joined Fri 01/22/10 Posts: 11819	Mon 03/22/10 08:49 PM
Yes I think you may have scared him off...

AngelArs Joined Wed 02/03/10 Posts: 1316	Mon 03/22/10 08:57 PM


RowBaby Joined Fri 01/22/10 Posts: 11819	Mon 03/22/10 09:33 PM
But we were trying to help....

biggdogg Joined Wed 08/09/06 Posts: 13	Tue 03/23/10 12:59 AM
Every One tells me dont look for it and it will happen . ummmm i stoped looking along time ago and still nothing so what is the rite answer ?

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Tue 03/23/10 06:14 AM
Wow your not scooped up yet you beautiful cowboy??? These women are nuts!!!

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Tue 03/23/10 09:48 AM
If you want something you never had before, you have to do something you've never done before.

AngelArs Joined Wed 02/03/10 Posts: 1316	Tue 03/23/10 10:46 AM
But we were trying to help.... I think you did help... I think my picture may have given him nightmares...

RowBaby Joined Fri 01/22/10 Posts: 11819	Tue 03/23/10 10:56 AM
Haha Nooooooo Klinger was great!

biggdogg Joined Wed 08/09/06 Posts: 13	Tue 03/23/10 06:30 PM
guess im to down to earth i dont know

4974 Joined Mon 01/19/09 Posts: 1621	Tue 03/23/10 08:21 PM
yes there are alot of us....just like their are alot of genuinely nice guys out there..patience, and perseverance win out

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Wed 03/24/10 07:24 PM
yes there are alot of us....just like their are alot of genuinely nice guys out there..patience, and perseverance win out YA SEE,,,'THIS', Is why YOUR so sweet.. YOU TELL UM,,,,,

jlove43 Joined Mon 02/22/10 Posts: 5849	Wed 03/24/10 07:30 PM
I believe that everything happens for a reason, and everything happens when it's supposed to happen.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Wed 03/24/10 07:48 PM
I believe that everything happens for a reason, and everything happens when it's supposed to happen. THEN,,,,do YOU suppose,,,we're suppose to know when we need to suppose???/ Or do I just suppose to much? Just kidding ya,,,YES,,YOUR RIGHT!!

mrvindic Joined Wed 03/24/10 Posts: 1	Wed 03/24/10 11:36 PM
I true believe that there are good people out there. I just never seem to meet any.

SaraBellum Joined Thu 03/25/10 Posts: 1	Fri 03/26/10 08:25 PM
Do you know what you want? I could never have what i wanted until I actually knew what i wanted was. It sounds simple, but it really isn't , it took me a long time to learn, anda lot of hard lessons until I did. What's your favourite colour? Do you know? IF there were a girl you liked in front of you, asking you that, would you try to guess what hers was and pick that one? Don't do that. Don't ever pretend to like something, because someone else does. Sure, in a relationship, people compromise. But you musn't compromise yourself. Are you confident? DO you feel secure? Do you think someone doesn't like you if they are busy? Confidence is everything. Confidence is what makes people who might seem unattractive at first glance ( not saying that means you) and makes them gorgeous, and interesting, and fascinating and sdmirable. How is your relationship with yourself? Do you need a relationship to feel whole? While you're waiting to find the right person, take stock of who you are, and what you want and what you will and will not accept and what really matters TO YOU. And when the right personcomes along, they'll see you for who you are.. because you will beexactly who you are. And self actualized people stand a better chance of finding someone who knows themselves, and is therefore ready to shre their life with someone else.

nikita5 Joined Tue 03/24/09 Posts: 2410	Fri 03/26/10 08:33 PM
Do you know what you want? I could never have what i wanted until I actually knew what i wanted was. It sounds simple, but it really isn't , it took me a long time to learn, anda lot of hard lessons until I did. What's your favourite colour? Do you know? IF there were a girl you liked in front of you, asking you that, would you try to guess what hers was and pick that one? Don't do that. Don't ever pretend to like something, because someone else does. Sure, in a relationship, people compromise. But you musn't compromise yourself. Are you confident? DO you feel secure? Do you think someone doesn't like you if they are busy? Confidence is everything. Confidence is what makes people who might seem unattractive at first glance ( not saying that means you) and makes them gorgeous, and interesting, and fascinating and sdmirable. How is your relationship with yourself? Do you need a relationship to feel whole? While you're waiting to find the right person, take stock of who you are, and what you want and what you will and will not accept and what really matters TO YOU. And when the right personcomes along, they'll see you for who you are.. because you will beexactly who you are. And self actualized people stand a better chance of finding someone who knows themselves, and is therefore ready to shre their life with someone else. well said!

Lisainde Joined Sat 03/27/10 Posts: 6	Sat 03/27/10 05:38 PM
They are out there, it just will not happen on your time. You have to be patient and it will happen if it is meant to. I always fell for the wrong guys,after my divorce, I started to look at myself and change what it is that did not allow me to have a good relationship. It takes two, there are steps to making and breaking a relationship, and both partners are responsible for making it work. I hope you find what you are looking for.

Lisainde Joined Sat 03/27/10 Posts: 6	Sat 03/27/10 05:43 PM
It will not happen on your time. If it is meant to be, you will meet the right person. I believe there is some for everyone. God gave Eve to Adam so he would not be alone, so there is someone out there for you.