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Topic: Why cant I find the right woman
EmotionalOne's photo
Wed 03/03/10 02:26 PM
I've been on this site for quite a while now and I haven't been able to find a woman that will even be interested in me...where am I going wrong? I have been searching for someone that is willing to help me through everything that is wrong in my life right now and someone who will actually support my emotions as well as everything else. Someone who won't look down on me if I can't do something. Check out my profile and let me know something everyone.

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 03/03/10 02:27 PM
Well

cause in all the time ya been here....

Ya only posted once silly!:heart:

buttons's photo
Wed 03/03/10 02:28 PM
before starting a relationship i believe you need to fix your own things wrong in your life... no one wants baggage... before you can commit to someone else you need to be able to take care of yourself..

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Wed 03/03/10 02:42 PM
You need to get a life.

A life that is filled with the activities, hobbies and interests that you enjoy. No you don't have to be rich to do this.

You need to have something to share other than your emotions, women have plenty their own.

No one can 'fix' your situation, you got yourself into it.
Look at how and why you got where you are, and what YOU are going to do to get out of it.

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Wed 03/03/10 02:45 PM

before starting a relationship i believe you need to fix your own things wrong in your life... no one wants baggage... before you can commit to someone else you need to be able to take care of yourself..


Well said, Buttons.flowerforyou

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Wed 03/03/10 02:52 PM

no one wants baggage...


Then why do they always ask for it at the airport? tongue2

STARTRAVELER's photo
Wed 03/03/10 02:52 PM
Edited by STARTRAVELER on Wed 03/03/10 02:53 PM
Holy Crap as Buttons and others have said fix yourself .No one can do that but you!People are not on this earth to fix your problems .Anyone would want to start with a clean slate of happiness and looking towards a happy future not moveing from one emotional difficulty to another .And some people are meant to live alone .So fix it first then move on

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 03/03/10 02:54 PM

Holy Crap as Buttons and others have said fix yourself .No one can do that but you!People are not on this earth to fix your problems .Anyone would want to start with a clean slate of happiness and looking towards a happy future not moveing from one emotional difficulty to another .And some people are meant to live alone .So fix it first then move on





Bravo!!!! Bravo!!!!!:heart:

buttons's photo
Wed 03/03/10 02:55 PM


no one wants baggage...


Then why do they always ask for it at the airport? tongue2
might be some hot guy stowed away in there.. one that can take care of hisself but yet play a helpless role for a couple of hours lmao!!!laugh

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Wed 03/03/10 03:03 PM
Hi everyone, just wanted to say...
we all have problems. we all have baggage. whether it is emotional or physical. but we choose to carry it on our backs like a dead weight. after 27 years of marriage I have found that only I can make that choice. I refuse to wake up miserable. Misery never made it better before. It wont make it better now. I can take a man with baggage, but if he cannot see the glass as half full by himself, then all the support in the world from me will just be futile. a positive outlook in life is very sexy. very attractive. while I appreciate that a man can be sensitive, I don't know if I would want a man who cant be strong enough in his mind to realize that things will always get better. Just saying.....

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Wed 03/03/10 03:05 PM

Hi everyone, just wanted to say...
we all have problems. we all have baggage. whether it is emotional or physical. but we choose to carry it on our backs like a dead weight. after 27 years of marriage I have found that only I can make that choice. I refuse to wake up miserable. Misery never made it better before. It wont make it better now. I can take a man with baggage, but if he cannot see the glass as half full by himself, then all the support in the world from me will just be futile. a positive outlook in life is very sexy. very attractive. while I appreciate that a man can be sensitive, I don't know if I would want a man who cant be strong enough in his mind to realize that things will always get better. Just saying.....


:thumbsup:

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Wed 03/03/10 03:06 PM

Hi everyone, just wanted to say...
we all have problems. we all have baggage. whether it is emotional or physical. but we choose to carry it on our backs like a dead weight. after 27 years of marriage I have found that only I can make that choice. I refuse to wake up miserable. Misery never made it better before. It wont make it better now. I can take a man with baggage, but if he cannot see the glass as half full by himself, then all the support in the world from me will just be futile. a positive outlook in life is very sexy. very attractive. while I appreciate that a man can be sensitive, I don't know if I would want a man who cant be strong enough in his mind to realize that things will always get better. Just saying.....
well.. Im confused

mary1230's photo
Wed 03/03/10 03:10 PM


Hi everyone, just wanted to say...
we all have problems. we all have baggage. whether it is emotional or physical. but we choose to carry it on our backs like a dead weight. after 27 years of marriage I have found that only I can make that choice. I refuse to wake up miserable. Misery never made it better before. It wont make it better now. I can take a man with baggage, but if he cannot see the glass as half full by himself, then all the support in the world from me will just be futile. a positive outlook in life is very sexy. very attractive. while I appreciate that a man can be sensitive, I don't know if I would want a man who cant be strong enough in his mind to realize that things will always get better. Just saying.....
well.. Im confused

tell me why u r confused...

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Wed 03/03/10 03:17 PM
I don't think a woman will want to take on the responsibility of rescuing you flowerforyou no one wants to be played i think thats a no brainerflowerforyou perhaps redoing your profile and putting a more positive spin on things might be helpfulflowerforyou

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Wed 03/03/10 03:29 PM

I've been on this site for quite a while now and I haven't been able to find a woman that will even be interested in me...where am I going wrong? I have been searching for someone that is willing to help me through everything that is wrong in my life right now and someone who will actually support my emotions as well as everything else. Someone who won't look down on me if I can't do something. Check out my profile and let me know something everyone.


That is an awful lot to lay on one person, don't you think?

justme659's photo
Wed 03/03/10 03:44 PM
Come on folks, he is in the "rate my profile" thread. I seriously don't think he wants you to give him life hints, just hints that would improve his profile.
JMO

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 03/03/10 03:50 PM

Come on folks, he is in the "rate my profile" thread. I seriously don't think he wants you to give him life hints, just hints that would improve his profile.
JMO



Only because he was moved here. Personally, it was better off in the relationship section, because he is asking for advice.

"...where am I going wrong?"

We are simply stating our opinion on where he is going wrong.

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Wed 03/03/10 03:53 PM


Come on folks, he is in the "rate my profile" thread. I seriously don't think he wants you to give him life hints, just hints that would improve his profile.
JMO



Only because he was moved here. Personally, it was better off in the relationship section, because he is asking for advice.

"...where am I going wrong?"

We are simply stating our opinion on where he is going wrong.


I agree, it was better where it was before. I wonder why it got moved....

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Wed 03/03/10 03:56 PM


Come on folks, he is in the "rate my profile" thread. I seriously don't think he wants you to give him life hints, just hints that would improve his profile.
JMO



Only because he was moved here. Personally, it was better off in the relationship section, because he is asking for advice.

"...where am I going wrong?"

We are simply stating our opinion on where he is going wrong.

whoa http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xs_OacEq2Sk&feature=PlayList&p=5455CA655D892146&index=28 surprised

FearandLoathing's photo
Wed 03/03/10 04:08 PM



Come on folks, he is in the "rate my profile" thread. I seriously don't think he wants you to give him life hints, just hints that would improve his profile.
JMO



Only because he was moved here. Personally, it was better off in the relationship section, because he is asking for advice.

"...where am I going wrong?"

We are simply stating our opinion on where he is going wrong.

whoa http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xs_OacEq2Sk&feature=PlayList&p=5455CA655D892146&index=28 surprised


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Usd4z9rxbys&feature=related

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