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I've been on this site for quite a while now and I haven't been able to find a woman that will even be interested in me...where am I going wrong? I have been searching for someone that is willing to help me through everything that is wrong in my life right now and someone who will actually support my emotions as well as everything else. Someone who won't look down on me if I can't do something. Check out my profile and let me know something everyone.
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Well
cause in all the time ya been here.... Ya only posted once silly! |
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before starting a relationship i believe you need to fix your own things wrong in your life... no one wants baggage... before you can commit to someone else you need to be able to take care of yourself..
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You need to get a life.
A life that is filled with the activities, hobbies and interests that you enjoy. No you don't have to be rich to do this. You need to have something to share other than your emotions, women have plenty their own. No one can 'fix' your situation, you got yourself into it. Look at how and why you got where you are, and what YOU are going to do to get out of it. |
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before starting a relationship i believe you need to fix your own things wrong in your life... no one wants baggage... before you can commit to someone else you need to be able to take care of yourself.. Well said, Buttons. |
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no one wants baggage... Then why do they always ask for it at the airport? |
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Edited by
STARTRAVELER
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Wed 03/03/10 02:53 PM
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Holy Crap as Buttons and others have said fix yourself .No one can do that but you!People are not on this earth to fix your problems .Anyone would want to start with a clean slate of happiness and looking towards a happy future not moveing from one emotional difficulty to another .And some people are meant to live alone .So fix it first then move on
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Holy Crap as Buttons and others have said fix yourself .No one can do that but you!People are not on this earth to fix your problems .Anyone would want to start with a clean slate of happiness and looking towards a happy future not moveing from one emotional difficulty to another .And some people are meant to live alone .So fix it first then move on Bravo!!!! Bravo!!!!! |
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no one wants baggage... Then why do they always ask for it at the airport? |
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Hi everyone, just wanted to say...
we all have problems. we all have baggage. whether it is emotional or physical. but we choose to carry it on our backs like a dead weight. after 27 years of marriage I have found that only I can make that choice. I refuse to wake up miserable. Misery never made it better before. It wont make it better now. I can take a man with baggage, but if he cannot see the glass as half full by himself, then all the support in the world from me will just be futile. a positive outlook in life is very sexy. very attractive. while I appreciate that a man can be sensitive, I don't know if I would want a man who cant be strong enough in his mind to realize that things will always get better. Just saying..... |
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Hi everyone, just wanted to say... we all have problems. we all have baggage. whether it is emotional or physical. but we choose to carry it on our backs like a dead weight. after 27 years of marriage I have found that only I can make that choice. I refuse to wake up miserable. Misery never made it better before. It wont make it better now. I can take a man with baggage, but if he cannot see the glass as half full by himself, then all the support in the world from me will just be futile. a positive outlook in life is very sexy. very attractive. while I appreciate that a man can be sensitive, I don't know if I would want a man who cant be strong enough in his mind to realize that things will always get better. Just saying..... |
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Hi everyone, just wanted to say... we all have problems. we all have baggage. whether it is emotional or physical. but we choose to carry it on our backs like a dead weight. after 27 years of marriage I have found that only I can make that choice. I refuse to wake up miserable. Misery never made it better before. It wont make it better now. I can take a man with baggage, but if he cannot see the glass as half full by himself, then all the support in the world from me will just be futile. a positive outlook in life is very sexy. very attractive. while I appreciate that a man can be sensitive, I don't know if I would want a man who cant be strong enough in his mind to realize that things will always get better. Just saying..... |
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Hi everyone, just wanted to say... we all have problems. we all have baggage. whether it is emotional or physical. but we choose to carry it on our backs like a dead weight. after 27 years of marriage I have found that only I can make that choice. I refuse to wake up miserable. Misery never made it better before. It wont make it better now. I can take a man with baggage, but if he cannot see the glass as half full by himself, then all the support in the world from me will just be futile. a positive outlook in life is very sexy. very attractive. while I appreciate that a man can be sensitive, I don't know if I would want a man who cant be strong enough in his mind to realize that things will always get better. Just saying..... tell me why u r confused... |
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I don't think a woman will want to take on the responsibility of rescuing you no one wants to be played i think thats a no brainer perhaps redoing your profile and putting a more positive spin on things might be helpful
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I've been on this site for quite a while now and I haven't been able to find a woman that will even be interested in me...where am I going wrong? I have been searching for someone that is willing to help me through everything that is wrong in my life right now and someone who will actually support my emotions as well as everything else. Someone who won't look down on me if I can't do something. Check out my profile and let me know something everyone. That is an awful lot to lay on one person, don't you think? |
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Come on folks, he is in the "rate my profile" thread. I seriously don't think he wants you to give him life hints, just hints that would improve his profile.
JMO |
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Come on folks, he is in the "rate my profile" thread. I seriously don't think he wants you to give him life hints, just hints that would improve his profile. JMO Only because he was moved here. Personally, it was better off in the relationship section, because he is asking for advice. "...where am I going wrong?" We are simply stating our opinion on where he is going wrong. |
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Come on folks, he is in the "rate my profile" thread. I seriously don't think he wants you to give him life hints, just hints that would improve his profile. JMO Only because he was moved here. Personally, it was better off in the relationship section, because he is asking for advice. "...where am I going wrong?" We are simply stating our opinion on where he is going wrong. I agree, it was better where it was before. I wonder why it got moved.... |
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Come on folks, he is in the "rate my profile" thread. I seriously don't think he wants you to give him life hints, just hints that would improve his profile. JMO Only because he was moved here. Personally, it was better off in the relationship section, because he is asking for advice. "...where am I going wrong?" We are simply stating our opinion on where he is going wrong. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xs_OacEq2Sk&feature=PlayList&p=5455CA655D892146&index=28 |
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Come on folks, he is in the "rate my profile" thread. I seriously don't think he wants you to give him life hints, just hints that would improve his profile. JMO Only because he was moved here. Personally, it was better off in the relationship section, because he is asking for advice. "...where am I going wrong?" We are simply stating our opinion on where he is going wrong. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xs_OacEq2Sk&feature=PlayList&p=5455CA655D892146&index=28 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Usd4z9rxbys&feature=related |
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