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Edited by
TheShadow
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Have to make the first move, whether it be the net or not.
This and many other questions like this have been posted on the forums many times. In reality, it's harder for a man to get a reply from a women then it is the other way around. Now knowing I been on the net for a few years. My experense in reading profiles. Many of them say i'm looking for friends. Now to me, this means looking for people to chat with and pass time. So being a man and i'm expected to make the first move. Question, does attraction have to do with anything in looking for a friend? My personal thoughts on this. A lot of people lie to themselves or on their profile being on the net, and use the friend thing as a way to hide what there actually looking for. OK, let me have it 
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Well for me
if someone interest me as a person I'd like to get to know I have no problem shooting them some mail looks have nothing to do with it for me when looking to chat but their personalities have to mesh with mine and I can usually tell by reading their posts if they will or not and yes I have found some people who are lying to themselves and others. Ya know using some kinda fake persona it might help them to hide behind somthing that is not true rather than be real. And on a dating site that seems so easy for someone to do that It always comes out at the end though! 
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Well.
Since you asked :-) Men can look at a girl and fall in love. Girls need to know more. We use the friendship angle to get there. We don't ask first because the first ask is part of the mating ritual. We like that one :-) |
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Well, this website is dead. If you had of posted this on plentyoffish or one of those more active dating websites lol they would "let you have it". Well you just have to get use to it, people are always lying online more than they do in actual life. Its a pain in the *** to deal with fakes all the time but hell, that's the internet for you and reality as well.
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Well for me if someone interest me as a person I'd like to get to know I have no problem shooting them some mail looks have nothing to do with it for me when looking to chat but their personalities have to mesh with mine and I can usually tell by reading their posts if they will or not and yes I have found some people who are lying to themselves and others. Ya know using some kinda fake persona it might help them to hide behind somthing that is not true rather than be real. And on a dating site that seems so easy for someone to do that It always comes out at the end though!
Ya, it does alway come out at the end. I think this is part of the problem for some meeting somone, among others 
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Well, this website is dead. If you had of posted this on plentyoffish or one of those more active dating websites lol they would "let you have it". Well you just have to get use to it, people are always lying online more than they do in actual life. Its a pain in the *** to deal with fakes all the time but hell, that's the internet for you and reality as well. |
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Well, this website is dead. If you had of posted this on plentyoffish or one of those more active dating websites lol they would "let you have it". Well you just have to get use to it, people are always lying online more than they do in actual life. Its a pain in the *** to deal with fakes all the time but hell, that's the internet for you and reality as well. To much Drama on those sites
Half the time I don't expect a reply when sending an emails. I know a few people on this site, so some days the forum is active and other days it's dead like you said. But I found more people to be real on this site on the forum then most sits I been to. |
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Well. Since you asked :-) Men can look at a girl and fall in love. Girls need to know more. We use the friendship angle to get there. We don't ask first because the first ask is part of the mating ritual. We like that one :-) If I ever look at a girl on the net and fall in love. Shoot me
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Have to make the first move, whether it be the net or not. This and many other questions like this have been posted on the forums many times. In reality, it's harder for a man to get a reply from a women then it is the other way around. Now knowing I been on the net for a few years. My experense in reading profiles. Many of them say i'm looking for friends. Now to me, this means looking for people to chat with and pass time. So being a man and i'm expected to make the first move. Question, does attraction have to do with anything in looking for a friend? My personal thoughts on this. A lot of people lie to themselves or on their profile being on the net, and use the friend thing as a way to hide what there actually looking for. OK, let me have it
You looked at my profile & didn't say hi...So, doesn't that defeat the purpose for this...Or you were waiting for me to say hi...is that is? |
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Have to make the first move, whether it be the net or not. This and many other questions like this have been posted on the forums many times. In reality, it's harder for a man to get a reply from a women then it is the other way around. Now knowing I been on the net for a few years. My experense in reading profiles. Many of them say i'm looking for friends. Now to me, this means looking for people to chat with and pass time. So being a man and i'm expected to make the first move. Question, does attraction have to do with anything in looking for a friend? My personal thoughts on this. A lot of people lie to themselves or on their profile being on the net, and use the friend thing as a way to hide what there actually looking for. OK, let me have it
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Have to make the first move, whether it be the net or not. Some sort of antiquated tradition/mindset. They can keep it. I don't make the first move. |
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Men are suppose to make the first move?
Really? 
Not with me! If I see something I want, I dont wait for it to get away.... 
I GO FOR IT!  
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Edited by
luv2roknroll
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Tue 02/23/10 10:41 AM
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Well, this website is dead. If you had of posted this on plentyoffish or one of those more active dating websites lol they would "let you have it". Well you just have to get use to it, people are always lying online more than they do in actual life. Its a pain in the *** to deal with fakes all the time but hell, that's the internet for you and reality as well. I guess Mikey let you have it! You go baby! Never go on a site and than talk chit about it. If its so dead here, why are you posting here? |
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Men have to make the first move beCause whn a woman does- men wonder if she is a supersl.Ut who pics up men all the time.
Even if a guy plays it cool he still wonders Thus us women have to play a lost deer in the headlights or lose our glass slipper to allow mens ego to be boosted. Resulting in him feeling like the grand "hero " he is nOt. The truth hurts - dont it :) |
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Edited by
luv2roknroll
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Tue 02/23/10 10:51 AM
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Men have to make the first move beCause whn a woman does- men wonder if she is a supersl.Ut who pics up men all the time. Even if a guy plays it cool he still wonders Thus us women have to play a lost deer in the headlights or lose our glass slipper to allow mens ego to be boosted. Resulting in him feeling like the grand "hero " he is nOt. The truth hurts - dont it :) 
Hey!!! I resemble that remark!!!! 
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I use to make a first move. After a while it dawned on me that those first moves (ie. wrote to) seemed to be a sign to the fellas I that I would put out on a first date. So... I quit writing and making the first move. I don't even perv profiles anymore.
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Because they make more money than us, they have to earn something
(okay, now I'm in for it)
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Ery1 has or had a lil supersl.Ut in them @ sum point...... Even me hehe
Sum ppl dont grow out of it. Thts whn it turns sad. |
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Edited by
luv2roknroll
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Tue 02/23/10 11:02 AM
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Ery1 has or had a lil supersl.Ut in them @ sum point...... Even me hehe Sum ppl dont grow out of it. Thts whn it turns sad. 
but I still want you to call me a Superslut! Makes me feel like a superhero of sorts!
"Its a bird its a plane... no.... its Superslut"!!!! |
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All a matter of individual preference as to who makes the first move. I'm a little bit old-fashioned in that sense, although I think I've missed out on some opportunities by waiting
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