Topic: stay or let go
mrzrocha's photo
Tue 02/02/10 09:39 PM
if u were n a relationship with someone who uve been with for more than a yr and u start feeling that u two arent getting anywhere besides better sex then when u started. What would u do?.............

fastlinnie's photo
Tue 02/02/10 09:44 PM

I think i would talk with them and see how they felt about it. and them i would know. Welcom to mingle. flowerforyou







TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 02/02/10 09:44 PM
Guess that would all depend how well I got along with the person and them me if all is good then why change something that is not broke.

But if there are problems or if I felt I was trapped and did not want to be where I was then I was talk to the person and most likely move on. I would do that regardless if it was 2 weeks or 2 years if one is not happy it is best to move on.

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 02/02/10 09:45 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Tue 02/02/10 09:45 PM
better sex compared to who?

no photo
Tue 02/02/10 09:49 PM

if u were n a relationship with someone who uve been with for more than a yr and u start feeling that u two arent getting anywhere besides better sex then when u started. What would u do?.............
RIGHT NOW????IN MY LIFE,,,I would be in HEAVEN!!!!!!!

Then after about a month,,I'd drop her,,,,,,lollaugh :wink:


Welcome to the place and have a great time,,,




If I was you,,,TALK ABOUT THIS,,,to HIM,,,and if no change/

move-on,,and FEEL BETTER!!drinker flowerforyou :banana: :banana:

CatsLoveMe's photo
Tue 02/02/10 10:25 PM
Better sex? Usually it gets worse and less frequent over time. You start off like rabbits and wind up worse than pandas.

EquusDancer's photo
Tue 02/02/10 10:35 PM

Better sex? Usually it gets worse and less frequent over time. You start off like rabbits and wind up worse than pandas.


Sadly true

LewisW123's photo
Wed 02/03/10 09:37 AM

Better sex? Usually it gets worse and less frequent over time. You start off like rabbits and wind up worse than pandas.



Haha. Good analogy.


Ladylid2012's photo
Wed 02/03/10 09:40 AM
Sometimes habits can be hard to break..if a relationship is based only on great sex..it will end ugly anyway without a spiritual/emotional connection, merge.

CatsLoveMe's photo
Wed 02/03/10 10:10 AM


Better sex? Usually it gets worse and less frequent over time. You start off like rabbits and wind up worse than pandas.



Haha. Good analogy.




Gets even worse if you're still a rabbit and the other person's turned into a panda. Somehow, the dynamics don't quite work.

no photo
Wed 02/03/10 10:18 AM
I wouldn't pay much attention to other peoples advice that does not know you or your mate. Well, that sounds funny since I am about to give you advice. FOLLOW YOUR HEART. Sex is great and also important in a relationship but for me, I look for someone I can talk to and they will listen, really listen. And the same goes both ways. If you give each other that mutual respect, most everything else will just fall in place.
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