So I am well dont really know what to call it i guess "seeing" two
different guys...the first one like we had sex a few days ago and he
hasnt really wanted to talk to me since then but then again he has been
working. and the second one ive only seen twice but he is amazing..i
hate being left in the dark. And i especially hate not being told where
i stand.

Starry

Just a thought - why don't YOU decide where they stand... you call the
shots?

All good things
PG

...have sex with both of them!..at the same time!...see which one stays!

Hey, watch yourself, guys are sometimes only into one thing,
milk

Don't allow yourself to be played by two guys at once

What do you expect, you have sex/not make love, playing the field/not
building a relationship, 18 & seem to think you know it all, play in the
big time/learn the rules frst.

Allow yourself to be used, your feelings get hurt.

My advice, your still a little girl, keep your legs together & decide
what kind of person YOU want to be.

Learn to be decent or take what you get.

You asked, just what I see.

i agree with purple, u choose, who goes who stays

I do agree with oldsage, you are too young to be making those mistakes
at stage is your life. Be careful, guys want only one thing and you are
not to give it too fast.

On behalf of some of the chivalrous guys still left in the world, not
all guys just want sex. Some do want a relationship. Granted 90% of us
are pig headed and only think with one head, some of us do care.

Sage great advice. I hope she listens, she will have better life if she
does.


Something we had to learn and some of us just have to the learn the
hard.

I better not answer this with sarcasm and irony. I erased all I typed
here because I do not want to be misleading. I like girls who just date
one guy. When a girl dates me and leads on other guys at the same time,
I eventually conclude that they were a waste of my time. Choose one.

Stand between them, toss a chocolate in the air and see which one can
catch it in his mouth. That one's really the dog...

if u r playing the field esp at 18 expect to get hurt or mixed feelings
and left with no communication.

ok. and hence the rudeness begins again. i know what i am doing. ive
been doing it for a long time. and if anything im going to hurt them. i
am cold. and have been hurt alot. age doesnt mean a damn thing.

that's nice
i'm 45 and still donot know what i am doing

If you knew what you were doing why would you ask for advice ?
If you really wanna know where you stand ask them . Dont sit around and
wait for someone to call you . What are you looking for with these guys
... fu ck buddies or a relationship ?

At 18 I couldn't pick out what color socks to wear,much less choose
between 2 guys. And what did being young and dumb get me? Pregnant and
unwed at 19.
Not that I regret the things I have done in my past;those are what have
shaped my life.
But why do you ask for advice if you know what you are doing?By doing
so you are showing your youth. You ask for advice then get ticked off
when it isn't what you wanted to hear.

honey the very act of you claiming to be cold is proof that your not.
not only that you get upset that someone disagrees with you and puts
down your public claim of shall we say whoredom also proves your not as
callous as you'd like to believe. you don't want to get that way it's no
fun and you find yourself alone more than not.

Stay with the one you have already started a relationship with by having
had sex with him.

Why can't you call him on his job to find out at least why is he not
calling you and where you stand?

If no 1 feels you are seeing someone else he will be less motivated to
continue a relationship with you, especially since he hasn't yet fallen
so much in love with you that he cannot do without you; or where if you
separate, it will hurt too much. He might tell himself, "before he gets
hurt badly, better let her run to see where she is going.

You call him and let him know how serious you regard having had sex with
him and that you consider that act has put you together, or has STUCK
you two together; and that if you had looked through a mirror during the
act, you would have seen how you two were stuck together.

You obliviously do not know what you are doing otherwise you would not
have asked for any advise.

You most definitely need to choose one of them. If you are unable to
choose, then you need to leave both of them alone.

You are doing nothing more than creating alot of unnecessary drama that
will backfire most likely on you.

You may not have liked the advice that some of the other posters had
given, but there is quite a bit of truth in what they stated. You are
young, but you need to make up your mind on what you really want.

Good luck with whatever you decide.
Take Care
- Alexia