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Topic: What's a keeper?
MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Sat 01/30/10 04:13 PM
When I dated, I actually had a guy say he didn't want to go out anymore because I wasn't a dater, I was a keeper? WTH? What if I don't want to be kept? Can you change from being a keeper into being a "whatever it is people want to date"?

Updawg Joined Thu 11/19/09 Posts: 3254	Sat 01/30/10 04:14 PM
Did you say, Thats ok cause I dont want to be a kept woman. See ya!!!

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Sat 01/30/10 04:15 PM
Did you say, Thats ok cause I dont want to be a kept woman. See ya!!! Actually, I think I probably just looked confused and said OK. It would have made me think less if he had just said I'm not into you.

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Sat 01/30/10 04:18 PM
When I dated, I actually had a guy say he didn't want to go out anymore because I wasn't a dater, I was a keeper? WTH? What if I don't want to be kept? Can you change from being a keeper into being a "whatever it is people want to date"? I've been working on a Super Soaker that I fashioned into a new and improved 'Llama-Ray'...so far all I can get it to do is turn people into toads though... Maybe you should try the same thing?

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14519	Sat 01/30/10 04:19 PM
He was looking to keep playing the field, not settle down. He perceived you as someone that is a bit more substantial that, not just someone to date and fool around with.

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Sat 01/30/10 04:20 PM
He was looking to keep playing the field, not settle down. He perceived you as someone that is a bit more substantial that, not just someone to date and fool around with. Dammit, I was hoping that wasn't it. How does one go about being less substantial? Fear, please let me know when you have perfected it. I hate Llama's.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14519	Sat 01/30/10 04:30 PM
He was looking to keep playing the field, not settle down. He perceived you as someone that is a bit more substantial that, not just someone to date and fool around with. Dammit, I was hoping that wasn't it. How does one go about being less substantial? Are you really looking for someone to date and have fun with, or are you wanting to be loved? Because it will shine through, men will pick up on it either way.

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Sat 01/30/10 04:34 PM
He was looking to keep playing the field, not settle down. He perceived you as someone that is a bit more substantial that, not just someone to date and fool around with. Dammit, I was hoping that wasn't it. How does one go about being less substantial? Are you really looking for someone to date and have fun with, or are you wanting to be loved? Because it will shine through, men will pick up on it either way. K, I'm confused. Don't all relationships (friendship, sexual, long term) start with dating and having fun. No wonder I'm no good at this.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sat 01/30/10 04:38 PM
When I dated, I actually had a guy say he didn't want to go out anymore because I wasn't a dater, I was a keeper? WTH? What if I don't want to be kept? Can you change from being a keeper into being a "whatever it is people want to date"? Soooooo.....you are looking for an intimate encounter eh? Sweet!!!

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14519	Sat 01/30/10 04:45 PM
What is it you truly want? Dates with different men, or just one guy ?

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Sat 01/30/10 04:46 PM
What is it you truly want? Dates with different men, or just one guy ? I think when I start dating I want to meet different people and have fun. Then if there is one I like, who knows.

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14519	Sat 01/30/10 04:55 PM
What is it you truly want? Dates with different men, or just one guy ? I think when I start dating I want to meet different people and have fun. Then if there is one I like, who knows. Well then that was just his way of saying he wasn't that into you. NEXT!!!!!

XenomorphEyez Joined Sun 11/29/09 Posts: 923	Tue 02/02/10 10:26 AM
I think it means you are gf/spouse material and not just a fling. I would take it as a compliment.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76451	Tue 02/02/10 10:48 AM
I think it means you are gf/spouse material and not just a fling. I would take it as a compliment. Ditto...................and if that is not what your wanting to be then brush it off and go have fun..........

EquusDancer Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 6281	Tue 02/02/10 09:52 PM
A fish of a certain length that you can keep to eat. If their too small, throw em back in so they can grow up. The fish was really THIS>>>>BIG! I swear!

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Tue 02/02/10 09:57 PM
When I dated, I actually had a guy say he didn't want to go out anymore because I wasn't a dater, I was a keeper? WTH? What if I don't want to be kept? Can you change from being a keeper into being a "whatever it is people want to date"? he said THIS,,because he was out looking for a chick to have a threesome with him and his wife.. AND HE KNEW "YOU" WOULDN'T GO THERE!!!!!

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Wed 02/03/10 04:00 PM
When I dated, I actually had a guy say he didn't want to go out anymore because I wasn't a dater, I was a keeper? WTH? What if I don't want to be kept? Can you change from being a keeper into being a "whatever it is people want to date"? he said THIS,,because he was out looking for a chick to have a threesome with him and his wife.. Now T, this I actually understand. AND HE KNEW "YOU" WOULDN'T GO THERE!!!!!

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Wed 02/03/10 04:06 PM
You should be pleased, none of the guys I ever tried to be with considered me a keeper.

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Wed 02/03/10 04:30 PM
I do think that was a compliment. He probably wasn't quite at the right place at that time. That is why I don't date.......

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Wed 02/03/10 05:05 PM
You should be pleased, none of the guys I ever tried to be with considered me a keeper. Cal, I doubt they could verbalize the truth. That is hard for some. Easier to just walk away.