this is the question that has been burning inside my head for some time
now...is there really someone for everyone..ive dated girls who have all
promised the same thing .."i swear i will never hurt you" six months
later BAM there it is ....i am just about to give up on looking ..i
have my own business . i work alot of hours but nights im tired of
sitting home watching crappy reruns im tired of life in general ...im
just hoping someone can just drop me a little reassurance that this
problem will pass..thanks

I do believe there is someone for everyone...

It just does'nt allways happen in the time frame we allways

want. Hang in there... be patient... Stop looking hard and it

will find its way to you...

Timmy'

Have been there for all that you describe. Came across a new way of
approaching life. Life is like a job, YOU GET WHAT YOU EARN. INTENT =
RESULTS

Really think about that. Looking backwards on my life, I got what I
earned. Takes total brutal truth.

I got what I earned.

GOOD & BAD

I think so. I hope so

Not to be mean, but when I see couples who look like they should be
single then I know everyone is meant to be with someone!

Well Timmmmmy:

I believe there is that special someone for everyone, but you have to
listen to your heart. There are some people that come to your life to
bring a lesson you need to learn. There are others that come to your
life to bring happiness even if is only a little while. And, there are
other that come to stay and that's the one you need to listen to your
heart and keep. Forget about the looks and that she says what you want
to hear. Listen to your heart not your head.

Sincerely,

Sara

I didn't believe it for years but.......

Yes there is and I am living proof and so is MyTiger

Timmmmy-
I have learned over the years that we are human, we fall, we can hurt
whether we intend to or not. I never tell anyone I wont hurt them. I am
human and imperfect. All I promise is to be myself, be honest and treat
others like I myself want to be treated. Thats the best we can do. If I
do hurt someone I apologize and learn from that for the future.
Loving someone doesnt mean you'll never hurt or be hurt. It just tests
our ability to truly forgive and move on. Love is never any easy
thing...most people carry some kind of baggage and unfortunately it
seeps into relationships. Sometimes as perfect as a person can be we all
have our flaws. But you must decide whether those flaws are worth
overlooking or focusing on. The decision is ours to choose.
Communication is key and I believe people can jump in too quickly with
the physical part, not truly knowing each other, which can cause
complications.
I believe their is someone for everyone. Putting that person on a
pedestal so to speak only sets them up for a long hard fall.
Love is patient, love is kind, love endureth all things, it is not
boastful or proud. It doesnt think only of itself or speak
harshly out of anger.
You had a good question and this is my personal opinion but maybe it
was of some help.
I hope so...
So you know I think everyone has been where they have heard the same
thing told to them repeatedly. Just rememebr actions speak louder than
words.
GEL

I am told that there is someone for everyone. I sometimes wonder
though...theres times I feel like I don't need anyone! I sometimes think
that my life is good the way it is so why disturb it? I am very content
with it the way it is..I have my boys and I am very happy!!!
I think things happen for a reason and if it is your time then you will
find that special person. I wish you luck in your search....I think the
truth of the matter is this, when you least expect it, thats when love
finds you!

I am hopeful that there is someone out there for me but I can be happy
on my own, too.

Learn to be your own best friend, take care of you, and you'll be better
off when someone special does come along. Take time to get to know you,
what you enjoy, what makes you happy. You'll have more to share with
another.

I like Sara's answer, and GEL, there's a couple of ladies that know who
they are.

Sure is. Some of us just have to settle for blow up Elvis dolls...

You stole my line about blow up dolls, She!!!

Ya snooze, ya lose (but it beats having a hangover)...

I think there is and please don't give up. Get comfortable with
yourself, then wait. Don't LOOK so hard, just keep your eyes open and
let life flow. Your one and only will flow right into it.

no

yes but they are usually with someone else

maybe that is why the d rate is so high

I would hope that there is someone out there for
me......waiting patiently

I wish I could say yes, but I have serious doubts myself. It seems like
most people aren't looking for someone to share their life with, they're
looking for right now.

Better to wait and (keep you EYEs open) then to look and find the wrong
person. I don't mean just sit around and not particpate in finding a
mate, I mean waiting for the right person. If you look too hard, you
might baboozle in with the wrong person..........everyone is different I
guess, sighhhhhh.

I would rather have my someone out there waiting for me rather than
looking for me and finding someone else.

This thread is disgustingly sappy. :p

But good luck to all.