Topic: I am sure
TxsSun's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:07 PM
Where should I go Lewis?

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:09 PM

Thanks guys.

I have put this off for 22 years. I know it sounds selfish, but I don't want to give up something that I have wanted for a long time.


I don't think you should give up anything you want Tami...like ya said, you have put this off and it is time for you. We (mothers) or I will say single parents in general, as to not exclude...tend to put everyone before ourselves. You'll figure out a balance so you can have all you want. Your a strong woman and have been through worse...YOU can do it!!!!

XenomorphEyez's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:11 PM

Helping my son and his g/f, because obviously no one was ready for this.

Now I am feeling a little overwhelmed. I am usually an organized person, but all of this has come too quickly.

Any ideas as where to begin to help me not feel so overwhelmed?

Where do I begin to get things sorted out?


It says you are 39. How old is your son and the gf? Are they living with you? I would tell them, sorry you got to go. You didn't want to wear a condom, now go on and deal with it.


Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:11 PM

Where should I go Lewis?


Come to Utah...bigsmile

I have an extra room, quiet and peaceful house...incense and candles burning..my house is a sanctuary for many.

LewisW123's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:11 PM

Where should I go Lewis?


Michigan!


LewisW123's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:13 PM



It says you are 39. How old is your son and the gf? Are they living with you? I would tell them, sorry you got to go. You didn't want to wear a condom, now go on and deal with it.




Ouch. Straight from Dr Laura! laugh laugh laugh

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:13 PM


Helping my son and his g/f, because obviously no one was ready for this.

Now I am feeling a little overwhelmed. I am usually an organized person, but all of this has come too quickly.

Any ideas as where to begin to help me not feel so overwhelmed?

Where do I begin to get things sorted out?


It says you are 39. How old is your son and the gf? Are they living with you? I would tell them, sorry you got to go. You didn't want to wear a condom, now go on and deal with it.




She wants to be part of helping..it's her first grandbaby...

TxsSun's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:17 PM

It says you are 39. How old is your son and the gf? Are they living with you? I would tell them, sorry you got to go. You didn't want to wear a condom, now go on and deal with it.


I am 39. He is 19 and NO he doesn't live with me. They live on their own. However, I do want to be a part of MY Grandson's life. Really?

TxsSun's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:17 PM
Lewis, I will be there next month :smile:

XenomorphEyez's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:18 PM




It says you are 39. How old is your son and the gf? Are they living with you? I would tell them, sorry you got to go. You didn't want to wear a condom, now go on and deal with it.




Ouch. Straight from Dr Laura! laugh laugh laugh

Sorry if you think that was harsh but lets get real. She said ""because obviously no one was ready for this". She said she just started getting her life together and doing stuff she put off doing...probably to raise her kid(s). Now she gotta deal with a son who because he didn't wear a condom (yeah I know it broke right?spock you know when condoms don't work...when you don't take them out of the wrapper!) Anyway...now that she's probably gonna have to take care of it cause she's allowing it. If he is old enough to not use a condom, then let him go get him and his gf and baby a place to live. It's all fun and games until the pregnancy test says positive, right?

Goofball73's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:22 PM
Who the f**k wants to go to Michigan?:tongue: laugh laugh

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:22 PM





It says you are 39. How old is your son and the gf? Are they living with you? I would tell them, sorry you got to go. You didn't want to wear a condom, now go on and deal with it.




Ouch. Straight from Dr Laura! laugh laugh laugh

Sorry if you think that was harsh but lets get real. She said ""because obviously no one was ready for this". She said she just started getting her life together and doing stuff she put off doing...probably to raise her kid(s). Now she gotta deal with a son who because he didn't wear a condom (yeah I know it broke right?spock you know when condoms don't work...when you don't take them out of the wrapper!) Anyway...now that she's probably gonna have to take care of it cause she's allowing it. If he is old enough to not use a condom, then let him go get him and his gf and baby a place to live. It's all fun and games until the pregnancy test says positive, right?


She just said that they don't live with her..they have their own place....she WANTS to be a part of this, it is her first grand child.
I would think most would....

TxsSun's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:22 PM


Where should I go Lewis?


Come to Utah...bigsmile

I have an extra room, quiet and peaceful house...incense and candles burning..my house is a sanctuary for many.


If it wasn't so cold Lo, I would be there in a jiffy :smile:

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:22 PM

Who the f**k wants to go to Michigan?:tongue: laugh laugh


If you were there...I would :wink: :tongue:

LewisW123's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:23 PM





It says you are 39. How old is your son and the gf? Are they living with you? I would tell them, sorry you got to go. You didn't want to wear a condom, now go on and deal with it.




Ouch. Straight from Dr Laura! laugh laugh laugh

Sorry if you think that was harsh but lets get real. She said ""because obviously no one was ready for this". She said she just started getting her life together and doing stuff she put off doing...probably to raise her kid(s). Now she gotta deal with a son who because he didn't wear a condom (yeah I know it broke right?spock you know when condoms don't work...when you don't take them out of the wrapper!) Anyway...now that she's probably gonna have to take care of it cause she's allowing it. If he is old enough to not use a condom, then let him go get him and his gf and baby a place to live. It's all fun and games until the pregnancy test says positive, right?


To some extent, I agree with you. If it were my son, he would get little help from me.

But every situation is different, and everyone handles things differently. If Tami wants to be involved to a higher degree, than she will probably have to take away from somewhere else in her life.

LewisW123's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:24 PM

Who the f**k wants to go to Michigan?:tongue: laugh laugh


Not me. Maybe I can trade places with her.

TxsSun's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:24 PM





It says you are 39. How old is your son and the gf? Are they living with you? I would tell them, sorry you got to go. You didn't want to wear a condom, now go on and deal with it.




Ouch. Straight from Dr Laura! laugh laugh laugh

Sorry if you think that was harsh but lets get real. She said ""because obviously no one was ready for this". She said she just started getting her life together and doing stuff she put off doing...probably to raise her kid(s). Now she gotta deal with a son who because he didn't wear a condom (yeah I know it broke right?spock you know when condoms don't work...when you don't take them out of the wrapper!) Anyway...now that she's probably gonna have to take care of it cause she's allowing it. If he is old enough to not use a condom, then let him go get him and his gf and baby a place to live. It's all fun and games until the pregnancy test says positive, right?



Were you really born like this?

newarkjw's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:25 PM





It says you are 39. How old is your son and the gf? Are they living with you? I would tell them, sorry you got to go. You didn't want to wear a condom, now go on and deal with it.




Ouch. Straight from Dr Laura! laugh laugh laugh

Sorry if you think that was harsh but lets get real. She said ""because obviously no one was ready for this". She said she just started getting her life together and doing stuff she put off doing...probably to raise her kid(s). Now she gotta deal with a son who because he didn't wear a condom (yeah I know it broke right?spock you know when condoms don't work...when you don't take them out of the wrapper!) Anyway...now that she's probably gonna have to take care of it cause she's allowing it. If he is old enough to not use a condom, then let him go get him and his gf and baby a place to live. It's all fun and games until the pregnancy test says positive, right?


Judgemental people truely pizz me off......smokin

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:28 PM
It's very easy to be on the outside looking in...we should all attempt walking in another's shoes. Compassion and empathy..there seems to be a shortage and yet these qualities are so available to us.... if we want them.

BL4766's photo
Sun 01/24/10 06:30 PM
amen!smokin