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Topic: Lost Love
Goofball73's photo
Sat 01/16/10 06:35 PM
I shared this already, in email form. But, I will share it again here.

I was 17, and I had this girl who was my best friend. We did alot together, and we just "got" one another. I would go to her about chick things, and she would come to me when a dude broke her heart. We both knew that their was a deeper feeling there between us, but we didn't want to tarnish what we had...at least that is how we acted.

Then I found out she was moving, and I was having a hard time deciding if I should tell her. In the end, I thought I was going to. But on the night she left, we stood there hugging and crying....but I never said a word. Neither did she, but I could feel that she wanted to say how she felt. It wasn't a tension filled moment. The both of us realized that things were gonna change, and we accepted what life had dealt us.

Couple years later, I visited her and her family (her brother is also one of my best friends). Both of us admitted that we loved each other, and we both admitted that it was different than just a friendship. But, we also knew that life was taking us in different directions. Later on, I married, and she is married now. I am divorced, but we still speak. I can tell that both of us wonder what might have been, but we don't live in the past. I am glad she is still part of my life.

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 01/16/10 06:42 PM

I shared this already, in email form. But, I will share it again here.

I was 17, and I had this girl who was my best friend. We did alot together, and we just "got" one another. I would go to her about chick things, and she would come to me when a dude broke her heart. We both knew that their was a deeper feeling there between us, but we didn't want to tarnish what we had...at least that is how we acted.

Then I found out she was moving, and I was having a hard time deciding if I should tell her. In the end, I thought I was going to. But on the night she left, we stood there hugging and crying....but I never said a word. Neither did she, but I could feel that she wanted to say how she felt. It wasn't a tension filled moment. The both of us realized that things were gonna change, and we accepted what life had dealt us.

Couple years later, I visited her and her family (her brother is also one of my best friends). Both of us admitted that we loved each other, and we both admitted that it was different than just a friendship. But, we also knew that life was taking us in different directions. Later on, I married, and she is married now. I am divorced, but we still speak. I can tell that both of us wonder what might have been, but we don't live in the past. I am glad she is still part of my life.

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Sat 01/16/10 06:56 PM
I met Robert when I was 16, he was 20 we both worked for a Churches Fried Chicken that was not far from my house. We started out as friends just hanging out. He had blonde hair and the softest hazel eyes. He was the most kindest and gentle person I had ever met. He was a perfect gentleman never tried anything beyond a hug and kisses.

I use to sit on the hood of his car and he would stand in front of me as we looked up at the stars and spoke of the dreams ahead of us.

One of those nights as we were at the car talking he told me he had applied for another job at Brown n Root in Granbury. He continue to explain in order for the future he would need a better job then working at a chicken place.

Even though I did agree with him it would mean that we would not be able to see each as much as we had been. I had no clue that those moments would be etched within my memories always wondering what would have been.

Approximately three weeks later while Robert was working on the night shift. As he was walking around one of the buildings he had stooped down for something. Another worker driving a heavy piece of equipment came around the corner and did not see him. It happen so fast they said he never knew what hit him.

I still to this day have his obit as well as a small poster from an Ice Cream shop he had went to that was giving posters out he thought it was neat place and brought me the poster.

To this day I still think back and wonder what would have been. :cry:

:heart: To me that was my lost love................. :heart:

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Sat 01/16/10 07:05 PM
Thanks again to everyone who shared! flowerforyou

myssfytz's photo
Sat 01/16/10 07:25 PM
Great thought for a thread there Tanyaflowerforyou

tanyaann's photo
Sat 01/16/10 08:29 PM

Great thought for a thread there Tanyaflowerforyou


flowerforyou Thank you! bigsmile

I am glad that I posted it... it's good to see a little different side of everyone based off their stories! :smile:

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