wow,,,refreshing attitude to see coming from a Male. Nice job.

Now it is all coming back to me, as to why I choose to remain single. So much negativity, judging, intolerance, self righteousness and over the most simplest subjects that have been going on from the beginning of time. Only the names and terms of crap has changed.

Not everyone is cut out for the long haul of a relationship and not just because they are selfish. It can be due to career, life style, need their own residence (space), unselfishness, mature enough to know what they are capable and not capable of dealing with such as long term relationships, married, children and in some cases family.

Just because two people enjoy sex with one another doesn't mean they are sleeping around. A mature FWB's are often exclusive. It doesn't mean they have to have a LTR, nor plan to be married and or trick the other by becoming pregnant (and this last one applies to some men too that will sabotage a womans birth control method).

As far as sex goes,..yes I think it is most beautiful between a married couple of the opposites sex, however as I've said before if sex is the worst people can do then this would be a much better place. Not everyone has sex out of lust and immediate self gratification.

As far as I see it, two people that care for one another truly, share their world, there for the other in times of real need and sometimes or regularly share their bodies HAVE a relationship, but don't label what they have between them. The best place to start in any relationship is taking the time to become friends.

Always dangerous someone always ends up having feelings.