I am sooo sick of shallow people. My one friend Tony has been dropping hits that he wants to start dating me. I want to, I like him but I really don't have time, with school an whats going on health wish I am going to be short of time these days. so I told him I am really going to be busy with whats going on, told him whats going on health wise an all he says back to me is " so I guess you don't have the time for a relationship." Then tells me good luck with everything an hope I have a good life. He does not even wanna be friends because I don't have the time for him. You think if he really did like me he would want to stand by my side through all of this and be a friend.

Rant off

i think you already know this but men are idiots for the most part

I am the shallowist of shallow

Dont hate me!!!! haha

I wouldn't call that shallow, he's being honest. He's not looking for friendship, he's looking for a girlfriend. When you're dating, you want to talk and spend as much time as possible with the person you're involved with. You told him you can't do that, so he's moved on and will hopefully find someone who has time for him. Sorry he didn't want to be remain friends, but it's probably the best for both of you.

From my view point it sounds like all he really wanted was sex. If he really wanted a relationship with you, he would still be there, as your friend, supporting you through your difficult time.

You know maybe he wants a relationship.

Shallow Hal is a rookie compared to me

He really said "good luck with everything an hope I have a good life"? Two words spring to mind ..... Good Riddance

Its messed up. why is it soo hard to find friends who can understand that time is limited for me right now. God I only need a couple more months then things will be easier.

I agree with you planejumper. If he REALLY wanted to be with me he would be here.

i think if he really liked u he would of become friends with u and help eny way he can and when u felt u were ready then he would be there.... but guys are not all that bright so u kinda hav to give them a push...but if he just up and left after u said u were to busy at this time then scrow him hes not worth ur time

opps meant to say "hope you have a good life" my bad. sorry.

he does but I don't have that kind of time right now.

So anouther words, either you don't like him. Or you cant find 30 minutes to pleasure him. Just have him around to fix your stuff for ya.

Oh puleeze, you don't know shallow. I only use men for their c0cks and wallets. Both, the bigger the better I say!

really you think that? When he lives about 45mins away its a little hard to find time to get over there. I don't have time for anything these days! I don't see my parents or my other friends. When weekends get here I still have to study for up coming tests. Sorry but my future is important to me! An with these health issues that just arose I will be in an out of the doctors for more tests. With that an trying to get study time in, time is very limited!

Just what I was looking for.

maybe he felt you did not have time to be a friend as well? we all werent there so really dont know how you worded it exactly..

For as much bravado as men can show (at times) some men do have very delicate egos. It seems to me that he had already seen signs that you wanted to be with him; otherwise he would have not approached you with this. (given his response).

When you declined his advance he was simply hurt and unfortunately, this is the only way he knows how to express it. (if you hurt me, I will hurt you back) it is clear that you are dealing with an adolescent mind-set here so, be glad you found out now, instead of later when he may have developed a much stronger attachment and really made your life hell.