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Topic: REALLY!!!!!
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Wed 01/13/10 01:17 PM

For as much bravado as men can show (at times) some men do have very delicate egos. It seems to me that he had already seen signs that you wanted to be with him; otherwise he would have not approached you with this. (given his response).

When you declined his advance he was simply hurt and unfortunately, this is the only way he knows how to express it. (if you hurt me, I will hurt you back) it is clear that you are dealing with an adolescent mind-set here so, be glad you found out now, instead of later when he may have developed a much stronger attachment and really made your life hell.



I was thinking the same thing. well put

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Wed 01/13/10 07:56 PM

For as much bravado as men can show (at times) some men do have very delicate egos. It seems to me that he had already seen signs that you wanted to be with him; otherwise he would have not approached you with this. (given his response).

When you declined his advance he was simply hurt and unfortunately, this is the only way he knows how to express it. (if you hurt me, I will hurt you back) it is clear that you are dealing with an adolescent mind-set here so, be glad you found out now, instead of later when he may have developed a much stronger attachment and really made your life hell.

Very true.

I told him I didn't have time for a relationship but can prob make sometime to hang out every now an then but not all the time needed for a relationship.

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Wed 01/13/10 08:40 PM


For as much bravado as men can show (at times) some men do have very delicate egos. It seems to me that he had already seen signs that you wanted to be with him; otherwise he would have not approached you with this. (given his response).

When you declined his advance he was simply hurt and unfortunately, this is the only way he knows how to express it. (if you hurt me, I will hurt you back) it is clear that you are dealing with an adolescent mind-set here so, be glad you found out now, instead of later when he may have developed a much stronger attachment and really made your life hell.

Very true.

I told him I didn't have time for a relationship but can prob make sometime to hang out every now an then but not all the time needed for a relationship.





once people show you who they are, it is up to YOU to remember that that's who they are...my advice would be to move on and find someone more suitable (and stable)even if it is just a friend you are looking for.

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