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Topic: breaking up and coping
iambored's photo
Fri 02/26/10 06:33 AM
i had my heart broken on xmas day and still i cant move on with my life , he totaly destroyed my inner self , i have no convidence now due to being hurt that many times in my life, i get so nervous even being around men, i so loved this guy and he said he loved me also, thats what i cant seem to get over , will i ever get over him?

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Fri 02/26/10 10:57 AM

i had my heart broken on xmas day and still i cant move on with my life , he totaly destroyed my inner self , i have no convidence now due to being hurt that many times in my life, i get so nervous even being around men, i so loved this guy and he said he loved me also, thats what i cant seem to get over , will i ever get over him?

You will get over him when you want to get over him. Your mind is in a state of denial which was put there to protect yourself. Don't force yourself to feel one way or the other. When you're ready, it will happen. Just take a deep breath and do something nice for yourself.

Caldura's photo
Sun 02/28/10 07:07 PM
Edited by Caldura on Sun 02/28/10 07:08 PM

IV Been heart broken to bits my girl shevleft me deserted lts been 4years now an am not over her l think about her every day it left me on depression so am taking medicen , really she told me she loved me an played around with my feeling yep am week person an l need some comforting talk too me any one what can l doo?


I feel your pain man, everyone (male and female) has been through something like this, some just do what was mentioned earlier, physical and mental exhaustion, yelling and screaming, anything that will make them feel better. Get some new hobbies, hang out with your friends enjoy whatever you have left in your life, its been four years man, you need to pick up the pieces and step back out into the world.

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Mon 03/08/10 01:11 AM
My last long term partner told me after 5 years together that she was gay and subsiquently left me and our daughter for a girl 250 miles away just like that.It nearly killed me but I only just managed to hold it together for my daughter.Its as though Id bn living in a lie for 5 years ,we seemed to be such a happy couple I dont think I will ever fully get over it.

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