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Topic: Really?!!?!?!
redhead44613's photo
Sun 01/10/10 04:58 PM
Ok there is this one guy I started talking to a while ago, after a while I came to realize he is not my type at all. I let him know that we can be friends but nothing more, I don't see him like that. So what does he do? Adds me to facebook, his yahoo IM an will not stop texting me!!! frustrated Why do people do this.

I did not know he was like this.

Morgoth's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:01 PM
Can you say "Obsessed"??!
Send him to me and he shall spend eternity toiling in the mines of Angband while his master's whips inflict endless pain upon him devil

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Sun 01/10/10 05:01 PM
scared Stalker Status scared

redhead44613's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:02 PM

Can you say "Obsessed"??!
Send him to me and he shall spend eternity toiling in the mines of Angband while his master's whips inflict endless pain upon him devil
devil devil don't tempt me

ledi180's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:03 PM
That sux! You can block him from FB and Yahoo right? If he doesn't stop texting, report him to the police?

redhead44613's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:05 PM

That sux! You can block him from FB and Yahoo right? If he doesn't stop texting, report him to the police?
yeah I can block him from yahoo, not sure bout FB. maybe if I ignore him he will leave me alone.

ledi180's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:06 PM
You can 'unfriend' him from FB. I'd be pissed if he was wasting my txts!

ambuh_massacre's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:06 PM
I hate guys like that!
Tell him to stop, and if he doesn't, then maybe report him to the police.

Goofball73's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:07 PM
Tell him to stop stalking me too!!rant rant laugh laugh

redhead44613's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:08 PM

Tell him to stop stalking me too!!rant rant laugh laugh
rofl

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:10 PM
Block him and unfriend him on FB. You can do both. Call your cell phone service to find out how to block his texts. Sorry you are dealing with this. :cry: brokenheart flowerforyou

redhead44613's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:12 PM

Block him and unfriend him on FB. You can do both. Call your cell phone service to find out how to block his texts. Sorry you are dealing with this. :cry: brokenheart flowerforyou
did both..gonna see if me ignoring him will do anything first.

DTHRomeo's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:13 PM
But ... but ... you said it was Ok to text surprised surprised surprised rofl rofl rofl

redhead44613's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:13 PM

But ... but ... you said it was Ok to text surprised surprised surprised rofl rofl rofl
devil devil you can anytime you want to cutie

centered's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:14 PM
Why do people do this.


Because you said, "nothing more than friends".

He now sees it as a challenge. It's simple, really, "Un-friend" him
from FB and remove him (block) him from your IM, and you can
have his # blocked (phone). You might even ask him to grow up.

DTHRomeo's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:15 PM


But ... but ... you said it was Ok to text surprised surprised surprised rofl rofl rofl
devil devil you can anytime you want to cutie


bigsmile

centered's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:17 PM
did both..gonna see if me ignoring him will do anything first.


Ignoring will work, but it might take longer than you think
(dependent upon his obsessiveness) - just be sure to
completely ignore him and not cave in, even once.

kc0003's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:18 PM
According to all of the "why do men....and...why do women"
threads around here, all you have to do is
tell him you are madly in love with him and you want to marry him,
you either "are" pregnant or plan to be soon
and he should run like hell...

If that doesn't work, you may have a real weirdo on your hands.

redhead44613's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:21 PM

According to all of the "why do men....and...why do women"
threads around here, all you have to do is
tell him you are madly in love with him and you want to marry him,
you either "are" pregnant or plan to be soon
and he should run like hell...

If that doesn't work, you may have a real weirdo on your hands.
hahahahahahaha

s1owhand's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:23 PM

Ok there is this one guy I started talking to a while ago, after a while I came to realize he is not my type at all. I let him know that we can be friends but nothing more, I don't see him like that. So what does he do? Adds me to facebook, his yahoo IM an will not stop texting me!!! frustrated Why do people do this.

I did not know he was like this.


it is strictly an ego thing on his part. he just can't "fail" he must win you over. he can't give up or it will be a blow to his frail ego. he is too proud to be dumped. he needs counseling and someone to firmly tell him to BACK OFF - preferably a male relative of yours who looks like someone you don't want to if you seek a with.

whoa

it shows shocking insecurity and immaturity on his part but you cannot be friends with such a person until they learn to cope.

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