Topic: Really?!!?!?!
redhead44613's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:26 PM


Ok there is this one guy I started talking to a while ago, after a while I came to realize he is not my type at all. I let him know that we can be friends but nothing more, I don't see him like that. So what does he do? Adds me to facebook, his yahoo IM an will not stop texting me!!! frustrated Why do people do this.

I did not know he was like this.


it is strictly an ego thing on his part. he just can't "fail" he must win you over. he can't give up or it will be a blow to his frail ego. he is too proud to be dumped. he needs counseling and someone to firmly tell him to BACK OFF - preferably a male relative of yours who looks like someone you don't want to if you seek a with.

whoa

it shows shocking insecurity and immaturity on his part but you cannot be friends with such a person until they learn to cope.
hmmmm

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:28 PM
He's lonely.And really wants to get in your pants

sparkey01's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:31 PM
I have a neighbor like that, I just lock the doors and pull the shades. :angry:

redhead44613's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:34 PM

He's lonely.And really wants to get in your pants
frustrated

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:39 PM


He's lonely.And really wants to get in your pants
frustrated
Hes thinking with two heads lady:wink:

redhead44613's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:39 PM



He's lonely.And really wants to get in your pants
frustrated
Hes thinking with two heads lady:wink:
don't most guys tongue2

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:40 PM




He's lonely.And really wants to get in your pants
frustrated
Hes thinking with two heads lady:wink:
don't most guys tongue2
Mmmmmm Hmmmmmmslaphead

s1owhand's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:41 PM
ok let him down easy. tell him you have to cut all communication for a while. make it stick. it will take a while but it will prevent this from getting worse. tell him it is what you need. but it is really what you both need.

then, you both move on.

later if things stay cool you might still be able to be friends - but it will have to be a while.

redhead44613's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:42 PM
ty slowhand.

Wanna- rofl rofl slaphead ill which one are you using right now?

SitkaRains's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:44 PM

Ok there is this one guy I started talking to a while ago, after a while I came to realize he is not my type at all. I let him know that we can be friends but nothing more, I don't see him like that. So what does he do? Adds me to facebook, his yahoo IM an will not stop texting me!!! frustrated Why do people do this.

I did not know he was like this.

Wait I am a bit confused I thought on facebook, yahoo, that you had to accept his request I know you do on Yahoo. As far as texting ignore him. I know if I don't want to read a text I just hit delete no biggie.
He will get the message eventually

kc0003's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:44 PM

ty slowhand.

Wanna- rofl rofl slaphead ill which one are you using right now?





do you even have to ask? laugh laugh

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:45 PM

ty slowhand.

Wanna- rofl rofl slaphead ill which one are you using right now?
The 12pound trying ta help ya here

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:46 PM


Ok there is this one guy I started talking to a while ago, after a while I came to realize he is not my type at all. I let him know that we can be friends but nothing more, I don't see him like that. So what does he do? Adds me to facebook, his yahoo IM an will not stop texting me!!! frustrated Why do people do this.

I did not know he was like this.

Wait I am a bit confused I thought on facebook, yahoo, that you had to accept his request I know you do on Yahoo. As far as texting ignore him. I know if I don't want to read a text I just hit delete no biggie.
He will get the message eventually
:thumbsup:

s1owhand's photo
Sun 01/10/10 05:46 PM
:thumbsup: flowerforyou

redhead44613's photo
Sun 01/10/10 06:17 PM


Ok there is this one guy I started talking to a while ago, after a while I came to realize he is not my type at all. I let him know that we can be friends but nothing more, I don't see him like that. So what does he do? Adds me to facebook, his yahoo IM an will not stop texting me!!! frustrated Why do people do this.

I did not know he was like this.

Wait I am a bit confused I thought on facebook, yahoo, that you had to accept his request I know you do on Yahoo. As far as texting ignore him. I know if I don't want to read a text I just hit delete no biggie.
He will get the message eventually
This was all before I knew he would do this. didnt think much of it. On yahoo you dont have to add them for them to message you.

SitkaRains's photo
Sun 01/10/10 06:33 PM



Ok there is this one guy I started talking to a while ago, after a while I came to realize he is not my type at all. I let him know that we can be friends but nothing more, I don't see him like that. So what does he do? Adds me to facebook, his yahoo IM an will not stop texting me!!! frustrated Why do people do this.

I did not know he was like this.

Wait I am a bit confused I thought on facebook, yahoo, that you had to accept his request I know you do on Yahoo. As far as texting ignore him. I know if I don't want to read a text I just hit delete no biggie.
He will get the message eventually
This was all before I knew he would do this. didnt think much of it. On yahoo you dont have to add them for them to message you.

Well, I know on Yahoo you can hit spam and poof they are gone.

Sounds like you might have to tough with this out. Learn from it, Be a little bit more selective on who you give your number out to and block them on the internet sites.
Good luck

bedlum1's photo
Sun 01/10/10 06:56 PM

Ok there is this one guy I started talking to a while ago, after a while I came to realize he is not my type at all. I let him know that we can be friends but nothing more, I don't see him like that. So what does he do? Adds me to facebook, his yahoo IM an will not stop texting me!!! frustrated Why do people do this.

I did not know he was like this.
...you diva you...lol...
block him..obviously he's an obsessive type...you dont need that hun

unsure's photo
Sun 01/10/10 07:19 PM
I actually had something like this happen to me. I was friends with someone and then he started acting all strange. He was actually a very nice guy BUT I made it very clear from the beginning that all I wanted was friendship. It seemed like everywhere I went, he would add me. He added me to myspace, yahoo, facebook and any site I went to..there he was. I deleted him from every single site that he was a friend of mine..then the texting really started about HOW could I do this to him.
I had to eventually threaten to call the police because he would send me text messages ALL day long. 50 messages a day is a pain in my butt PLUS I would consider that to be a stalker type thing! I think I really got afraid when he was caught going by my place every day after work. He would actually drive through the circle and slow down, so I had to do something.
I think if you tell this guy that he is scaring you and IF he doesn't stop then you will have no other choice but to call the police...he will stop!!
Good Luck!!

Atlantis75's photo
Sun 01/10/10 07:23 PM

Ok there is this one guy I started talking to a while ago, after a while I came to realize he is not my type at all. I let him know that we can be friends but nothing more, I don't see him like that. So what does he do? Adds me to facebook, his yahoo IM an will not stop texting me!!! frustrated Why do people do this.

I did not know he was like this.


Did you actually told him to "stop" or you just assume he's gonna stop on his own by not saying anything?

no photo
Sun 01/10/10 09:34 PM
Ignoring him is not the answer.

That is only going to make him MORE CRAZY with TEXTS and Stalking your FACEBOOK ect.

First thing is you need to Be a WOMAN and Talk to him DIRECT & FIRM.

No I think your nice Candy coating BS comments....yanno the lets just be friends comments. Just Say it like it is....SIMPLE! Make sure he gets point. I think you may be sending mixed singles.

Say that you are not emotionally nor physically attracted to him for any type of relationship with him. And let him know you are no longer interested in being friends with him either due to his creepy nature.

Block him from Face book YES YOU CAN!

BLOCK him from IM

And You can BLOCK his number from your phone. All cell carriers give you this option so you dont have to change your number....call them up and ask to block # ...if you have Verizon or ATT you can just do online.