Topic: dating site gives the boot
RKISIT's photo
Thu 01/07/10 01:53 PM


members held an election voting people out


So what's next? Whites only? No people with disabilities? No Jews or Muslims? Sure it's easy for people to shrug their shoulders now when it's just heavyweights, but where is the line drawn? I think this is only the beginning of a discriminatory country club.
i see your point but i guess you don't see the advertisements on here,they do have their own dating sites

isaac_dede's photo
Thu 01/07/10 02:01 PM


members held an election voting people out


So what's next? Whites only? No people with disabilities? No Jews or Muslims? Sure it's easy for people to shrug their shoulders now when it's just heavyweights, but where is the line drawn? I think this is only the beginning of a discriminatory country club.

They already have those....h-date.com...only for those with herpes...
gay's only...why would they allow women to join?
BBW's only....why would they allow someone that doesn't fit with the site...

oh and their are dating sites for specific races as well...i haven't seen white only(yet) because frankly I think THAT would be a controversy(which I wouldn't agree with) but they do have 'black' only, 'asian' only and etc

markumX's photo
Thu 01/07/10 03:14 PM
you leave out the fact that the dating site is for "hot" people only.

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 01/07/10 03:18 PM
this particular site in the article is a paying site where people vote on hotness and what the members deem is hot

isaac_dede's photo
Thu 01/07/10 06:16 PM
ok, I need to add something.....I just read this site's terms of service..

THEY didn't boot anyone off, you put a profile up and you are VOTED in by other people on the site over 48 hours...if you're rating is not high enough you are not granted membership.

Someone got their feelings hurt boohoo it's a free country and their are many sites find a different one

msharmony's photo
Thu 01/07/10 06:20 PM

ok, I need to add something.....I just read this site's terms of service..

THEY didn't boot anyone off, you put a profile up and you are VOTED in by other people on the site over 48 hours...if you're rating is not high enough you are not granted membership.

Someone got their feelings hurt boohoo it's a free country and their are many sites find a different one


I was wondering, because the OP wasnt specific. If this was a screening process to BECOME a member or whether those already approved for (and paying for) membership were later kicked off for gaining weight,,,,

Winx's photo
Thu 01/07/10 06:37 PM
The article states:

The social networking and dating Web site, BeautifulPeople.com has purged newly chubby members. Members have voted out some 5,000 people for putting on weight.

More than 1,500 members in the U.S. have been sent packing.

Dragoness's photo
Thu 01/07/10 06:42 PM
I hope they lose members for their prejudice. Any person of integrity would boycott the site for being bigoted.

Dragoness's photo
Thu 01/07/10 06:45 PM



members held an election voting people out


So what's next? Whites only? No people with disabilities? No Jews or Muslims? Sure it's easy for people to shrug their shoulders now when it's just heavyweights, but where is the line drawn? I think this is only the beginning of a discriminatory country club.

They already have those....h-date.com...only for those with herpes...
gay's only...why would they allow women to join?
BBW's only....why would they allow someone that doesn't fit with the site...

oh and their are dating sites for specific races as well...i haven't seen white only(yet) because frankly I think THAT would be a controversy(which I wouldn't agree with) but they do have 'black' only, 'asian' only and etc


I have been on dating sites that are for other races and they allow me "whitey" to join and do not kick me off. Just because the site states it is "for" a certain type of person doesn't mean they really discriminate.

This site is discriminating and should lose business from the "right minded" of their members.


XenomorphEyez's photo
Thu 01/07/10 07:35 PM
Edited by XenomorphEyez on Thu 01/07/10 07:38 PM
Meh, their site, their rules. Same as here. Why are people so offended? Nobody gets offended at other dating sites geared towards a certain demographic. If someone doesn't want you, why do you want to be a part of it anyway? I've been deemed "unfit to date" on several sites. Shocking, I know cause I'm so demure. spock

BTW, Do they have a forum? I need a new playground to victimize. Nothing like taunting people that are full of themselves.rofl

KerryO's photo
Thu 01/07/10 07:51 PM

but you can't force a group to accept people who don't adhere to the purposes of that group

you can't force the Boy Scouts to accept gays

you can't force the Girl Scouts to accept 50 year old men

you can't force the VFW to accept non-veterans

so if they spell out their membership requirements you can't force them to accept people who don't meet those requirements


While true, if they are getting public money to run their institution, you can sue and probably win to have their public funding cut.

-Kerry O.

KerryO's photo
Thu 01/07/10 07:56 PM
<----- roadkill on the Beautiful People Highway

I dunno, I'd count it an honor to get 'voted off the island' if they were that shallow. Just as in cars, 'hot'= high maintenance.

-Kerry O.

Dragoness's photo
Thu 01/07/10 08:00 PM
My issue is weight is not a gauge for beauty.

There are beautiful people in this world who are not thin and shouldn't be thin, it is just not for them to be.


Winx's photo
Thu 01/07/10 08:06 PM
The article says this:

"...the election was held because of "numerous complaints" against those who had gained weight. He says dismissed members were e-mailed "good advice" that included a list of weight-loss boot camps."

Can you imagine that happening here?!mad

Winx's photo
Thu 01/07/10 08:07 PM

<----- roadkill on the Beautiful People Highway

I dunno, I'd count it an honor to get 'voted off the island' if they were that shallow. Just as in cars, 'hot'= high maintenance.

-Kerry O.


Cut it out.laugh You're handsome.

Dragoness's photo
Thu 01/07/10 08:08 PM
I signed up on the site and they are over loaded right now so I will see if they let me on and then I am going to give them a piece of my mind.

Dragoness's photo
Thu 01/07/10 08:09 PM

The article says this:

"...the election was held because of "numerous complaints" against those who had gained weight. He says dismissed members were e-mailed "good advice" that included a list of weight-loss boot camps."

Can you imagine that happening here?!mad



No not here but they are in for it at the other site...lol

Winx's photo
Thu 01/07/10 08:15 PM

I signed up on the site and they are over loaded right now so I will see if they let me on and then I am going to give them a piece of my mind.


Hey, maybe I'll do that too!!pitchfork

Dragoness's photo
Thu 01/07/10 08:20 PM
They are headquartered out of Copenhagen, Denmark. I received my confirmation email to confirm my email so we will see what happens next.

misstina2's photo
Fri 01/08/10 02:53 PM

They are headquartered out of Copenhagen, Denmark. I received my confirmation email to confirm my email so we will see what happens next.
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