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Topic: loving..
polson Joined Sun 12/31/06 Posts: 28173	Tue 01/05/10 08:17 PM
She is a special lady. I have been acquainted with her for over two years. And, she has helped me through some really dark patches of my life. A friend indeed!

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Tue 01/05/10 08:18 PM
so my point is.. i knew their house was on fire.. i was angry at them... but if i did not show love for them and their children could i have loved myself? ohhhhh no i could not of!

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Tue 01/05/10 08:20 PM
you have to love yourself before you can love some one else ! Right-on CHEVY!!!!! I agree,,

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Tue 01/05/10 08:21 PM
She is a special lady. I have been acquainted with her for over two years. And, she has helped me through some really dark patches of my life. A friend indeed! cause i love ya pat! your so giving yourself im glad to call u friend!! and roommate lmao!!

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Tue 01/05/10 08:26 PM
and was it was 2 months later, i did not talk to them, they actually lied to me and told me they had insurance.. then avoided me there was 3k of damage on my corvette,<which i only have cause its paid for> yes i was angry i could barely pay my rent! then that! Damn! Not your Corvette. More people need to make sure there roofs don't blow off and chit.........

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Tue 01/05/10 08:29 PM
if you love yourself before you love others, then all you will be doing is loving yourself... If a person has not fully came to grips within their self, as to know who they are as a human being,,and ALL that carries with-that. They cannot be at one with WHO they are,,, to know what REAL LOVE IS.. So as to say I LOVE YOU,,they can SAY-IT,,,YET How can THEY FEEL a real LOVE if they CANNOT even FEEL THAT FOR THEM-SELVES.?? just wondering,,,because THIS has always been my belief. A person has many internal battles to go through before THEY feel that true inner peace..of WHO and WHAT they are...

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Tue 01/05/10 08:45 PM Edited by buttons on Tue 01/05/10 08:48 PM
and was it was 2 months later, i did not talk to them, they actually lied to me and told me they had insurance.. then avoided me there was 3k of damage on my corvette,<which i only have cause its paid for> yes i was angry i could barely pay my rent! then that! Damn! Not your Corvette. More people need to make sure there roofs don't blow off and chit......... they had kids going through their yard all the time, their kids friends.. there was a landscape timber someone pulled up like a joust.. sicking up 3 feet in the air.. and sharp if some kid fell on it they would of been stabbed.. all of it had termites too next to mine and they never sprayed it garbage all over their yard.to trip on. porch so full of crap i dont know how i got up there so fast i hopped over it.. after their house burned.. someone took scrap metal.. i helped was a freind of mine and ok'd.. there were hypademic used needles in the yard like 5 of them.. used.. from their trash or something i dunno.. but just laying out... the mother used them for her diabetis.. still!doesnt matter which of my cars it was it was the whole idea of having the dangers.. and had been told then lied and avoided me.. that is why i was angry!

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Tue 01/05/10 08:55 PM
and was it was 2 months later, i did not talk to them, they actually lied to me and told me they had insurance.. then avoided me there was 3k of damage on my corvette,<which i only have cause its paid for> yes i was angry i could barely pay my rent! then that! Damn! Not your Corvette. More people need to make sure there roofs don't blow off and chit......... they had kids going through their yard all the time, their kids friends.. there was a landscape timber someone pulled up like a joust.. sicking up 3 feet in the air.. and sharp if some kid fell on it they would of been stabbed.. all of it had termites too next to mine and they never sprayed it garbage all over their yard.to trip on. porch so full of crap i dont know how i got up there so fast i hopped over it.. after their house burned.. someone took scrap metal.. i helped was a freind of mine and ok'd.. there were hypademic used needles in the yard like 5 of them.. used.. from their trash or something i dunno.. but just laying out... the mother used them for her diabetis.. still!doesnt matter which of my cars it was it was the whole idea of having the dangers.. and had been told then lied and avoided me.. that is why i was angry! I have to apologize. You did not mention the landscape timber. 3 feet in the air!!! Thats crazy. Might want to try to find a new place to stay....

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Tue 01/05/10 09:03 PM
OUR BUTTONS IS A HERO!!!!!!!! WOW,,,YOU GO GIRL,,and that took guts, and fast actions on your part,,,,,very cool and very REAL,,,, I AM VERY PROUD OF HAVING YOU AS A FRIEND,,,YOUR GREAT!!!!! Bravery or courage,,,JUST HAPPENS when life is before us,,leaving. No thoughts of your safety,,,just THERE'S,,YOU have all the makings for a very good wife,,,,,, But to be real here,,,you done what your compassions told you to do, SAVE THEM NOW,,,,,and TRUELY,,,that took you NO-TIME to give it before you acted,,,,so YOU are a HERO,,,and THEY should HONOR YOU ALWAYS FOR SAVING ALL THEIR LIVES.... Wow,,,NOW I will NEVER get the courage up to ask you out,, hell,, I've never asked a HERO OUT BEfoRE,,,,ALL THE ONES I KNOW WERE DUDES, WINK,

MelodyGirl Joined Sun 01/25/09 Posts: 9452	Tue 01/05/10 09:04 PM Edited by MelodyGirl on Tue 01/05/10 09:08 PM
It's a no brainer -- Love yourself before you CAN love someone else! Too many people are so dysfunctional because they have no sense of self or they dislike themselves which transfers to their relationships. It's a trainwreck! You have to know and like yourself -- be comfortable in your own skin -- and then you can love (and love in a healthy manner). This applies to friendships and relatives as well as romance.

Zack931 Joined Mon 12/28/09 Posts: 126	Tue 01/05/10 09:19 PM
this is in a song... "You've gotta love yourself before you can ever love me" http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x8csos_lifehouse-whatever-it-takes_music

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Tue 01/05/10 09:21 PM
It's a no brainer -- Love yourself before you CAN love someone else! Too many people are so dysfunctional because they have no sense of self or they dislike themselves which transfers to their relationships. It's a trainwreck! You have to know and like yourself -- be comfortable in your own skin -- and then you can love (and love in a healthy manner). This applies to friendships and relatives as well as romance. Well said, Melody!

yamarley58 Joined Wed 01/06/10 Posts: 6	Thu 01/07/10 11:42 AM
PEOPLE WITH HUMILITY DONT THINK LESS OF THEMSELVES THEY JUST THINK OF THEMSELVES LESS

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Thu 01/07/10 12:19 PM
PEOPLE WITH HUMILITY DONT THINK LESS OF THEMSELVES THEY JUST THINK OF THEMSELVES LESS I like that one,, I was raised on this one God is first and noone should come between God and I, which means noone comes before me plenty are of equal importance though

Xaki Joined Thu 01/07/10 Posts: 15	Thu 01/07/10 01:42 PM
It depands upon how you interpret the term "loving your self"-Respecting oneself is fine but if it's leading to selfishness such as treating other people as inferior based on weak reason then it's not what should i suggest.So you can love others as well and remember loving oneself is not about maintaining standerd's and stuff.In the end of the day you know your paradigms and mentality.You know better. Good luck