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wannacuddlewthme's photo
Mon 01/04/10 09:14 PM
dad stuff is TOUGH/Love it but sometimes me and him butt heads and he wants mom.GEEZgrumble sad2 slaphead

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 01/04/10 09:17 PM
This single mom thing is tough and they cried for daddy when they were little, now they hate em....tough gig. flowerforyou

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Mon 01/04/10 09:21 PM

This single mom thing is tough and they cried for daddy when they were little, now they hate em....tough gig. flowerforyou
Well maybe he might figure that out.But right now he wants{dad has no number to get a hold of herfrustrated }

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 01/04/10 09:43 PM


This single mom thing is tough and they cried for daddy when they were little, now they hate em....tough gig. flowerforyou
Well maybe he might figure that out.But right now he wants{dad has no number to get a hold of herfrustrated }


flowerforyou

Sorry..I understand, truly

Just listen to him

Jill298's photo
Mon 01/04/10 10:14 PM
went thru that with my daughter wanting her dad and no way to get ahold of him.
It gets worse before it gets better. But it does get better. You just gotta support him and be the best dad you can be.

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Mon 01/04/10 10:20 PM

went thru that with my daughter wanting her dad and no way to get ahold of him.
It gets worse before it gets better. But it does get better. You just gotta support him and be the best dad you can be.
Thanksflowerforyou

Jill298's photo
Mon 01/04/10 10:23 PM
how old is your son?

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Mon 01/04/10 10:24 PM

how old is your son?
4.5 in september

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 01/04/10 10:26 PM
Has he calmed down yet?

Jill298's photo
Mon 01/04/10 10:27 PM


how old is your son?
4.5 in september
You just gotta keep him occupied and tell him you love him. My daughter hasn't seen her dad in years... she's finally learning to really deal with it. It's hard. But thru it all, she knows I'm always here for her, my family is here for her, and she is loved. That's what gets them thru it. I'm sorry you and your son are going thru this.

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Mon 01/04/10 10:28 PM

Has he calmed down yet?
Yeah dad put him ta bed

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 01/04/10 10:29 PM


Has he calmed down yet?
Yeah dad put him ta bed


Your a good daddy, he'll be better tomorrow flowerforyou

redhead44613's photo
Mon 01/04/10 10:30 PM
Just do the best you can do. There are a lot of kids out there who don't even know their dad's. You are doing a great job, just hang in there. flowerforyou

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Mon 01/04/10 10:30 PM



how old is your son?
4.5 in september
You just gotta keep him occupied and tell him you love him. My daughter hasn't seen her dad in years... she's finally learning to really deal with it. It's hard. But thru it all, she knows I'm always here for her, my family is here for her, and she is loved. That's what gets them thru it. I'm sorry you and your son are going thru this.
Oh he knows hes got us but when i tell him more than once i mean what i say.Then he brings up mom.it's just sad more than anything

Jill298's photo
Mon 01/04/10 10:35 PM




how old is your son?
4.5 in september
You just gotta keep him occupied and tell him you love him. My daughter hasn't seen her dad in years... she's finally learning to really deal with it. It's hard. But thru it all, she knows I'm always here for her, my family is here for her, and she is loved. That's what gets them thru it. I'm sorry you and your son are going thru this.
Oh he knows hes got us but when i tell him more than once i mean what i say.Then he brings up mom.it's just sad more than anything
You're right. It is very sad. But somehow you gotta get thru to him that it's HER loss. Not your son's. It's not his fault in anyway cuz kids always seem to blame theirselves for their fkd up parents.
Never bad mouth her to your son. It makes it worse.
I just tell my daughter that her dad does love her. He just doesn't know how to love her or anyone more than he loves himself. He's lost.

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Mon 01/04/10 10:39 PM



Has he calmed down yet?
Yeah dad put him ta bed


Your a good daddy, he'll be better tomorrow flowerforyou
I know.tyflowers

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Mon 01/04/10 10:40 PM

Just do the best you can do. There are a lot of kids out there who don't even know their dad's. You are doing a great job, just hang in there. flowerforyou
oh i am the bestflowerforyou waving

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Mon 01/04/10 10:40 PM





how old is your son?
4.5 in september
You just gotta keep him occupied and tell him you love him. My daughter hasn't seen her dad in years... she's finally learning to really deal with it. It's hard. But thru it all, she knows I'm always here for her, my family is here for her, and she is loved. That's what gets them thru it. I'm sorry you and your son are going thru this.
Oh he knows hes got us but when i tell him more than once i mean what i say.Then he brings up mom.it's just sad more than anything
You're right. It is very sad. But somehow you gotta get thru to him that it's HER loss. Not your son's. It's not his fault in anyway cuz kids always seem to blame theirselves for their fkd up parents.
Never bad mouth her to your son. It makes it worse.
I just tell my daughter that her dad does love her. He just doesn't know how to love her or anyone more than he loves himself. He's lost.
Damn kids:wink: thanksblushing

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 01/06/10 05:51 PM
Believe me no matter how tough it gets. In the end it is all worthwhile. The memories you will make will remind you in the future as you look back on the past.

I raised 2 kids by myself their dad was around but not really he did not do the things with them he should have. He was too busy with his own life even though he is around now both my kids come to me when they need something not their dad.

Yeah I had it rough at times gave up a lot of my time as far as relationships ect. But in the end no matter what it was well worth it.

Both of my kids are grown now and to just to know they always come to me when they have questions ect makes me smile and know that no matter how tough it was I was paid back 10 foe with the love I receive from them now.bigsmile

wesssssss's photo
Sun 03/07/10 11:33 PM
Yes its tough alright Im lucky that I get some support from my family.

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