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Topic: This is a little extreme
JasmineInglewood's photo
Sat 01/02/10 06:27 PM

laugh Jasmine but we see how well the governments do huh? Plus the money comes from the tax payers, which some can't afford to survive themselves now.

I do know there are children that I wish I could take in just to get them away from their parents....so I do understand where you are coming from. My problem is that no one knows how good or bad someone will be as a parent until they are actually parents.


I do understand the concern. I have neighbors across the street that IMO shouldn't be parents. But even some kids from abusive homes have used that to better themselves as adults.


Ok maybe it's not such a sellable idea in the current economic climate laugh . One day it could be a worthwhile investment though. :smile:

flowerforyou

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 01/02/10 06:29 PM
forgot to add Jasmine...I'm not trying to put down your suggestion at all. I know something needs to be done. But nothing is going to be good or guaranteed. Even education. If someone doesn't want to be educated, then no matter how many classes they have to take, it won't do any good.

I respect you for thinking of the children. It is very sad for a lot of children out there.

I just watched my neighbors 4 yr old walk to the other end of the long street to go somewhere and her parents or any other adult was no where to be found. I stepped into the street to make sure she got to where she was going safely. It's all sad. something could have happened to that little girl and her parents would have no clue

but your suggestion is something to think about though. At least it's a suggestion to help the kids

buttons's photo
Sat 01/02/10 06:33 PM

BUt do you think we should make ppl take tests before we allow them to have children. We have to to drive a car...

Heres what happend to me the other day when i was working at the gym.

I had my daugher there, and a man asks me if that is my only child, i say yes, he in turn tells me QOUTE, i have three, welll actually four but i dont count that one..... My jaw hit the floor, he went on to say he is not involved with any of them... but what really kinda shocked me is he really had no qualms or remorse about saying it or being like that..

am i alone here or what...
what an azz! im sorry how can u feel less about a child than u do the others? perhaps he didnt get time with the child? but to not count one? humm... poor child! even if he cant see it for some reason its not the childs fault! its either his fault or the mothers.. doesnt matter to state it in that fashion is purely assanine!

JasmineInglewood's photo
Sat 01/02/10 06:35 PM

forgot to add Jasmine...I'm not trying to put down your suggestion at all. I know something needs to be done. But nothing is going to be good or guaranteed. Even education. If someone doesn't want to be educated, then no matter how many classes they have to take, it won't do any good.

I respect you for thinking of the children. It is very sad for a lot of children out there.

I just watched my neighbors 4 yr old walk to the other end of the long street to go somewhere and her parents or any other adult was no where to be found. I stepped into the street to make sure she got to where she was going safely. It's all sad. something could have happened to that little girl and her parents would have no clue

but your suggestion is something to think about though. At least it's a suggestion to help the kids


flowerforyou

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 01/02/10 06:36 PM
I think I missed my calling to being a lawyer huh? I'm good at loop holes and snags but I use my powers for good laugh

JasmineInglewood's photo
Sat 01/02/10 06:40 PM

I think I missed my calling to being a lawyer huh? I'm good at loop holes and snags but I use my powers for good laugh


methinks you did too laugh

msharmony's photo
Sun 01/03/10 12:39 AM



In theory it sounds great but that will never happen. The ACLU would be all over it.

Compatibility blood tests, IQ tests, personal skills tests, Psych evaluations, and parenting classes should be required before breeding. I feel sorry for the innocent children brought into the world by SOME idiots. sad2

There are countless people who should not have children, pets or any living creatures.



Noone else should ever be given control over reproductive rights,, that is a Pandoras Box waiting to happen. Noone is perfect, some learn as they go, some are naturals,, there is no predetermination that can predict what will or wont happen .


who says?

Why is reproduction and the responsibility to love and care for a child a "right"?

What about a child's right to not be abused and/or neglected?

Which right is more important?

The "right" to reproduce should never be hampered when someone is capable and willing to handle the responsibility. It should be hampered, however, when the person isn't.



Why is reproduction and the responsibility to love and care for a child a "right"?

The question is Why should it be someone elses 'right' to tamper with my body because of what they THINK I can or cant handle. That is noones place to say and nones right to do.

And children do have the right not to be abused or neglected, the laws protecting this right are executed by the CPS.

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