Queen, as stressful and hectic as it can be, it will be over pretty
soon. You are obviously a very well liked person in your community, and
people invite very special people to these events... If you can attend
the ceremonies and not the celebration afterwards, they would
understand, or just attend the celebration and not the ceremony as it
will drag on forever...

But make sure you send a little something, a card, something if you plan
not to attend... You'll have plenty time to catch up with your beauty
sleep.

Cheers!