good thing Terry quoted it

- Intelligent - hopefully with a degree but "life" smarts is good too!
- Caring, open and easy to communicate with but not a wimpy cry baby.
- Someone with common sense, reasoning skills, and problem solving skills.
- Someone who doesn't want to change me.
- He is independent with his own life aside from our relationship.
- He is honest, full of integrity and does not cheat.
- A solid career, and ambition to strive for more.
- Likes to travel.
- Doesn't want kids and doesn't have any kids.
- He supports me continuing through to achieve my doctoral.
- LOVES to work out as much as me and will compete with me in adventures races.
- He likes wine and museums, and is also a foodie.
- Must like footbal, sports and horror flix!!!
- Must be a smart azzz like me.
- No baggage; criminal history; or crazy ex's.
- Must love pets and help me in rescue volunteer efforts.

Since the Build A Bear Workshop is about the outside appearance, I get to include that too!

- Taller than 6.0 or 6.2
- Younger than me
- Tattoos
- Long, blond hair
- Very fit body but not "meathead" muscular
- No body hair -- smooth skin!
- Great in bed!

Now that’s a tall order! I’ll wait though. I’m not in a hurry.

He isn't perfect -- he is perfect FOR ME!!! He will have as many flaws as me too!

I'll start filling your order Melody

Think he'll be ready in the next 4 or 5 years?

BTW....I am not suggesting this is what someone only looks for. It's just fantasy or dreaming.

You can make a long list of traits you want in a partner and even how you want them to look but without chemistry then nothing will happen.

Someone that has WILLINGNESS!

Willingness includes:

Honesty
Sincerity
Caring
Loyality
Family values
Morals
Intelligence
Self-supporting
And willing to meet me 1/2 way

As far as the looks go:

Someone around 5'7-5'9, a decent figure and not too many tattoos (no biker chicks!). I'm also a sucker for dark hair and bright eyes. I'm not hung up on the looks as I've dated girls around 5'3 with dark eyes and 6' with blonde hair. Looks change in time, attitude and personality are everything.

good list shaggy...thank you

daytime....VERY TRUE. couldn't have said it better. yes there should be a connection inside and out. Need to have the connection both physically, mentally and emotional....for me anyway

Unfortunately, too many people will only " settle " for that fantasy.

Agreed but this is just for fun!

maybe that's why they fail???? Some flaws are attractive to me

this is for fun only but, DT for there to be chemistry you have to have things you like.. If someone has only one thing that attracts you then chances are no chemistry but if they have most or the most important things then chances are there will be chemistry...

as Melody said....this is only for fun. It can be a flawless person or can be one with flaws. It is what is perfect to you

Ofcourse it's just for fun. And you're right, sometimes flaws are more attractive than that 100% "perfect" dream mate.

Me too! I have this crazy thing for slighty misaligned teeth either top or bottom row.

I also like big Roman or Italian noses!!

The little imperfections are crazy sexy.

You shouldn't refer to yourself as an "imperfection" haha

I know this very nice man with a long list of good traits that I want but I just do not feel any chemistry there. Hmm not sure why. He would marry me today if I said lets go ahead.

let me rephrase it then....when you dream or fantasize....what kind of person is it

You need a dose of love potion number 9

is that like Irishing up a coffee???