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LOL@She giving me chocolate..if only it were that easy to fix..but thank
you sweetie

Lisa...

I think the sound of someone's voice means alot. But then there are so
many other contributing factors to think about

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Lady, it can be that easy to fix, have some faith in
yourself................you are woman, hear yourself ROAR !!!!!

thanks puffins you are right



Lady i think you are very beautiful go out and show the world today how
much you shine your smile will surely melt the heart of at least a dozen
people
i know it has melted mine

awww..Thank you Lisa..you're such a good person

Actually its not easily fixed..i have had it for 28yrs i was born with
depression..its apart of my condition..its not going anywhere anytime
soon.

{{{{ Lady }}}}Mind over matter dear, mind over matter combined with
prayers and counselling. I have counselled many people who have done a
life time of self harm, it takes some time but it can be gotten rid of
or aliviated to a degree where life came be bearable.

Lisa

Bonny, you always know just what to say. IMHO Michael is lucky to have
such a wise and beautiful lady in his life. :)

I've seen doctors..I've been on medication..nothing has helped..and
after so many years of seeing shrinks and being on useless meds I got
online and did my research..it is part of my condition..theres nothing
that can be done for it..so I've just basically tried to get through day
after day without wanting to smack somebody..lol

Hi SheNerd,

Yes I am a very lucky man, and love Bonny very much. Her wisdom is
overwhelmingly practical as well as sound. This has a lot to do with her
back ground.

She truly is the greatest,

michael

{{{{ Lady }}}} almost all doctors are in their field to make money, and
make money they do. Why cure you after a few visits when they can keep
you coming back for "more treatment" Counselling is an art, you have to
love what you do and have an intense desire for wanting others to live
life to their full potential. I have volunteered my counselling skills
to organisations here in the UK, because first and foremost I care about
all humankind, you need to find someone who does not have $ signs in
their eyse when you consult them seeking a cure, nothing, but nothing is
impossible. You may not have found the right formulae in the counsellors
you have sought in the past, you are too young to give up the fight.You
have a life time ahead of you try to make the best of all opportunities
presented to you.Don't give up hope.

Bonny and Michael,

I wish you both all the love and happiness in the world as you are two
very amazing and special people. :)

SheNerd :)

I know that they only want money..thats the way its been for 28yrs but
you cant cure something that has no cure tho..they have cut me open
30times..each time telling me that it will at least stop my pain..but it
never does..so yeah you kinda figure out after that many times that they
just wanna be paid..but I decided awhile back that they will NOT be
doing anymore experiental surgeries on me..theres only one type now that
I will let them do and thats only cause I have no choice but to get that
one done.

{{{{{ SheNerd }}}}} I speak for both Michael and myself when I extend
a heartfelt thank you. We do feel special, and we are going share some
of that good feeling here with our family. We do love you all and feel
truly blessed to have made so many good friends here on JSH. God bless

{{{{ Lady }}}} no disrespect to you, but I have been taught that "God
helps those who help themselves" you are in control of most of what goes
on in your life at some point in time. I am not doubting you on the
medical or physical grounds, all I am saying is that you have to have a
burning desire to achieve the best for yourself, and go out and get it.
Take heart from the likes of Louise hay who had cancer of the vigina and
overcame that, she ri-invented herself. There is no-one who could and
would love you more than you could love yourself. I know it is hard for
you at the moment, I reiterate my earlier statement " you are woman,
ROAR " Reclaim you for you, you are the only one who is capable of that,
others may be able to help so far but the final say is down to you. I do
not mean to preach to you but I think you are worthy of a lot more and
need to fight back !! will yourself well mentally, dream of the things
you can achieve, all achievements start off as dreams...............
Stephen Hawkins, ( actually went for a space ride last month) he's wheel
chair bound and cannot talk without the aid of a machine, and he is not
as half as pretty as you. I will bw keeping an eye on you
ma'am.

Bonny..I know what I am worth..I did not say that I did not love
myself..I just know what my life is like am and what I am and am not
capable of..I know what I have gone through and will continue to go
through unless they find a cure for SB.Actually its the people around me
that don't see in me what I see..from family members to strangers..I
should shut up now..bye.

sound of a person's voice can be soothing to one's soul. It brings back
memories too when we were kids or a baby and our parents and the people
around us used to talk softly and pleasantly and then when we got in
trouble how the tones changed when our parents or people around us got
worried,afraid,sad,angry. So, when i talk to a women i tend to lower my
voice to a more pleasant volume and sound because i want her to feel
comfortable and not nervous. I want her to be in harmony with my voice
not in chaos.You want to sooth,relax, make a woman feel safe and secure
with your voice. Not irritate or upset and even make her nervous. Within
a voice the tone can be translated in emotions that can bepleasant and
then harsh. So, when talking to whoever it be make sure that at the time
you know what your mood is like because you might give the wrong signals
and make someone feel bad when you were trying to make someone feel
good.

Good advice, Paladin.