Looking for a MAN to take care of me!!!! Apply Now!




Okay.... this came up in a different thread that I posted. Someone had sent me a 'mean' message on another site about my profile. So I put that up for discussion here on M2. It was indictated that my profile screams that I want someone to take care of me....


So, I am opening it up to the floor...


Does my profile indicate or 'scream' that I am looking for a man to take care of me?

Hell NO!! Where do people come up with this crap. Your photos also look like you are someone who is assertive and can take care of herself.

No, and even if it did, you'd be in for a world of hurt if you were looking for a man to take care of you, most men aren't interested in that anymore. When I was in college I had a guy friend who was only 18 and he was looking for a woman to take care of him.

No thanks I have a child to take care of

Hey...yr gettin' booty calls! That's a very good start!

Gold digger

Well, if I am... I am not very good at it! I don't have any gold!

You're doing it wrong!

well, I have been a single parent for almost 7 years now. I am in graduate school. I have been living on my own for over 10 years now. If I wanted someone to take care of me, I am sure it would have happened already. I have been single for 3 years... and before the last serious relationship I was single for longer.

I am definately doing something wrong, if I want someone to take care of me!

You seem like a screamer to me alright.

And wouldn't you like to know!

Quite the contrary. Your profile comes off as being that of an independant, well adjusted person.

Feel free to share my Tanya Love. Is it true?

How have you been, btw? Long time no chitty-chatty!

Take care of...I'm not sure what that term even means. I take care of my children..so does that mean you want to be treated like a child???

Isn't it funny... that a women who can take care of not only herself, but a child and has goals and aspirations... is educated and determined in life ... And is working hard to make something of herself... is undermined for being 'b*tchy' or 'snob' or 'stuck-up' or 'looking for a man to take care of her'

I know I am b*tchy.... but for pete's sakes... I come from dirt poor family. I have done and acquired everything I have on my own! I don't come from priviledge. I am not like some of my classmates that are in graduate school to look for a husband. One out right said that her goal was to be married to a senator before the age of 24

I just don't get it. Yes! I have standards... and yes, I would prefer someone that is intelligent (and possibly the same level of education).... but for pete's sakes!!

How in the heck does my freakin' profile scream that I am looking for someone to take care of me?!??!?!??

Thank you!

I am hanging in there... been a rough few months! But it's rough for just about everyone up here in michigan and lots of other places!

From listening to some of the dating stories of female friends, such attacks, either in person or online are common place, primarily when someone feels rejected in some manner.

You should be flattered. Anyone who takes time to email you to grouse that you are "looking for a man to take care of you," is probably insecure that you are the contrary. Plus, he obviously is looking for an excuse to talk wtih you or he'd just move to the next profile in peace.

Tanya need a man to take care of her --- OH HELL NO!!!

Betcha just scared/intimidated 'him/them' off and that was their only course of retort.