I dont care what other people think of me.....

{{{{{{{{{{Good morning JSH }}}}}}}}}}
I read with great interest the post from Daleray,I felt moved to add my
two pennies worth. I think that men and women who "play" with other
people's emotions are in themselves insecure, immature and not worth the
effort at the best of times. To give love and respect to another you
have to love and respect yourself before you can radiate those feelings
to another.Lacking in self confidence is a major fault in most people
who hurt someone else "just for the heck of it" So, they mess with you
to promote their own self importance.

Know this, and know it well, a person who "plays" another's feelings and
emotions does so because of THEIR low self esteem in 9 cases out of
10. Instead of saying to yourself " why me, why did he/ she toy with my
emotions" remind yourself that you are a good person and worthy of
respect and love from the person you choose, Whatever and however we
are feeling inside sometimes generates the type of person we attract,
We all hit a low point sometimes and some people are only too willing to
capitalize on another's weakness. This is not your fault.


Great relationships are based on a solid underlying friendship and the
extent to which the needs of both partners are being met - and this
requires constant re-negotiation.First take a look at your relationship
with yourself, as this will determine how you show up in every other
relationship.Do you know what you want / need in your relationship? And
are you prepared to share and request this?
If you are not taking yourself seriously then others will take your
lead.We teach others how to treat us and this is why we must look at how
we are with ourselves first.


" LET NOT THE SUN GO DOWN ON YOUR WRATH "

(Looks like JSH's shutdown for maintenance caused many multiple
posts...)

happens every mornin' at that time--

Thank you to all the Lady that read this and Posted..


Miss Bonnie.. You came to the Heart of it... Thank you...

I would like to say that Not all women are this heartless...

So true. Some of us are all heart and suspenders and chcolates... :)

that is true i like it

I agree delray. Women need to look at guys like the one you posted
about. Props on the thread!

Thank you LLibra...

have you ever thought about meeting women at churches?

I would assume that some people that attend church use their moral
compass that God gave each of us, and are good people.


..........back on page 3, but.....

Excellent idea, Bear. :)

most people here hate me because I didnt go with the flow on Memorial
Day, in that I dont support this war or troops..

so my ideas are easilly ignored and some have even called me a child
molestor....

go figure.

That sucks. IMHO, everyone is entitled to his/her own opinions, that's
what makes this country great, freedom of speech and expression.

well shenerd you learned a good lesson.

I gave good advice.

and I have been ignorned because of my freedom of expression on another
post, and have even been demonized for it, for the fact that I dont
support the troops anyway.

but, life goes on.


good luck to both of you.

Aw Bear, I still say that sucks. I support reedom of expression in all
forms, whether I agree with the expression or not. Personally, I
support the troops, but not the war as I am anti-war.

I meant freedom. I really need to take a typing course or something. I
guess posting on these boards is good practice.