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Topic: Here's my story
Ruth34611's photo
Thu 12/10/09 12:32 PM


Thank you all for agreeing with me and not suggesting that perhaps I am just much uglier in real life and that's why he prefers to webcam.

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Definitely NOT ugly. Yr beautiful actually. flowerforyou :tongue:


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That was really sweet. I blushed for real. flowerforyou

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Thu 12/10/09 02:35 PM
Edited by Moblodite on Thu 12/10/09 02:37 PM
Do you really need the head games so badly?
ask him point blank,
**** or get off the pot!<<<--- I meant to tell him this!

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 12/10/09 03:11 PM


ask him point blank,



I would if I actually cared enough.

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 12/10/09 03:40 PM



ask him point blank,



I would if I actually cared enough.


If it did not bother you to a degree you would not ask about it. Myself I'm with you he is most likely still seeing the other girl or someone else.

If it was me I would just tell him hey it's been real great to see ya again but no deal on any future dates and ohhhhhhhhhhhhh hell no to the webcam shshsh Hummmm good enough to webcam with but not good enough to date boy I tell ya noway whoa :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 12/10/09 03:44 PM

If it did not bother you to a degree you would not ask about it.



Of course it bothered me. That's why I said no. But, I don't care enough to ask him about it. I just thought it was an interesting story to share with fellow "daters".

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 12/10/09 03:56 PM

Ohhh it is at that just goes to show there are some that are just as messed up in the real world as well. Some amaze me to live only 30 minutes away and want to webcam noway I mean hell who lives that close and would rather webcam whoa hummmm normally those that are either taken or cheap as heck slaphead :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

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Thu 12/10/09 04:05 PM

Okay, so I find an old friend on FB about 2 months ago. We chat and he asks me out. We finally go out about 1 month ago and have a nice time. We text and email regularly. He doesn't ask me out again but since he's initiating the conversations I figure he's interested. So, I ask him out. He's busy and can't go out. So I let it go. But, he's still initiating text and email conversations but doesn't ask me out.

At this point I'm thinking, okay, we are just friends and this isn't going anywhere which is fine. Then the other night he asks me if I have webcam and makes a suggestive remark about us webcamming. At first I think he's joking but he's not. And, I'm thinking "you live 30 f***ing minutes from me and you want to WEBCAM???" WTF? Anyway, I said "NO" (because I don't do that anyway :angel: ) and that's the end of that conversation.

So, here's what I'm thinking. He constantly texts or IM's me and wants to webcam but doesn't want to go out on another real date.

He's got a girlfriend, right? slaphead


well its unclear to me if you two have had sex or not? If so the guy is loony, if not maybe thats what he is trying to figure out?

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 12/10/09 04:12 PM


Ohhh it is at that just goes to show there are some that are just as messed up in the real world as well. Some amaze me to live only 30 minutes away and want to webcam noway I mean hell who lives that close and would rather webcam whoa hummmm normally those that are either taken or cheap as heck slaphead :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:


Exactly! laugh

Ruth34611's photo
Thu 12/10/09 04:17 PM


well its unclear to me if you two have had sex or not? If so the guy is loony, if not maybe thats what he is trying to figure out?


I know I've been out of the game for a while, BUT back in the day, when a guy wanted sex he would ask a girl out, take her dinner, ply her with large amounts of alcohol and then make a move on her doorstep. Now, you are saying, that they ask if you will webcam with them to see if you are willing to have sex? what

aladytoo's photo
Thu 12/10/09 04:26 PM
Your a very nice looking gal, stay with your eithics.This person truly is not worth your time.Guessing he just looking for a good time with the cam.Delete him ,and call it a day..

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Thu 12/10/09 04:28 PM



well its unclear to me if you two have had sex or not? If so the guy is loony, if not maybe thats what he is trying to figure out?


I know I've been out of the game for a while, BUT back in the day, when a guy wanted sex he would ask a girl out, take her dinner, ply her with large amounts of alcohol and then make a move on her doorstep. Now, you are saying, that they ask if you will webcam with them to see if you are willing to have sex? what



nah.... not at all but some guys cant handle rejection and maybe he was testing the water? I don't know but you know do what you think is best but speculation is kinds unfair i think? Have to be careful though and you have to trust your gut!

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/11/09 06:47 PM

Your a very nice looking gal, stay with your eithics.This person truly is not worth your time.Guessing he just looking for a good time with the cam.Delete him ,and call it a day..
flowerforyou

Goofball73's photo
Fri 12/11/09 06:51 PM
So....Ruth....wanna webcam???:tongue: laugh laugh laugh

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/11/09 06:59 PM

So....Ruth....wanna webcam???:tongue: laugh laugh laugh


No cause you're a tease. You'll say you're gonna show me "something" but you never do. grumble

Goofball73's photo
Fri 12/11/09 07:00 PM


So....Ruth....wanna webcam???:tongue: laugh laugh laugh


No cause you're a tease. You'll say you're gonna show me "something" but you never do. grumble


But you love me that way.:tongue: laugh laugh

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/11/09 07:00 PM



So....Ruth....wanna webcam???:tongue: laugh laugh laugh


No cause you're a tease. You'll say you're gonna show me "something" but you never do. grumble


But you love me that way.:tongue: laugh laugh


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MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:05 PM




well its unclear to me if you two have had sex or not? If so the guy is loony, if not maybe thats what he is trying to figure out?


I know I've been out of the game for a while, BUT back in the day, when a guy wanted sex he would ask a girl out, take her dinner, ply her with large amounts of alcohol and then make a move on her doorstep. Now, you are saying, that they ask if you will webcam with them to see if you are willing to have sex? what



nah.... not at all but some guys cant handle rejection and maybe he was testing the water? I don't know but you know do what you think is best but speculation is kinds unfair i think? Have to be careful though and you have to trust your gut!
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