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Topic: thought it would work out
sexy339 Joined Tue 10/06/09 Posts: 2	Tue 12/08/09 12:28 PM
I recently met this guy who was also on here. everything was going okay until the second day we were hanging together he started asking me for money because he claimed his there was something wrong with his tire and I found it kind of odd he would even ask me so I explained to him that I have been used in the past by men because they felt that if they slept with me or if we were just a couple that I was obligated to give it to him. Maybe if I would have known him longer I would of lended it to him but not when I have only known you for two days, am I wrong for this?

LewisW123 Joined Tue 06/30/09 Posts: 2403	Tue 12/08/09 12:30 PM
I recently met this guy who was also on here. everything was going okay until the second day we were hanging together he started asking me for money because he claimed his there was something wrong with his tire and I found it kind of odd he would even ask me so I explained to him that I have been used in the past by men because they felt that if they slept with me or if we were just a couple that I was obligated to give it to him. Maybe if I would have known him longer I would of lended it to him but not when I have only known you for two days, am I wrong for this? If in doubt, go with your gut.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Tue 12/08/09 12:30 PM
hope you dumped him and even took a dump on him

FindMe1113 Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 35104	Tue 12/08/09 12:30 PM
...NO!..you were not wrong! He obviously tried to take advantage of you!

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Tue 12/08/09 12:34 PM
Why is this even a question???

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Tue 12/08/09 12:35 PM
Yikes

FindMe1113 Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 35104	Tue 12/08/09 12:36 PM
Why is this even a question??? ...Don't hurt yourself.....

writer_gurl Joined Sat 03/01/08 Posts: 7673	Tue 12/08/09 12:55 PM
You are not wrong in this...trust yourself. If you have a sense that he is using you, then he probably is Things will get better & I am sure you will find a great guy because that guy is not worth ur time

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Tue 12/08/09 01:03 PM
No..you were not wrong at all. Soooo....can I get twenty bucks off ya for some skittles?

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Tue 12/08/09 01:21 PM
Wow, first date and the little bar we stopped in didn't take credit/debit cards for under ten bucks, and since it was just cokes to cool off with from the heat, the bill was around five bucks. I had no cash, so my date paid. Should she have dumped me right there??????

Italy0219 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 2523	Tue 12/08/09 01:29 PM
Hell no.

XenomorphEyez Joined Sun 11/29/09 Posts: 923	Tue 12/08/09 01:32 PM
Why is this even a question???

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 12/08/09 01:41 PM
I recently met this guy who was also on here. everything was going okay until the second day we were hanging together he started asking me for money because he claimed his there was something wrong with his tire and I found it kind of odd he would even ask me so I explained to him that I have been used in the past by men because they felt that if they slept with me or if we were just a couple that I was obligated to give it to him. Maybe if I would have known him longer I would of lended it to him but not when I have only known you for two days, am I wrong for this? I accept checks or money orders too

angelo54915 Joined Sun 11/29/09 Posts: 305	Tue 12/08/09 02:17 PM
At least he came up with a clever lie.. He was really going to take another girl out on a date later

funches Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 12948	Tue 12/08/09 02:51 PM
I recently met this guy who was also on here. everything was going okay until the second day we were hanging together he started asking me for money because he claimed his there was something wrong with his tire and I found it kind of odd he would even ask me so I explained to him that I have been used in the past by men because they felt that if they slept with me or if we were just a couple that I was obligated to give it to him. Maybe if I would have known him longer I would of lended it to him but not when I have only known you for two days, am I wrong for this? only thing wrong with his tire is that he wasn't under it

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Tue 12/08/09 07:05 PM
Hell no. Thank You, she did not dump me, and we have been seeing each other for 5 months now. (And I have a few bills in the wallet too)

ronny4dating Joined Wed 11/04/09 Posts: 1105	Tue 12/08/09 07:57 PM
He needs to work on him game cause thats a pretty lame excuse! I always use my kids need new shoes! Works like a charm!

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Tue 12/08/09 08:42 PM
Nah you aren't wrong. I have this thing, I dont' loan money to friends or family if I want to keep them a while.

Moblodite Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 1274	Wed 12/09/09 12:05 AM
I recently met this guy who was also on here. everything was going okay until the second day we were hanging together he started asking me for money because he claimed his there was something wrong with his tire and I found it kind of odd he would even ask me so I explained to him that I have been used in the past by men because they felt that if they slept with me or if we were just a couple that I was obligated to give it to him. Maybe if I would have known him longer I would of lended it to him but not when I have only known you for two days, am I wrong for this? You should have given him $2 and then told him that is all the sex was worth!!

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Wed 12/09/09 12:11 AM
can you spot me a $20 ?