I recently met this guy who was also on here. everything was going okay until the second day we were hanging together he started asking me for money because he claimed his there was something wrong with his tire and I found it kind of odd he would even ask me so I explained to him that I have been used in the past by men because they felt that if they slept with me or if we were just a couple that I was obligated to give it to him. Maybe if I would have known him longer I would of lended it to him but not when I have only known you for two days, am I wrong for this?

If in doubt, go with your gut.

hope you dumped him and even took a dump on him

...NO!..you were not wrong!

He obviously tried to take advantage of you!

Why is this even a question???

Yikes

...Don't hurt yourself.....

You are not wrong in this...trust yourself. If you have a sense that he is using you, then he probably is


Things will get better & I am sure you will find a great guy because that guy is not worth ur time

No..you were not wrong at all.

Soooo....can I get twenty bucks off ya for some skittles?

Wow, first date and the little bar we stopped in didn't take credit/debit cards for under ten bucks, and since it was just cokes to cool off with from the heat, the bill was around five bucks. I had no cash, so my date paid.

Should she have dumped me right there??????

Hell no.

I accept checks or money orders too

At least he came up with a clever lie.. He was really going to take another girl out on a date later

only thing wrong with his tire is that he wasn't under it

Thank You, she did not dump me, and we have been seeing each other for 5 months now. (And I have a few bills in the wallet too)

He needs to work on him game cause thats a pretty lame excuse! I always use my kids need new shoes! Works like a charm!

Nah you aren't wrong. I have this thing, I dont' loan money to friends or family if I want to keep them a while.

You should have given him $2 and then told him that is all the sex was worth!!

can you spot me a $20 ?