but thats the thing....the "grief" you speak of....not there.

I went back to him thinking he would try to make that emotional connection that he originally shredded up.

I left once....he begged me to come back...so i did...and because he had different views on things that happened this past weekend he wanted to go off on me and get rid of me...so..no giref about that hun.

He would have had to create a bond with me first....captured my heart somehow....and he never attempted to do so...so...

I'm ok.

I'm not even mad.

I have been single for so long that I'm used to it. I kinda like it. If mr.right comes along then great!!

But there are no tears for him....the way i look at it...he is the one loosing out.
He is going to die a lonely miserable man.

and I'm cool with that

So this past weekend I thought went ok.

I was expecting the worst...but in my mind it went ok. apparently in his mind...it was the opposite.

It is somewhat irrelevant exactly why we broke up this morning...other than his view of this weekend was horrible...and mine was not. I say it's irrelevant because he did not want to discuss things and work out why things happened they way they did. He just wanted to argue. He was not in any way shape or form wanting to work out the differences....so....I stopped him in mid sentence after about 30 min of the verbal diarrhea....and I said "look, I know what you want, you don't want to resolve this you just want me out....so there is no point in continuing this argument....let me get my stuff I'll get out."

So I got my stuff...and I left.

Right before I left I told him I am sorry I came back....I knew this would not work but I tried going against my best judgement....I tried...it didn't work...

....I'm not cryin about it....

Merry Christmas......I'm back on the Market!!! LMFAO!!!

You care about the relationships you engage in so of course there's grief. If you didn't care you never would've mentioned it.

This is just the first phase in the grief process. Denial

I don't mean to give you more grief here, just trying to be a supportive friend.

I went through a similar situation recently.

I like your positive attitude.

thanks

So this past weekend I thought went ok.

I was expecting the worst...but in my mind it went ok. apparently in his mind...it was the opposite.

It is somewhat irrelevant exactly why we broke up this morning...other than his view of this weekend was horrible...and mine was not. I say it's irrelevant because he did not want to discuss things and work out why things happened they way they did. He just wanted to argue. He was not in any way shape or form wanting to work out the differences....so....I stopped him in mid sentence after about 30 min of the verbal diarrhea....and I said "look, I know what you want, you don't want to resolve this you just want me out....so there is no point in continuing this argument....let me get my stuff I'll get out."

So I got my stuff...and I left.

Right before I left I told him I am sorry I came back....I knew this would not work but I tried going against my best judgement....I tried...it didn't work...

....I'm not cryin about it....

Merry Christmas......I'm back on the Market!!! LMFAO!!!

so do ya like florida men?

i try to pull up quick to retrieve it

I have learned to listen to my feelings. I'm sorry you went through that.

Welcome back to the dark side

lol....yeah the dark side....nawww

We will just light some scented candles...set a sensual mood...grab some wine...

yeeeahhh.....

this lady is going to have a fun night tonight...candles....girlfriends....and wine....

....I might pop online while drunk....make some drunk posts..lol

Hmmmmm. Imagining Yellowrose as Darth Vader.....Kind of HAWT!

goofball.....if she is darthvader....then who am I?

Goof....I am your FATHER

Now put away your light sbaer before you poke your eye out

What's a light sbaer??