My big brother lives in Arizona, more jobs there than here. I was going to move myself but my ex made that impossible, oh well maybe when my daughter is older..He lives in Mesa beautiful down there I go once a year

Just find a Mingle friend and move close to them..problem solved.

I think every place has more jobs than here. It's a sad thing but I am sick of struggling.

if only it was that easy. could you honestly see me making friends with you then suddenly asking to move in next door to you? you would think i was sum kind of weirdo.....

Good idea Cherie!!


Anyone out there live in Arizona???? lol

No, not at all. Just make sure you always have something to drink in case I get thirsty...

I have done it several times and still not sure I am done.

Good luck with ya!

Thanks!

When I took off, I got a small travel trailer. You can park in a lot of places for free, like Wal-Mart or Kmart parking lots.

I see you do photography. If you have your own equipment you could use that to make traveling money.

The best time to head out is in the spring time. Gives you time to acclimatize on the way.

For artists, I found Santa Fe or Taos offers a lot. I spent some weeks in Santa Fe doing Jack's Flea Market. Parked, in town for free and no hassles.

Arizona is great also. Just be careful. It gets danged hot there.

Turn fear into anticipation. If and when you decide to get on the road, keep in touch. I have a place in Fort Stockton, Tx. It's right on I-10 and if you wanted to take a break, I have an acre and a half you could park on for a few days. I also have a place in Del Rio, Tx if you wanted to go check out Mexico.

ok, i'll start packing my suitcase now then!!! honestly though, i wish i could just up and leave. i hate it here. the prospects of getting a job here is 0%.

I understand the job thing. I have a good job, my issue is the prospect of finding a good man anywhere near here is 0%...really sucks.

is there such a thing as a 'good man'??? ooops im not supposed to say that am i? arizona does sound nice though, plenty of sunshine. thats something we dont get a lot of here. our summer lasts about 2wks here. if you like the cold and rain this is the place to be. if you move to arizona or anywhere else warm and you ever need a flatmate, put me at the top of your list.

Iam thinking more like south florida. oh yeal sunshine

im thinking who needs a flatmate??? as long as it isnt cold.

Thanks for the ideas and the offer! I hadn't thought about a trailer, although not so sure I could do that with my car.

come on down

I guess I shouldn't say "good man". I really should say anyone that I would give the time of day...they are far and few between around here. I actually would love to live some place where my daughter could breathe easier. She has severe asthma and the weather around here is horrible for her.

i dont know much about asthma so i dont know if hot or cold weather would be good for your daughter. hope im at the top of your flatmate list though.

Right now, I think it would be great to have someone to hang out with while the kids are with their dad. Being home alone really sucks.

Cherie...if I do this, I'll swing by and you guys can follow me! lol