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Topic: I dumped him...So why am I heartbroken?
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Wed 12/02/09 11:27 PM
Okay I am VENTING!!!!!!

I think I am wired wrong.

I broke up with my boyfriend because to many inconsistencies and I could just feel it in my bones. This was last week right before holiday ....Great timing ...I know... anyhow found out yesterday everything I thought was Right on $ plus more.....had a lil chat with the girl he was screwing around with and she is a dumb biznotch. I tried to be civil and a lady and she dove right into ghetto trash.

I guess their perfect for each other! But I still feel so betrayed and ANGRY so ANGRYmad pitchfork

He of course lied when i broke up with him and yesterday still even more lies when out of anger I confronted him. I am no dummy so it is for sure over....and moving on....but he never admitted any wrong doing or even apologized. He just continued to lie and act like I was a psycho and story teller. It's so insulting and frustrating. He is type of man that creates stereotypes.

Anyhow I have a date already lined up for Friday. I actually have 3 offers for this weekend but I am not sure if I wanna even go...if I ll be able to stomach it.

I feel like that Usher song..." You got it bad" LMAO Okay maybe not that bad but bad :<

Tell me Jokes please!

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Wed 12/02/09 11:33 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Wed 12/02/09 11:34 PM

He just continued to lie and act like I was a psycho and story teller. It's so insulting and frustrating. He is type of man that creates stereotypes.



This also comes from the other side as well...trust me on this..

Here is something for you for fun

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Wed 12/02/09 11:36 PM
Yeah I hate liars and fatmouths.

His teeth are rotting from all the lies he spits out!

Thanks for star trek! Do men really size each other up?

Women may size up another woman's breast but never their vay jays....that's funny!

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Wed 12/02/09 11:48 PM



Thanks for star trek! Do men really size each other up?



LOL..you should enter a man-only shower, like a sport team's shower or military.. everybody is looking at each others wiener..first comers it's weird but later it wears off..I just ask anyone looking it mine to give me his soap let me wash it with it and I'll give it back. :banana:

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Wed 12/02/09 11:53 PM
It's always terrible when these things happen, but don't let yourself get too down! The cheaters never do. Or, if they do the MAY learn a lesson, but that's doubtful... Not all people are cheaters so keep your chin up and do something nice for yourself and be happy with your decision. There's no point in being with someone who cheats!


Do men really size each other up?


I've often wondered about that... *giggle*

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Thu 12/03/09 12:26 AM
Don't feel bad because you did the severing. If the evidence was there and the boy didn't have the cajones to admit it, you did nothing wrong. The anger is justifiable, because you indeed have been betrayed. Whether or not you want to take up the date and offers is up to you, but I would make sure to have time to heal.

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Thu 12/03/09 12:27 AM

Don't feel bad because you did the severing. If the evidence was there and the boy didn't have the cajones to admit it, you did nothing wrong. The anger is justifiable, because you indeed have been betrayed. Whether or not you want to take up the date and offers is up to you, but I would make sure to have time to heal.


Well said.drinker

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Thu 12/03/09 12:28 AM


Don't feel bad because you did the severing. If the evidence was there and the boy didn't have the cajones to admit it, you did nothing wrong. The anger is justifiable, because you indeed have been betrayed. Whether or not you want to take up the date and offers is up to you, but I would make sure to have time to heal.


Well said.drinker
Cheers tongue2

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Thu 12/03/09 12:30 AM



Don't feel bad because you did the severing. If the evidence was there and the boy didn't have the cajones to admit it, you did nothing wrong. The anger is justifiable, because you indeed have been betrayed. Whether or not you want to take up the date and offers is up to you, but I would make sure to have time to heal.


Well said.drinker
Cheers tongue2


Back atcha.tongue2

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Fri 12/04/09 07:18 AM

Don't feel bad because you did the severing. If the evidence was there and the boy didn't have the cajones to admit it, you did nothing wrong. The anger is justifiable, because you indeed have been betrayed. Whether or not you want to take up the date and offers is up to you, but I would make sure to have time to heal.


A wise man...drinker

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Fri 12/04/09 07:21 AM
Well the good news is that you can return his Christmas gift or give it to mebigsmile

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Fri 12/04/09 07:26 AM
you arent wired wrong, you just interpret it wrong. you arent heartbroken because you dumped him,, you dumped him because you were heartbroken. That type of heartbreak takes time to end and doesnt just go away because you leave him.

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Fri 12/04/09 08:30 AM

Okay I am VENTING!!!!!!

I think I am wired wrong.

I broke up with my boyfriend because to many inconsistencies and I could just feel it in my bones. This was last week right before holiday ....Great timing ...I know... anyhow found out yesterday everything I thought was Right on $ plus more.....had a lil chat with the girl he was screwing around with and she is a dumb biznotch. I tried to be civil and a lady and she dove right into ghetto trash.

I guess their perfect for each other! But I still feel so betrayed and ANGRY so ANGRYmad pitchfork

He of course lied when i broke up with him and yesterday still even more lies when out of anger I confronted him. I am no dummy so it is for sure over....and moving on....but he never admitted any wrong doing or even apologized. He just continued to lie and act like I was a psycho and story teller. It's so insulting and frustrating. He is type of man that creates stereotypes.

Anyhow I have a date already lined up for Friday. I actually have 3 offers for this weekend but I am not sure if I wanna even go...if I ll be able to stomach it.

I feel like that Usher song..." You got it bad" LMAO Okay maybe not that bad but bad :<

Tell me Jokes please!


Ahh good. Now you can go out with me.bigsmile :wink:

Don't you understand by now that it is never a guys fault? We never do anything wrong. Oh, you caught me cheating babe? Actually, their was a puddle their, and I just slipped, tripped and my pecker just happened to fall into her vagina. Would have been rude of me to have just pulled out, got dressed and left. Ummmmm....why was I naked you ask? It was so friggin hot in her room, and.....Why was I in her room? She needed help getting their. She has terrible arthritis and really needed someone to help her to her room. See....I was just being a good, caring citizen of the world babe. You should be so proud of me.bigsmile

Seriously Rae...guys NEVER do anything wrong.:angel: tongue2 :laughing:

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Fri 12/04/09 08:32 AM
ummmmmmmmm

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Fri 12/04/09 08:53 AM


...come to BUTT HEAD...:laughing: jk

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Fri 12/04/09 10:45 AM
lol

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Fri 12/04/09 10:46 AM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Fri 12/04/09 10:59 AM
devil kick him in the n**zpitchfork

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Fri 12/04/09 10:47 AM
bite his lil pecker off

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Fri 12/04/09 10:57 AM
knock knock

who's there

the future you

why are you sad

cause i went back with my ex

-- that would be the joke of jokes.., sounds like he has his hooks on you, more times than not, people go back with their ex...

roko

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Fri 12/04/09 11:33 AM
Edited by sweetie049 on Fri 12/04/09 11:39 AM

Okay I am VENTING!!!!!!

I think I am wired wrong.

I broke up with my boyfriend because to many inconsistencies and I could just feel it in my bones. This was last week right before holiday ....Great timing ...I know... anyhow found out yesterday everything I thought was Right on $ plus more.....had a lil chat with the girl he was screwing around with and she is a dumb biznotch. I tried to be civil and a lady and she dove right into ghetto trash.

I guess their perfect for each other! But I still feel so betrayed and ANGRY so ANGRYmad pitchfork

He of course lied when i broke up with him and yesterday still even more lies when out of anger I confronted him. I am no dummy so it is for sure over....and moving on....but he never admitted any wrong doing or even apologized. He just continued to lie and act like I was a psycho and story teller. It's so insulting and frustrating. He is type of man that creates stereotypes.

Anyhow I have a date already lined up for Friday. I actually have 3 offers for this weekend but I am not sure if I wanna even go...if I ll be able to stomach it.

I feel like that Usher song..." You got it bad" LMAO Okay maybe not that bad but bad

Tell me Jokes please!
I was right where your at 9 months ago and your totally describing my ex...to the " T "...I can't even put into words how much I understand what your feeling!!!:cry: I would say, because its what I did (but your not me)is I took time off, to realize "ya know, it WASN'T ME. it was HIM" he knows it sweetie and so do you...I understand totally, your frustration, you want to scream to the world "I'm so much better than him", then do just that, whatever it takes to work on..moving on. Just don't go out on the "rebound",thats not fair to the other guy, nor to you, it may make you forget for the time being, but will only confuse you, take time for YOU right now, heal and when you feel YOUR ready...go for it girl, its what I did and I have recently met a guy after taking the 9 months to reflect on ME and realize I DO deserve better, I was with this guy for 18 YEARS, I'm surprised it didn't take me longer than 9 months, but I have great friends/family who saw me thru it and made me see I deserve better. This man I've beeen dating treats me like a queen, you deserve that too. Good luck!!!:smile:

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