There's always going to be something wrong with every guy. You just have
to decide what wrongs you are okay with and can deal with the rest of
your life.

Well I KNOW that. I guess I just need to wait patiently..

For some reason, it seems easier for guys to find someone

I would rule out bars and clubs, are there any free concerts in the
park? we have them every other week here in Nebr. one night its jazz,
another night hip hop Etc. that would be a good start. maybejoin a
health club or YMCA, find something that interests YOU, and then u will
both have at least one thing in common!

good tips. I actually used to work out at the YMCA and dance it out.

I'll definitely cut out clubs, parties, or bars

I think I MUST look to scary or biiitchy or something cause guys dont
talk to me in the real world........

lol it's easier for guys because we don't really have standards.

well honey Im off to lunch hope my 2 cents worth gve ya an isea or
two!!!

boredchick07,

You are adorable, sweet, smart and pretty. Please just be patient, we
were all that age before, so we know what you are going through.
Relationships are hard and it's tough picking the right one. Do you
know the old saying "Trust but verify"? You should apply that to your
heart. Trust your heart, but make sure everything adds up and test his
knowledge of Christian doctrine. The Bible is your sword, you can use
it to cut through lies to see the truth.

God bless and good luck with your search.

thankyou mikey

abstrakt you're hilarious! No standards?

Sure you do! Would you date a skank stank gurl? What if you couldn't
introduce her to your parents?

purplecat, when I get nervous in front of really cute guys..I tend to
avoid eye contact that can come off as b****

Aww thank
you spider..That's my spider!

I've tested guys using the word before. Actually I always pray to God
not to be deceived by emotions or what I might "THINK" is love because
I've been played before where the absolute worst happened.

So God always reveals to me the TRUTH..thank goodness

Purple you are funny as Hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!

yeah I'd date her. I just wouldn't introduce her to my friends or
parents. We'd be like secret friends....

Abstakt typical guy

Purple you are pretty but you look like you don't take no mess. Like
you'll beat someone's a$$

I guess they could be intimidated. You'll find a guy who can handle you

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww doesnt that make me feel special....
whats the deal wit that ,,people look at me ,,i guess they would be
embaressed to be seen with me
well ......
back into my hole I'll crawl...

I don't think there is any special formula to "getting a man" they key
is not to settle for someone like the ones you have mentioned...BUT wait
for the right one to come along and they will eventually while you are
busy lving your life!!!!!!!

You do look like you could woop someone
Purple.AAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. Your still cool in
my book (as long as you don't throw me around too much!!!!)

Thank you Native girl

Purplecat don't say that. You are an attractive woman (no homo to you)
Do you smile? Try giving eye contact or smiling when you see
them I guess ????


Native's advice is helpful so is mikey's.

What do you do for fun?

my kids know ,,I'm a kind gentle soul ,,
noone knows I am a REALLY NICE CARING PERSON , NOT A BAD PERSON TO BE
AROUND AT ALL,,FUNNY TOOO ,,AND I CAN COOK ,,AND I'M INTELLIGENT ,,AND
CONSIDERATE , TOOO NICE REALLY ,,
NO ONE WOULD EVER CARE TO FIND THAT OUT THOUGH WOULD THEY .

I've got your solution. Don't try to play games or talk in circles,
just be direct, open, and honest. I don't mean be "easy" or even make
yourself look available, nothing wrong with playing hard to get. If
you're talking to a guy, and you're truly interested LET HIM KNOW, and I
mean not with subtle hints, most men have no clue how to read body
language or interpret hints. Even more so, if you're NOT interested, or
even if you don't know, LET HIM KNOW.

I can't really say how to "get a man" on a dating site, I'm fairly new
to the internet dating thing myself. In the real world though, if you
see a guy who interests you; for example you smile at him, he smiles
back; just talk to him. Don't always leave the first move up to him, he
may not know you have the slightest interest in him. Just say "Hi", at
the very least, that's usually enough to open him up.

((((((((((Fallen)))))))))) how very nice!!!