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Hey e1, here I am writing this to you all hung over bigtime, on the edges of being still drunk. Well I just wanted to write saying that i do not place blame. i am here because of me and being aware of this is real. sometimes we all have a story y we are the way we are and i just know that i made all the choices that created me. dunno y i am here writing this but i am. seems that past failures replay in my mind and i have to say....that i did this. once we recognize this we are able to undo anything. that is so empowering. but there is a flip side to that coin....all that is good about me is because of me. so where do we go from here after realization? one step at a time i guess in a direction that bleeds happiness from our hearts. this has to be good rite? blame is such a bad word. i have blame. but to pass it along is wrong. so my topic is all about our fukking excuses y we do the things that hurt us and how we can flip that to something that can move us into light. what is it that holds us back? what is our excuse? sry for sounding all cryptic and ****.....just alot of questions coming to the surface and if i am able to vent to the unknown then it is still venting.....
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Have a nap or some coffee
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Hey e1, here I am writing this to you all hung over bigtime, on the edges of being still drunk. Well I just wanted to write saying that i do not place blame. i am here because of me and being aware of this is real. sometimes we all have a story y we are the way we are and i just know that i made all the choices that created me. dunno y i am here writing this but i am. seems that past failures replay in my mind and i have to say....that i did this. once we recognize this we are able to undo anything. that is so empowering. but there is a flip side to that coin....all that is good about me is because of me. so where do we go from here after realization? one step at a time i guess in a direction that bleeds happiness from our hearts. this has to be good rite? blame is such a bad word. i have blame. but to pass it along is wrong. so my topic is all about our fukking excuses y we do the things that hurt us and how we can flip that to something that can move us into light. what is it that holds us back? what is our excuse? sry for sounding all cryptic and ****.....just alot of questions coming to the surface and if i am able to vent to the unknown then it is still venting..... Im with you, I despise the blame game and you will rarely ever hear the words blame and fault in my vocabulary. I believe everyone has RESPONSIBILITY for their choices and their part in what unfolds around them. If someone knocks me out, they are legaly responsible for assault. If I was razzing them about their dead mom,, than I am responsible for instigating the consequences. I have no legal liability, but I think to give people excuse to behave however they wish and then make the person who reacts the only one responsible is unrealistic and unhealthy. A guy has no right to force himself on me,, But I should be more responsible than to go to his hotel room drunk at two am. ,, People should encourage taking responsbility for choices rather than accepting 'blame' for them. |
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Have a nap or some coffee
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Howdy
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How's tricks?
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 nothing new to report. 
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nothing new to report.
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she's good thanks, things good in GA?
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yes they're great! How bout in TX? I'm sure it's warm like here... friggin 80's yesterday and today!
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