I am wondering if any of you out here have met a person in real life recently that the sight of that person literally made you feel breathless. I mean effected you in a way that you felt it was actually hard to breathe.

I believe the other person knows I like them and even if they like me I cannot think of a way to tell them how they effect me without sounding like some sort of whack job or pervert just looking for a piece. This particular woman for me is probably 5 to 10 years my senior.

I work around literally thousands of females that are younger then me yet still of legal age. Many of them are so pretty they will or could be super models. Yet none of the ladies I have seen or met in the past 28 years including previous spouses have had the effect this woman had on me.

Sounds like you need a hooker...

Go4it

No tribbles not what I need or want at this time but thanks for the offer anyhow. Not sure you would be my type anyhow.

This is how you do it, "Want to go for coffee sometime?"

If she says yes, hooray. If she says no, oh well, better luck next time, but at least you'll know.

Best of luck.

You're a naughty little monkey.

Thanks for the advice Calleigh12 only one issue with that idea. I met her in a Diner and she is a waitress there.

I know I need to just ask and go from there but I find it difficult to communicate with her still at this point. I think in this case I should ask her out to something more like an activity.

The idea I have in mind is to get to know her more as a person. I know if God wants us to be together then the choice is not mine anyhow.

SORRY your Pic is NOT attractiVe at all............

Down2earthDebbie
My profile image has nothing to do with this posting. This posting is not asking for your opinion on how I can attract more traffic on this site. If you had read the posting prior to responding you may have realized that.

I am sorry you cannot appreciate the beauty in fine American craftsmanship. I am a firm believer in my first, second, fourth and tenth amendment Rights. I am lucky enough to live in a state in this country that tends to share my views more then many others.

Personally, I do not find the image of even an attractive woman sweating and boxing to be an attractive image myself.

We all have different hobbies and views on here. I believe it is my duty to protect myself and the people close to me from violence and criminal activity. While I am very capable of defending myself without a weapon against an attacker I do not feel as if I could always do that against someone more skilled then myself let alone several attackers with a weapon I feel I could adequately protect against multiple attackers if need be.

Lets just try to keep on the original topic here instead of trying to hijack the thread to another topic.

Having said yourself that you normally aren't the shy type...you are just gonna have to go in there one day, at a time when she's not really busy, and kick your own *** until you just ASK HER.

Let her KNOW that she takes your breath away.

But use humor when you do. Start off with something like " I know this is probably gonna sound pretty cheesy...."

Make her smile. If you can make her smile, you won't be quite as nervous.

Well My sweaty BOXING pics may NOT be attractive to you, but at least I can show my FACE! Not hide behind pics of things! I also don't live LIFE in FEAR that I need a weapon to protect myself..........

Oh for cryin out loud.

I have a pic of my cat.

Or a teddy bear in bondage.

Or Lucy Van pelt.

What does it really matter??

BABY RelaX....I know what you look like & your CAT is CUTE You didn't give me flack about my pics your still my SWEETY!

Oh YES MIRROR I still LUV you too!

I know, Debbie.

But people pick their pictures for reasons of their own.

I think it's better to just let 'em have at it.

* shrugs *

Meh. Your pics are attractive to some, just like the gun pics will be to someone else.

I think attractiveness comes from how people react to things that are said. :-)