Since my fiance' was diagnosed with cancer back over a year ago, I've always had hope that he would beat it. And at one point he did, he was completely cancer free, but a little over 6 months ago, it came back. The day he told me still lingers in my mind, it broke my heart, and I was worried. But he's strong and I know it, we've been through so much together and together we have come back stronger than ever. I got a call on Tuesday from his best friend, telling me that Joe was back in the hospital and things didn't look great, that he was really sick. I haven't heard anything since then, and I've been pacing the floor since then, hoping that someone will call me with good news. I love him with all my heart and soul, always have and always will, but each time he goes into the hospital, hope seems to dimming more and more each time. Is there any advice that you guys could give me, as to make this a better time for the both of us?

Just be there for him. He needs you now more then ever. Show him you will always stand by his side no matter what. Try to stay strong. Hope he gets better.

Just be there for him when he needs u. If no one has called u,y don't u just call them? Sending prayers to him and to u.

I am wondering why you aren't there at the hospital with him... is this a long distance relationship?

Thank you guys so much.
I'm just so worried right now.
I just wish that his mother would call me and tell me that everything is okay.

As of this moment we are, we have met, we have dated face to face, and when I asked him to marry me we were face to face also. But currently I have a job here in Oklahoma, and he has jobs and family in Illinos, I plan on getting there as soon as I possibly can, which is why I'm not at the hospital with him.

I was wondering the same thing, and why you have not heard anything about him since Tuesday.

I'm guessing that his mom has been at work, and his best friend was headed out of town when he told me about this so he didn't get to tell me much.

Why don't you call the hospital and ask for his room?

I thought about that, and I will do that tomarrow morning.
Thanks.

Is there any hope ?. Yes there is hope . Life is full of surprises . You try to see him and try to be as strong as you can . Do not let emotions crash you down . Always stand up to obstacles . Life is not all sweet and honey but one has to fight fear itself . Some people lived with cancer for decades . I know a person who lived more than 25 years with cancer . Best wishes to you both .May the happy days shine in your futures .